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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Long story short - I went on vacation summer break 2011 to a friend's beach house, she wanted me to meet a friend of his and I did. We liked each other, got drunk one night and ended up making out, after that we started having a thing during the trip and agreed to keep seeing each other when we were back in the city (we both lived in the same city back then). We never saw each other again, we did text each other back and forth for a while but then he stopped the contact. I've always remembered him, I never really resented him because from the start I knew it could be a one week thing and that would be all.Now I've moved to another country for college, a year and a half later. About a month ago he contacted me and we started talking and he told me he missed me a lot, we started reminiscing about our holiday together and he literally remembered every detail, he said he wanted to see me when I was back in town, etc etc. We continued talking for a few days and then he stopped replying, he would sometimes reply hours later and sometimes even days later. We stopped talking for two weeks and two days ago he sent me a text again! We started talking again and he started telling me how beautiful I am and that he missed me and wants to see me and that I shouldn't have left, etc. I told him I miss him too, bla bla bla. And again, he has stopped replying.I'm trying to understand what's going on here, but I can't! Is he playing mind games with me? or perhaps he DOES indeed miss me but doesn't want to get too into me because of the distance? What's going on? Any advice would be appreciated, I'm so confused :( I'm usually able to read a guys intentions but not this time.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 October 2012):
 The only way you are going to get the true answer is to ask him. My guess is that he doesn't mean to ignore you for a while he probably just wants to contact you every now and then. Off course this is confusing to you, so next time he ignores a message or call from you, tell him you are confused about what he wants because he is going so hot and cold and see what he has to say. Although I would not pin to much hope on him as it does sound like it was nothing more than a holiday fling.
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