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Archived questions from: November, 2020 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Sex once a month... no baby... lazy husband. What's he not telling me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1440 days ago

30 November 2020 (F) - My husband has 2 children to a previous woman and we are happily married with a little girl. We have been together 10 years and I really wanted another baby, but it hasn’t happened (we are both 40), Anyway, my husband has really hurt me. He does...

He's more opposite and terrible in bed... help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1438 days ago

30 November 2020 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now. Its obviously been a very weird year for everyone, and it's been very weird having a new relationship through this time. We get on pretty well, and I have very strong feelings for him.. So...

Should I stay in contact with these friends under these circumstances?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1442 days ago

29 November 2020 (F) - Thank you for all who respond here. Always good responses on this site. Since the pandemic began I feel I have changed. I would think this is true for many. I think I am only realizing now that I would hear from friends primarily when they needed...

It gets me down that I'm the only one making the effort for the family

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1444 days ago

26 November 2020 (F) - I've been with my bf for about 5 years. I've been thinking back on our time and have realized a few things. First, we've never had a happy holiday season. 4 years ago, we were broken up. 3 years ago, we were fighting because his ex sent me msgs ...

I'm not sure how to handle my insecurity and paranoia about my boyfriend's social media account

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1445 days ago

25 November 2020 (F) - Here goes my insecure, slightly paranoid post. My boyfriend and I have been together nearly 2 years, we live together, have a puppy together and want to spend our lives together. However I keep getting caught up in things, mainly social media thi...

How do I help my boyfriend improve his feelings of self-worth and convince him I'm not going to leave him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1447 days ago

23 November 2020 (F) - I(24F) have been in a relationship with my boyfriend (23M) for three years and I absolutely love him to bits. We met whilst I was at university working in retail. I have now moved onto train to become an accountant whilst he still works there. ...

Am I able to be in a relationship right now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1447 days ago

23 November 2020 (F) - Hello. I have been in a relationship with a man for two months. He is a really lovely person. However, I am struggling in the relationship. I have complex post traumatic stress disorder due to things which happened during my childhood and teenage ...

He's declaring his undying love for him even though I have expressed I don't feel the same. I don't want to lose him as a friend! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1446 days ago

23 November 2020 (F) - The guy i’m ‘seeing’ is overbearing with his declarations of love for me. It is unbelievable how much we have in common, and how alike we are. Hard to believe there is someone out there the same as me. He makes me very happy, and i’d dearly love to ...

Should I try to get away from my boring condescending male supervisor?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1450 days ago

23 November 2020 (F) - This is regarding an academic relationship. I am a female masters student and my supervisor is male. There have been instances over the past 18 months where comments he has made have made me feel uncomfortable such as 'don't be a burden' and 'I hope ...

Boyfriend furious with me that I don't trust him that nothing is going on with him and a lady who wants him to do work for her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1448 days ago

22 November 2020 (F) - Boyfriend of 10 yrs standing is extremely furious with me because a woman nearby he does work for is always ringing and texting with all sorts of jobs for him. He absolutely assures me nothing is going on and the extra money is welcome. The last ...

My best friend isn't happy that I got back with my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1411 days ago

21 November 2020 (F) - Hi aunt and uncles! My best friend who is like family has had me as part of her circle during the pandemic. I’ve been pretty depressed and talking about wanting to get back together with my ex with my best friend a lot. I’m not unsafe with the pand...

My boyfriend of 4 years will not marry again so I broke up with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1451 days ago

21 November 2020 (F) - Hi, I could do with some advice as I really have no idea on the best way forward. I was with my boyfriend for nearly four years, like a lot of couples we have had our ups and downs but I did always think we was on the same page in that we loved each ...

How do we deal with our hellion daughter?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1450 days ago

21 November 2020 (F) - Sadly 2 years ago we had to ask our then 20 year old daughter to leave our house and move in with her bf, since she turned 14 she was a total nightmare, always in trouble always testing boundaries and generally had no respect for anyone let alone us ...

Married man says he isn't going anywhere. What does that mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1451 days ago

20 November 2020 (F) - met him at work and we are both attracted to each othe r but he says he has been married for 7 years and have visited just twice,which my gut instinct tells me it a lie but respected that and decided wanted to move away from him but he says he isn't ...

Boyfriend is angry that he found a porn site I went to

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1451 days ago

19 November 2020 (F) - Ok , so yesterday my bf went through my history and found a porn site that I went on , he got so upset that hes making the biggest deal out of it . He says that it's a broken promise , because I promised I would never play with it again . Is that ...

I’m so exhausted and I just don’t want to be intimate with him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1458 days ago

15 November 2020 (F) - I’m sitting here at midnight writing this because I can’t sleep. My partner is acting so strange. I feel like it’s my fault... Our relationship used to be good, we used to be intimate, kiss, cuddle etc. Then we had a baby. My sex drive has never ...

