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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:haiiim in reltionship with my girlfriend for past 3 years..for past 18 months we moved in together...and now we about to get married..the problem is my GF is in love and broke up with another guy as he cheated her before we met and she said to me about her past life.i accepted her into my life and asked her to never be in touch with him through what ever means.she then promised me and said that" i need to share one important issue,after listening to this if you still want me im ready for relationship".i said that past is past and i trust you watever you are and i ignored her...but recently i came to know that she is in touch wth him and even went to places wth him and in all those situations she lied to me.we talk each other regarding this issue and she appolized to me and said never again..but she never said why she did this to me?..but im worried for her..is she in trouble? whats worrying her? what is that she want to share wth me before our relationship start? why she couldnt able to avoid him? i trusted her and our marraige date is very near. my mind is filled up wth these questions..when i asked her she said please dont hurt me further i apologized you and said never again.but still your hurting by asking these questions..is it necessary for me to clear myself before our marraige or trust her and go on.plzz help me.sri..
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (13 January 2012):
The problem is she is the only one who can answer what you need to know. If she is not answering, you should not marry her. You have the right to know about this because it's not her past any more. She saw him at your back, during your relationship. My advice is don't marry her until you have all the information.
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