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writes:i have been with my guy for 6 months, hes great and lovely and we were best friends b4 for like 3 years.but recently i have gettin real jelous of his friend at college, she is in his class and hes always goin on about oh ***** shes so funny both me and ***** hate our lecturer! then today i came out of class and saw him sat at a table with her and a couple others, naturaly i went over and said hi, but he was acting real closed with me i felt like in his head read "why the hell did she have to turn up and all of the others were like giving me evils including her. so i was like ok then see you later, love you!then he text me asking what time i finished col and i was issed and just said like you care. next thing he turned up and explained how i felt about what just happened and he was like i love you , i just left them to come see you ect!but then later while i was waiting for him to finish class she walked by again giving me evils. then i saw him, next thing i know hes on the phone to her, next thing shes there and hes left the group of us to talk to her, then next thing there hugging while she is giving me evils over his head!I was like that is so not ok!i have explained this all to him and he says shes not his type and would no way want go out with her and loves me, but yet i don't feel reassured!Is this just me being paranoyed or what?Help please
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey thanks everyone, on thurs me and my bf went to our college xmas party and she was there and i met her properly and decided i dont hate her asmuch as i thought i did. i quite got on with her even. the next day my bf did tell me she came onto him at the party, but she was coming on to everyone, and she mayjorly came on to my bfs bestfriend and everone could see it, lucky not his gf. but my bf told her no. and that night i also overheard my bf and his bestmate talking about her and my bf saying he loves me! And wouldent risk losing me! also his mate saying the same thing about his gf!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey thanks for the help,on thurs me and my bf went to our college xmas party, i met her properly and decided she is ok, even though the next day my bf did tell me she did come on to him, although she was drunk and he told her no. she also came on to our mate and hes told her no too. i later overherd my bf and our mate (his bestmate)talking about her and them both saying about shes ok, an a good fiend but how they love us that is me and his gf! awwwwwww
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reader, pink15  +, writes (15 December 2008):
 my opinion is simply this.This other girl is attracted to you bf. You can't let her think that it's okay to mess with a taken guy. Although your man has told you that the girl is not his tye, he might not be fully awre of how much this girl is on to him, and if he is than you should really do something about it. Give it time and depending on how they act around each other, you willl find the answer you were looking for.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionim really woried, i dont want to over react, but ahhhhhhhhhh!
on thursday we are going our college xmas party and shes gonna be there! and i wanna F*****g kill her!
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reader, MM1193 +, writes (15 December 2008):
i think its kind of weird that he leaves where u are to go where she is and that he acted like wat the hell are u doing here u get me its really weird but then again maybe he is just being nice
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