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Archived questions from: 10 September, 2007 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

I found his secret phone and txt from a girl at work. Hes an alcoholic and we split loads but I hate being on my own so we get back together.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - i have just found out my partner of 3 years has been cheating on me, i found a secret mobile by his side in bed while he was drunk as usual!, it was full of explicit texts to a girl he works with, i couldnt believe wat i was seeing, i know he hasnt ...

He cheated on me when drunk and says he only loves me, but when we argue he chucks that night in my face?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6286 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years and 4 months and i couldnt possibly love him any more than i do now which is a hell of a lot. about a month ago he had sex with another girl behind my back. i found out about it and confronted him. at ...

I date lots of guys but I get rid of them when I start feeling insecure and lack confidence. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6286 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - dont think im being big headed but.. lots of boys ask me out and things butt when i do start goin out with them and im with them and things i always mess it up and end it like 4 days or even a day after because i get scared that my body isent ri...

I think my boyfriend might be sexually involved with his sister!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6197 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - im feling totally diasturbed! i have a boyfriend of 4 yrs who has a sister that is 3 yrs older than him ( she's 24 ) and i think they are sexually involved. no. 1 they sleep in the bed together and thinks its totally okay! shes totally okay with ...

I think my girlfriend wants to cheat on me, what can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

10 September 2007 (M) - I think my girlfriend wants to cheat on me. What do I do? Here are somethings that have happened: First of all, my girlfriend and I both have herpes. We both know this and talked about it a few months ago. Just the other day I saw in her search ...

My boyfriend is on dating sites as single and looking. Is this the same as cheating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - I'm really confused whether I should sacrifice my happy relationship of a year because my boyfriend constantly joins and hides his online (local) dating sites, sex personals etc. He claims he loves me and wants to be with me, but then why would h...

She's keeping us guys that like her hanging and sleeping round her exes house. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6286 days ago

10 September 2007 (M) - I don't know where to begin, my heart and thoughts are all over the place. Earlier this year, a met someone who became a very close friend of mine. Time went by, and I started to develop feelings for her. At the time, she had recently broken ...

How do you find out if someone is taking internet conversations further than chat?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6286 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have known each other for 3 years. We dated once before for 6 months, when he broke it off saying he didn't love me anymore and that he was bored, etc. After that, he hooked up with MANY girls and we both dated around until we ...

Should I split with him because I worry I will get hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6286 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - Ive been seeing this boy for 2 months now. I really, really like him and so I think I should stop seeing him cos Im scared of getting hurt. I feel like Im falling for him already - I always want to be with him, Im worried when a day goes by and he ...

I heard that my guy has slept with my cousin and a male mate. How do I find out if its true??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6286 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - hi, i got this situation that i really need help on,i was out with a cuple of friends yesterday and sum1 told me that my bofriend has cheated on me with my cusen. the person told me that my boyfriend that i have bin with for two years and his ...

I feel he doesn't like the quietness of our love-making (we have to be quiet because he lives with his parents), so he feels compelled to say something.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6285 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - I have a problem I want to address with my boyfriend about our love-making. We are in a serious relationship, and he is a wonderful lover in so many ways. However, when we are doing sexual things to each other he might mention things that I ...

I feel we've been drifting apart lately and that he doesn't feel he has to do anything to keep me, so I removed the ring from my engagement finger until he notices it...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6279 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - Just wanted to know others opinions on whether what i have done today is unreasonable, or reasonable under the circumstances. I have a 12 year old son and split with his father when he was very young. I always hoped that one day i would remarry....

I'm losing my boyfriend because I'm jealous of his kids and I don't trust him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6286 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - I'm loosing my boyfriend becouse im jelous of his kids, and acuse him all the time. i dont trust him....

Sometimes I sing her to sleep on the phone at night but lately I've been hearing noises of moaning, groaning and what sounds like sucking or kissing. Very confusing.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

10 September 2007 (M) - Ok well this we'll be the first time i've truly ever asked anyone for help, especially online in a situation like this but i just can't help this feeling.it's driveing me crazy.I'm currently in a long distance relationship with a girl that i truly ...

We are to be married soon, and all the time I feel I'm going to lose him!...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6286 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - I have been with my partner for 3 years he is wonderful and means the world to me. i am the problem though, i am always so jealous when he looks at other women. I'm sure i have no reason to worry but it gets me in such a state sometimes i feel i'm ...

My fiancee recently asked for permission to kiss two other men before we get married. It has shaken my faith in our relationship. Suggestions?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

10 September 2007 (M) - My fiancee recently asked for permission to kiss two other men before we get married. We are going to get married in about a year. She said she just wanted to get it out of her system. I didn't really think about it much and said she could. The ...

Do I risk damaging our relationship by bringing up the friendship with the ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6286 days ago

10 September 2007 (M) - Hello I have a question relating to my girlfriend being friends with her ex. We have been dating a few months now and are very close, when we met I knew she was friends with several of her exes which I didn't really like too much but I know I c...

We were fine again in 20 minutes and laughing about it but inside I am still jealous, should I be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6286 days ago

10 September 2007 (M) - Confused and need of some advice! My girlfriend is returning to England as a foreign student(we met 7 months ago whilst she was studying English) We love each other very much and she has gone to much effort to arrange a visa to return to study ...

I love her but I have trust issues from previous relations so I've been snooping around and can't put my mind to rest. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6286 days ago

10 September 2007 (M) - My past is not the greatest i have slept with random girls and i had some one night stands! so here is my question - Me and my girlfriend started dating 6 months ago and when i moved into her house i snooped around because that is the pers...

I feel that he needs to give me something valuble materially to show me he cares

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6286 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - I'm really in deep love with this guy, we know each other for only 4 months, but it just feels good.The problem is, that i put so much value on "material" things u know, maybe because im accustumed to it, and had linked them with love which i know ...

She won't cut him off completly and I feel like I am going to get hurt in the end. Am I wrong for asking her to stop talking to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6286 days ago

10 September 2007 (M) - I have a bit of a dilemma, I love my girl but we have had problems in the past. I don't think she feels we can get passed it and I think she has feelings for another. It started as a long distance relationship 6 years ago, I live in England, she ...