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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: My boyfriend and I have decided that we were both not ready to buy each other nice Christmas gifts since we are both out of work and are in school. Him and his friends participate in a secret Santa every year and this year the cap was $50... at which point he specifically chose to have a certain girl as his secret Santa (since he knows her well) and then bought her a strapless short dress. Should I be upset? Other stuff has happened with this same friend and they do talk a lot but I know it doesn't exceed that...
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reader, melon +, writes (15 December 2008):
To be honest, I don't really know how anyone can give you proper advice on this one. I don't know him, or her... I would talk to you boyfriend about it, let him know how you feel and how it's clearly worrying you. I hope everything goes ok :-)
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