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He won't let me end it but it seems he needs a break?

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Question - (30 July 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 31 July 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, *essyhim writes:

my boyfriend of 10 months has been really distant lately, sometimes hes really lovey dovey and i times hes makin comments like i dont think were gonna make our relationship ship last a year.. i found a couple of girls numbers in his phone.. he wont let me kiss on his neck.. some times i think i should just end it cause i dont want to end up hurt again... but just when im gonna end it he tells me how much he loves being with me and how much he loves me. he wont let me leave him but its seems like i bother him at times. does he need a break ?

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A female reader, jessyhim United States +, writes (31 July 2009):

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WOW! thanks soo much for ur answers... im pretty much just trying to stop calling texting him... cutting back on it and ur right he does notice me more. ive tried to tell him that i need space but i cant get the words out. its just so hard for me to leave him. i do love him soo much but i guess sometings got to give.

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A female reader, imnotinlove United States +, writes (30 July 2009):

well, it sounds like he wants to play the field but is afraid of being alone (not in a relationsip) I would recommend you tell him that you need some space. Let him get it out of his system and you will have the time to decide if he is a keeper.

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