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I have to force myself to have sex and don't really enjoy it at all.

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Question - (11 August 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 August 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I really need some advice.

I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and he is amzing. He treats me like a princess and loves me so much. He is the best boyfriend that I have ever had, the only problem is that lately I haven't really been interested in sex.

I have slept with 4 people in total but he was a virgin when we met. While I was with my other partners the sex was good and I was always up for it, but none of the relationships lasted more than 7 months.

I love this guy to pieces and could honestly see myself marrying him, but if the sex is like this now, I dread to think what it will be like in the future.

I have to force myself to have sex and don't really enjoy it at all. Sometimes I even find myself comparing him to my ex, who was amazing in bed but an complete bastard to me. Could this have something to do with it? When we first started going out it was great and I loved it but now things have changed. What should I do?

All I want is to be passionate and save my relationship. I've heard that swapping my contraceptive could help? Any advice will be great!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2007):

yeah, when we do have sex he does satisfy me.

i always climax with oral and sometimes when we have sex.

its not the sex i dont like,its the getting started and having to think about it. if that makes sense?

i just feel lazy and like i cant be bothered.

i do admit he is not as good as one of my past parteners but he still satisfy's me. he is alot better then when we first started going out and i do enjoy it sometimes.

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A male reader, DJ8433 United States +, writes (11 August 2007):

DJ8433 agony auntCan he satisfy you in bed?

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