Can I help my grown sons fix their relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1455 days ago

14 November 2020 (F) - I have two sons. They have an older half sister from my husband's first marriage. About ten years ago, my youngest son, Kyle, married a black woman (we are white). My oldest son, Phil, did not like her and talked to Kyle about it which led to a m...

I'm the only woman on an overnight crew. I think one of the workers will lie to get me off of this shift

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1458 days ago

13 November 2020 (F) - I have a problem in work. I started working in a warehouse a few months ago and have been doing really well. After a week and a half my supervisor gave me the option to work nights for time and a half pay which is a privilege usually given to people ...

My boyfriend ignored me when I was having a panic attack

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1456 days ago

13 November 2020 (F) - I just had an anxiety attack. I was trying to reach my boyfriend. He knew I was having this panic attack and ignored me. He read all my messages and was online and ignored me as I frantically typed message after message trying to reach him. I told ...

This has never happened to me before, Is my female boss being friendly or wanting something more from me ?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 1456 days ago

12 November 2020 (M) - I don't know if it's harassment, her being friendly or she's wanting something more and I'm very confused about it and haven't laid a finger on her. I'm male and in my ninth week at a new job in a warehouse and within the first week my female b...

How can I help her to see why I feel used and annoyed without her getting angry at me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1461 days ago

12 November 2020 (M) - Hi everyone, Just wanting a little perspective on a situation. My partner and I have been together for several years. She has gone back to school for the last three years and I have worked full time to support us. She is just finishing up wit...

My boyfriend and I had a fight and he told me to go and have sex with other men!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1460 days ago

10 November 2020 (F) - My boyfriend and I got into this huge fight the other day. I accused him of flirting with someone. I had my reasons. Without getting into all the details, it ended with him telling me to go away. He told me to go fuck myself and to go and fuck ...

LDR boyfriend told me I sext him too much, focus on sex too much, and he prefers more intellectual conversation!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1453 days ago

10 November 2020 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles. Would appreciate some advice here with my situation. I am currently in an LDR. My boyfriend lives in Peru, South America. For the last few weeks we have been having good discussions about our relationship and our future ...

Why won't my remaining family ever acknowledge that I am an artist?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1454 days ago

10 November 2020 (F) - I come from a working class family that was originally fairly large but now there are few family members left. My background was abusive and my career path has not been at all straight forward. I was always 'top of my class' in school and was ...

I have a update and would like the opinions of my favorite aunts and uncles here!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1439 days ago

9 November 2020 (F) - I have been separated with my so called "husband" for a year now. We have a 2 year old son who is living with me in my parents house. I brought my son and left him last year after knewing he stole my money and jewellery for his gambling addiction. ...

I'm thinking of leaving but have no money and nowhere to go

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1463 days ago

8 November 2020 (F) - Hello, So myself and my partner have been together for 7 years and have a 18 month old son. We’ve been through some difficult times and he has cheated on me before (around 5 years ago) however I decided to give him another chance. Since having o...

I really care for my boyfriend but his lack of communication is making me wonder if I want to be with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1463 days ago

8 November 2020 (F) - Hi lovely Cupids, I hope you're all doing well right now. I have a relationship question I need a bit of help with. Me and my boyfriend have been together just over 2 years now. We met through my bestfriend as we needed a room filling in our ho...

How do I get the full story out of my boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1461 days ago

7 November 2020 (F) - I looked at my boyfriend's phone when he got a notification. He was asleep after a night out, and left his phone on the sofa. Curiosity got to me so I read the message. There were 2 from girls. One of them said "Morning xx", the 2nd said "okay Da...

My boyfriend's grandmother wants me to breakup with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1464 days ago

7 November 2020 (F) - Hello, I am in my mid twenties and have dated my boyfriend since high school. My question is regarding his grandmother. Now, I know I shouldn't take her criticism too seriously but it has recently bothered me. Last week my boyfriend visite...

Boyfriend is hinting about marriage but I don't want to marry if he's not ready

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1468 days ago

4 November 2020 (F) - . Hi ALL, My Boyfriend and I were fighting alot this week. Anyway he did bring up Marriage alot. After our fight he said he wanted to live with me before we get married. He then went on to say he did not know me. I paused and stated this w...

I thought my LDR girlfriend was a virgin. She's not and I can't get over it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1469 days ago

4 November 2020 (M) - It's been four months of my long distance relationship with my girlfriend. couple of weeks ago, she told me she is not a virgin and she had sex with her ex once.This came up as a sunrise and this surprise hurts me. I'm in love with this girl and I'm ...