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writes:Hello,my question is my gf said that she was a virigin before me, but wouldn't that mean that when we first had sex that she would bleed? Or is she lying about me being the only one? I do trust her but Im not sure because she didnt bleed when we had first done it. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2009): many girls if theyre active actually break that barrier on accident like when horsebackriding even, or do when masturbating.this happens to actually quite a few girls, so this may have happened to her in the past already...and yet is still technically a virgin, so no worries
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2009): WTF, you have sex with a girl and then want to call her a whore? Just because you didn't rip something doesn't mean anything... if you're going to have successful relationships with women you need to learn to honnor them and respect them... they can spot jerks a mile away.
If you can get over this and quick, you need to stop having sex until you grow up.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (31 July 2009):
Girls can break their hymen in all sorts of different ways without having sex...with someone else anyway. Bikes, masturbating, being on a trapeze, falling weird...and not everyone bleeds their first time. She's probably not lying. And it probably would insult her if you questioned her just because she didn't bleed.
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reader, Renee okc +, writes (31 July 2009):
Look dude, there is nothing saying a girl must bleed when she has her first time. I had sex a couple of times and didn't bleed I was sore and it was painful but no blood. Then I finally started doing it more , then my cherry broke and I had blood flowing like a period. Maybe you didn't penetrate her hard enough or haven't hit that spot yet to pop her cherry. I'am sorry but does it really matter anyway I don't think she would lie about this being that can feel the difference. I think you are making a big deal out of nothing and you are looking for what you think should have happend
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2009): no that does not mean she is lying her hymn was already broken tho and that could happen from a girl masterbaiting just bc she doesnt bleed doesnt mean she isnt a virgin
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reader, cbm4090 +, writes (31 July 2009):
she can still be a virgin... im pretty sure girls can pop there cherrys from riding bikes or gymnastics?
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