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Archived questions from: 7 February, 2009 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

Break up with ex 9 months ago but I still miss him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5757 days ago

7 February 2009 (F) - Hello all, I really need some help. I broke up with my ex 9 months ago as we had a very complicated relationship, I have tried extremely hard to get over him and I thought I was completly over him until today because I have just spoken to him f...

Why would she want to look for other guys so early after we broke up? Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

7 February 2009 (M) - My ex and I broke up a few weeks ago she said she had lost her feelings for me. She has admitted to talking casually to guy behind my back for a few months but claims to have never cheated on me. When I confronted her about it after the breakup ...

I keep thinking how my ex cheated and mentally abused me and can't get over it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

7 February 2009 (F) - I hate the way my life is right now! I dont enjoy life. I dont find anything exciting. I have to really make an effort to get out of bed do cleaning etc. This is all because of an ex that emotionally and mentally abused me. Weve been spilt up 5 ...

Bf calls ex and lies about it...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

7 February 2009 (F) - Everyone has a past. My boyfriend is 28 and I am 23. He dated a girl for almost 4 years and they broke up almost 2 years ago. I keep in touch with a few of my exes once in a while about once a month or every couple months. Last night my friend ...

She told me she loved ME, then all of a sudden broke up to be with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5748 days ago

7 February 2009 (M) - help!! ok i dated this girl..i thought we were gonna take things slowly..but she was like madly in love..she kept sayin that she's never felt like this about anyone..and she's totally in love and stuff..even i got pretty serious about her..then ...

His back and forth attitude really hurt me, what am I to believe now??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

7 February 2009 (F) - Hello: First I want to say that I'm writting for advice NOT to be slandered for my scenerio. I work with a guy who yes is married, however our odd hours and found interest in eachother's abilities, art and such..have created a mutual bond be...

How do I give her the space she needs now if she talks to me every day?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5748 days ago

7 February 2009 (M) - She wants space and idk what to do about it help me ( Long 10 point answer).? So basically theres this girl i like very much , even love and right now she says she likes me but doesnt like me like that because right now she cant like anyone like tha...

How do I stop making my boyfriend pay for my ex's mistakes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5757 days ago

7 February 2009 (F) - my ex was abusive and mean but i loved him. one day he hit me becuz i wasn't ready for sex. after we broke up i met this amazing person and i find myself making him pay for my ex's mistakes. how do i stop treating him so badly and actually start to ...

Too many mixed signals and not enough time apart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

7 February 2009 (M) - My ex and I broke up 4 weeks ago after 3.5 years together. We were very much in love and talking about marriage and kids just a month before the breakup. We had a heated arguement over a college female friend she wanted me to stop talking to. She ...

He acts like me wants me, then he gets back with his ex. What's his problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5757 days ago

7 February 2009 (F) - plzzzz guys can u help me. ecpecailly guys. I’m trying to figure this guy out… A few months ago, I met the most awesome guy and we just clicked. In fact, I think we practically spent every waking moment together when we weren’t in our classes. ...

I love my new partner so why did I burst into tears when I found out my ex husband is getting married?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

7 February 2009 (F) - can someone help me sort my head out? Im getting divorced from my husband of eleven years...he told me that he wasn't in love with me anymore although he did still love me as we have two kids(10 and 8)and has been having an affair for two years. ...

Over a year..not over the ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

7 February 2009 (M) - Hey , I would appicated if anyone can give me some advices on what to do. Here's the story, I went out with her for about 3 years. The day I asked her to be my girlfriend was on my bday so it was really speical to me. She was my first girlfriend...

Why is my ex flirting with me when he dumped me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

7 February 2009 (F) - So when I first got there we stared at each other for a bit then I looked away and went to sit down. He didn't talk to me. I found out he told Brian he wasn't going to. Well Brians mom sent us to the store to get food….me, chris, carrie, and bria...

My first husband remarried, then called me and we started chatting, no sex, he does not want another divorce, I still love him, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

7 February 2009 (F) - I was married twice. I have known my first ex since we were in 7th grade and we had been together ever since; we got married when we were 23 but divorced when we were 27 due to my family issues. He was hurt and so was I. I had to take care my family ...

My ex and I are in love but in different relationship, what do we do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

7 February 2009 (F) - ok I have a huge problem. I'm still in love with my ex and he says he's still in love with me too but we are both in different relationships. My boyfriend is amazing but I miss my ex so much and I don't know how to get over him. Would it be easier ...

She's talking to her ex and I'm uncomfortable with it, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

7 February 2009 (M) - hi, well im dating this girl and we have been going out for a really long time like 2 or 3 years, and i know im only 15 but i love this girl. but in the last couple of days she has been talking to her ex and ill be like "who are you talking to?" and ...