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Archived questions from: April, 2014 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

What does this colleague want? She knows I like her, but she has a boyfriend.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3832 days ago

30 April 2014 (M) - I'll keep this as brief as I can. A girl I really like. We work together. The word got out I liked her. She was getting back with a bf so rejected me. At work I was pleasant if I saw her but our paths rarely crossed. I tried to avoid her as...

My husband's chasing another woman.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3858 days ago

29 April 2014 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 6 years and it's been great but in the past 4 months he has got really close to a female at our workplace, he then asked me to be friends with her which I was ok with because she seemed nice, however I noticed ...

I'm fine with being polygamous but he just likes to cheat!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3856 days ago

29 April 2014 (F) - Hey everyone. I have been with my boyfriend for two and a half years and we got engaged in November. We started off very casually because we don't live in the same city - I happened to be visiting his town on a business trip, I met him, we hooked ...

I had sex with my best friend, but she is married to somebody else!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3858 days ago

29 April 2014 (M) - Hi everyone. Sorry, this is a bit of a long one. My best friend is female, we've been friends for about 10 years and she's married. The past couple of years, she's sank into depression. This is due in part to her husband never being there due ...

Is it wrong to have an intimate relationship with someone who's still married, and connected through family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3853 days ago

28 April 2014 (F) - I am a little confused about family relations. Recently I have been confronted by my aunt's brother in-law whom confessed feelings for me. I too have had feelings for him. My aunt is still married to his brother. However, it has been said they wil...

Retrograde Jealousy: After 4 years of marriage, out of nowhere, I have begun to play out the STI image and what went on in my wife's life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3855 days ago

28 April 2014 (M) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, Please let me share my question with you which I have discovered by reading up on articles, is labelled as ‘retrograde jealousy.’ I am 47, (male) and my wife 52. We have been married for just over 4 years since 2010. We...

My boyfriend wants me to leave my husband.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3859 days ago

27 April 2014 (F) - First and foremost, please do not judge me. We've all gotten into weird situations and not always made the best choices. I'm currently married, 14 years, living with my husband and 2 children. For the past 4 years or so I've been seeing another man ...

This guy cancelled 3 hours before a date because he met someone else when he had been the one to suggest the date!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3858 days ago

27 April 2014 (F) - I met a guy online a month ago and we went out on a first date and had an amazing time. Since then he had been texting me and sending pictures and flirting, then he asked to set up a second date. I agreed and we set it up, 3 hours before the date he ...

Why is my boyfriend secretly meeting up with my ex friend, when we agreed not to see her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3860 days ago

26 April 2014 (F) - I've got (had) a good friend who made it clear she liked my boyfriend. She instantly liked him but whenever we had an argument she would always side with him and text him make sure he was OK and I wouldn't hear from her for ages! One time she w...

I hooked up with my ex, but we're both seeing other people. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3861 days ago

26 April 2014 (F) - I'll try to make this as short as it can be! I broke up with my ex a few months ago. The break-up was sudden, but I was at a point in my life where I felt I was being tied down: he wanted to settle and I didn't, I also felt that I needed to be sin...

Tries to make me jealous. Phones, flirts. Then treats me like I don't exist? What's he up to?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3861 days ago

25 April 2014 (F) - So. Again with that guy that I went to homecoming with. Everything has been like really shaky and I don’t know because he is seriously so confusing. He got a girlfriend, they had dated for 3 months and during those 3 months we did not talk at ...

I imagined having a boyfriend would be a nice experience, but I find myself alone, fighting to be by the side of a person who is thinking about someone else

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

24 April 2014 (F) - Today is my boyfriend's birthday, we've been together for one month and a half (we were friends before becoming a couple). I baked a cake, bought candles, made a card, bought tons of presents, I just want to make him happy. First thing he ...

My husband is having an affair. Am I stupid for staying with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3856 days ago

24 April 2014 (F) - I discovered when I was 8 months pregnant that my husband of 10 years was cheating on me. I confronted him and his lover in a text message and was assured by both that it would not continue. I had several times where I caught him texting her but her ...

I feel like I can't compete with the girl that my B/f kissed and it's torn my self esteem apart!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3837 days ago

24 April 2014 (F) - My boyfriend kissed another girl on a night out a few months ago. We were having problems at the time. I was suspicious and checked his phone and then I text the girl and asked her (very nicely) what happened and if she wouldn't mind not getting in ...

