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Archived questions from: July, 2015 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

How do I cope with all this pain? I don't know how to cope with this betrayal

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3432 days ago

29 July 2015 (F) - I have just found out my ex boyfriend has had an affair with my female friend. For months I suspected something was going on, and so me and my boyfriend split because of my lack of trust. My friend however, always denied it until recently -...

So...she has a boyfriend, will she ever choose me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3436 days ago

25 July 2015 (M) - Hi ladies and gentlemen. I've known this girl for about a year now. I liked her from afar initially, knowing she has a boyfriend. We hit it off real well and everything, and after some time feelings between us develop, so to say. This is all ...

I don't feel I owe him an "official" break up. My friend says I left my bf for minor reasons. Did I?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3437 days ago

24 July 2015 (F) - Is it immature to leave a long term boyfriend for minor reasons? My bf has never spent any of his birthdays with me for the almost six years we've been together. It too four years for me to meet his mum and I've never been invited to family ...

Why can't I just do what any normal person would do and throw him out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3440 days ago

21 July 2015 (F) - My partner of 5 year, we've been seeing each other for 8 years and living together for 5 starting chatting with a girl on Twitter I. February. He's 58 and she's 27. I found out by accident in March and it had already got very deep between them. I ...

I long for this other guy, but he has a Gf now. How do I accept this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3437 days ago

19 July 2015 (F) - Hi, I was seeing this guy whilst I was on a break with my boyfriend, I had a real bad relationship with my boyfriend so things ended! I started seeing this other guy and I have never felt so happy we liked the same things he made me smile and happ...

Do I apologize to guy A for making out with guy B in front of guy A?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3443 days ago

19 July 2015 (F) - I was sort of seeing "guy A" for a about a month and a half. He was great, other than the fact that he lives nowhere near me, so dating on the regular, thus creating an emotional attachment, was just not going to happen. He is really good frie...

Is it possible to be just Friends to him, after losing my virginity to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3443 days ago

19 July 2015 (F) - I lost my virginity at the beginning of last year to a co-worker. And moved out of state back to where I'm from. We kept in contact for 5/6months. Then in August we stopped talking, I actually think it is because of me that we stopped talking ...

He flirts a lot and he has a Gf. We've been texting. How can I make things less awkward if we do sleep together?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3444 days ago

18 July 2015 (F) - There's a new guy that started at my work he's 32 bearing in mind I'm 20 but I don't think the age matters because we're basically like the same people. But the problem is that he has a girlfriend and he have such good flirty banter and I'm star...

My mom and fiance hate each other

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3444 days ago

18 July 2015 (F) - It seems as if my fiancé and my mother hate eachother... My mom is a rather judgmental person rather she will accept it or not. If someone does not act how she wants or finds best she doesn't like them. Well before my fiancé and i even started ...

My fantasy of a three-some with my wife is on my mind. And it will not go away. Any advice from those who have tried to have a threesome?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3444 days ago

17 July 2015 (?) - I have a long time fantasy that wants me to see my wife having sex with another guy. I have been reading Q and A's on this forum for a long time. I have read everything that very nice folks here have to say about threesomes not being a good ide...

This love-rat LDR guy has been chatting to me for a year. I thought it was a relationship. How do I pick myself up after all this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3439 days ago

15 July 2015 (F) - Please help! A man I had met online found me on Facebook and started chatting to me. More than ONE YEAR later he left Facebook, started a Twitter account and my whole world has fallen apart. I found him sending sexy comments to a particul...

He is in very regular contact with his ex. What do you think of his reasoning and actions???

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3445 days ago

15 July 2015 (F) - I've been in a long distance relationship for almost two years now. I visit my boyfriend once every 4-6 weeks. I have two issues I'd like your opinion with. Thanks Aunties and Uncles! 1. On my recent trip to visit him, I discovered that ...

How can I build up the strength to NOT go back to him? His behaviour has been inconsistent and confusing

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3449 days ago

13 July 2015 (F) - I need some help finding out how to move on from a terrible, emotionally abusive relationship which has destroyed me. I have been involved with a guy for around eight months. When we first got together, he told me he was kind of involved with so...

Am I seeing this clearly? What can I do? It looks like my boyfriend's mother wants him to emotionally fill her husbands shoes

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3449 days ago

12 July 2015 (F) - Hi all, This problem is like a festering wound that will not go away. I feel the relationship between my boyfriend and his mother is a bit unusual sometimes or weird. Now before I go on about what is happening I strongly believe people need to h...

Have I just been very naive in thinking that this girl genuinely liked me in spite of the fact that she has three or four other guys on the go or was it reasonable for me to assume that she had a genuine interest in me because of her explicitly sayin

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3449 days ago

12 July 2015 (M) - Hi everyone, so this is perhaps not a very complicated situation (or maybe it is) to call but I just want feedback as to whether or not I have been a bit unreasonable or naive in the following interaction or whether I am justified in my feelings. ...

FWB with a married guy who says his wife is a nightmare yet he refuses to leave her. What do I do? Am I just the "other woman"?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3451 days ago

11 July 2015 (F) - Please bare with me on this, it's a little tricky. Okay, I've recently entered a 'friends with benefits' situation with a friend of mine (we use contraception) but before that we did class ourselves as being in a relationship due to the strong em...

He has a Gf and they are expecting a baby. I do miss him. Should I proceed to reconnect with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3451 days ago

10 July 2015 (F) - I'll try to make this short and sweet. About 4/5 years ago I started dealing with a high school friend. We were dealing with each other for a little over 2 years when I found out he had a girlfriend. Who turned out to be a girl we went to school ...

Was he a jerk for flirting with her in front of me just after I told him about my crush on him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3456 days ago

5 July 2015 (F) - Heya, Okay so basically I like this boy but the problem is so does my best friend!! So I told this boy how i felt and my best friend helped me tell him so everything was great then!! I then was talking about asking him out as a nice friend I s...

My boyfriend has been texting a girl asking her to be his mistress. She refused him. What should I do about my BF?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3457 days ago

4 July 2015 (F) - My boyfriend admitted to me that he asked this girl best friend if she would have sex with him and she said that she would. However, she says she respects our relationship so she won't sleep with him. Yet he keeps texting her that she's irresi...

Should I call her out for her lies? And attempts to make me feel guilty? We broke up in March.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3457 days ago

4 July 2015 (M) - Hi everyone I just wanted to hear other people's view points on this. My girlfriend broke up with me on march the 1st. It was long distance. We had been together for 3 years. she said it was a temporary break up until we could live toget...

I fell in love with another man while my husband was in jail

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3457 days ago

3 July 2015 (F) - Hi Aunts! I have been a member here since 2011 and you always help me everytime I need, and now here I am again please I need a real advice, please don't judge as I really need help for openminded people I am 24 years old asian married to a 60 ...

T (a guy) has feelings for me and I am gay. My best friend J is a girl and she has a huge crush on T. But what should I say to J?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3460 days ago

2 July 2015 (M) - Hiya, I am gay and my best friend (a girl, J) is rather attracted to this guy called T. J is besotted with T and would do anything to be with T but the other day T admitted his feelings for me. This is made worse by the fact that T is apparentl...