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writes:Hi, I'm a female 16 and I'm bisexual. 2 years ago a new girl came to my high school. We became quite close friends straight away and I know I was young but I developed a crush on her quickly. When I came out to her, we became even closer and we kissed a few times. She made it clear that she wanted to be more than friends, but it only lasted 2 months and I couldn't stop thinking about her after it ended. Anyway, about 6 months later when I had settled down with someone, she kissed me and said she had never stopped liking me. But the truth is I have never stopped liking her! We had yet another phase of kissing and stuff and she ended it again! I know she is messing with my head and I hate the way she treats me sometimes but she is an amazing girl. She gives me butterflies, weak knees, the lot and I feel like I can't let her go. So.. should I keep trying for her or just put my feelings to one side? Even though I have been doing that for about a year I feel like the person I am with can never match her. What should I do?Thank you for reading.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2007): as the song state walk on by, keep walking, why punish yourself, she aint bothered,she has you on a string, ask youself am i a puppet or my own person, your young, move on and find someone who will give back 100%
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reader, angel_of_xbl  +, writes (12 August 2007):
 seem's to me like she is playing mind games w/ u . i't sounds like u need to find sumone who feels teh same about u as u feel for them...all the time. it may b hard to let go of her, but it mite hurt more to go through all of her withdrawls from u, and then find out she was just using u as a "booty call" {not critisising(sp?)in anyway}. message me if u wanna tlk more.
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reader, Peterk5699 +, writes (12 August 2007):
 Well, as you said, it seems like she's playing mind games. Next time she does it try telling her that she's playing with you enough and that you're fed up with it and that if she doesn't stop you will cut off all contact. I know it will be a hard thing to do as she is "Amazing" (quoted as your words. No criticisms).Of course it will be hard. It always is with someone you adore/love etc but if you want her to stop playing mind games with you you'll have to move on and find someone who won't mess you about.And for the record: Nothing wrong with being bi =]Hope this helped.
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