Thought I had a chance with my crush when his relationship failed, but now they're back together. Should I move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

23 April 2014 (F) - Hi all, I need some advice. I've had this massive crush on a guy for the last 5 years. He's a year older than me and I met him in school. He's an amazing guy, extremely good looking, gentleman personality and has a great career ahead of him. I ...

I found out my married lover is not planning on getting divorced after all! Who should I confront, him or his wife?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

23 April 2014 (F) - I fell for my coworker who told me that his wife had left him, only to find out from another colleague that they are actually planning buying a new house together! I feel so stupid and sick to the stomach, but I can't bring myself to say anything...

I hate the fact that I am with someone that carried on an affair with a married man in the past, and I actually know this guy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3745 days ago

23 April 2014 (M) - Recently I found out that my girlfriend has (in the past) dated and slept with a married man. I happen to know him too. We're not close, but we've hung out before. I had no idea they had that type of situation in the past, and even though it is in ...

They've asked me to join them for a threesome, any one have experience in this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

21 April 2014 (F) - Basically I have two friends who are friends with benefits, they've been sleeping together for years and recently approached me and asked if I would join them for a threesome. I really want to try it but the only thing that bothers me is that fact ...

I can't stop thinking about it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

20 April 2014 (F) - I'm worried about this. My boyfriend and I have had some problems lately. We sorted things out recently, but this is worrying me. I looked on his facebook page today ( he asked me to log in to it, as he wanted to check it on my phone ). I saw some ...

Why won't these lusting feeling leave me alone about a man whom I know is taken?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

17 April 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid , I am really in lust with this guy I have tried to fight my feelings but my feelings always win.He is a brick house stallion this man is taken and I know this. But we flirt back and forward with our eyes that's all but i really want to ...

He has found himself a "girlfriend"!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3872 days ago

15 April 2014 (F) - One of my best guy friends has been ignoring the usual gang since he found himself a "girlfriend". Lets call her J. They are not officially together because she has a boyfriend who is studying overseas but she is cheating on him (physically and ...

I just feel hopeless

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3872 days ago

15 April 2014 (F) - Ive been involved with this guy (b) who is 16 yrs older than i am, our relationship began my i cheated on my ex (A) with him, but my ex (A) was cheating and treating me badly before i met this guy and i use to complain and tell him what was ...

Which woman do I choose?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3872 days ago

13 April 2014 (M) - Hey. I basically need a bit of help and guidance on which girl I should choose to have my future with. So the 1st girl I am in a relationship with, she is amazing. She is like the good wife, she is traditional and can love and look after her ...

How real are those 'hook up tonight' websites?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3875 days ago

12 April 2014 (F) - I was tempted to lie about my age when I was posting this question because anyone as experienced as I am have must leaned these lessons by now but I have not. When my marriage dissolved I had been with him from the time I was 14 until i was 27. ...

We had one threesome and now my partner wants to do it and I don't!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3880 days ago

7 April 2014 (F) - Hi Ive been dating a guy for a little over a year now. We see each other every weekend and once maybe twice through the week. We have an amazing sex life and we enjoy each others company, we have the same interests and everything is just...

I stupidly had sex with two different boys on the same day!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3878 days ago

5 April 2014 (F) - Ok so today I did something really stupid and I don't know why I did it but here goes: so in order to revise for my exams I invited a few friends around, it ended up just being two of my close guy friends (let's call them a +b) and a couple other ...

I made a mistake. Now how do I choose between my pregnant wife and unborn child, and the love of my life?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3883 days ago

3 April 2014 (M) - Between 2006 to 2009, I was dating this amazing and wonderful girl, due to the long distance of our relationship, she suggested we take a break from our relationship to finish our education, I was so hurt but I agreed. During this period, an old ...

I don't know if my husband will stay in the marriage if there is no swinging involved!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3884 days ago

1 April 2014 (F) - My husband and I got together 4 years ago. He was honest and said he was very sexual from the start. Our sex life was brilliant and after about six months we decided to try swinging, we didn't get off to the greatest start as the first guy was ...

He said we couldn't go on, but I'm getting mixed messages

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

1 April 2014 (F) - I'm feeling so confused... I was in a relationship for the past two years. We had loads of problems, it was the kind of relationship people knew was not going to last, but we loved each other so much... However, our disagreements took their toll ...