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Archived questions from: May, 2005 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

My ex looks like his working through the problems that broke us up, but I feel insecure and unsure about him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

31 May 2005 (?) - I've been with a man who cheated (massage parlor), smokes a lot of pot, and who gets verbally abusive (sometimes physically aggressive). It's been a year since I moved out and broke it off with him. Now he's showing signs of change, and growth. He ...

His ex is back on the scene and suddenly my boyfriend never sleeps over with me any more!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7151 days ago

31 May 2005 (?) - Dear agony aunt, For the last 4 years I've been dating someone exclusively. He had been going thru a divorce when we first starting dating, well we had our share of problems, but now his ex-wife is back. He says nothing's going on but yet he never...

I want to go to my ex's party, but if I do, I think something might happen between us...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7150 days ago

30 May 2005 (?) - Me and my Ex boyfriend split up around this time last year, but have been on and off since then. I've now moved on to a lovely new boyfriend but I've just been invited to my ex's party. If I go, I know that something will happen between me and my ...

My husband seems to care more about his ex-wife than he does about me...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

30 May 2005 (?) - I am married to someone who was divorced 2 years before we married. It seems though he won't let go of his ex wife. Every time she asks for something he jumps to do it. I know they were married for 11 years and knew each other for 16, but I fe...

My ex wants to keep in contact and it's really messing with my head!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6774 days ago

29 May 2005 (?) - I posted a problem in April about me and my boyfriend. He had texted another girl behind my back. Well everything really went downhill from then. He is now my EX-boyfriend and i feel pretty messed up inside about it all. I decided to give him a ...

My b/f left me for someone else. Now he's back, we're having sex and I'm confused!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6339 days ago

26 May 2005 (?) - I am a very confused person right now. About a year and half ago, by boyfriend of 5 years cheated on my with someone he works with. He said that we would work on things and it wouldn't happen again. So I forgave him, but he left me for her ...

I'm afraid that my ex might say something to my fiance to break us up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7154 days ago

25 May 2005 (?) - My fiance' is going to treatment for a drug problem. This is great because he is taking it seriously. The problem is that one of my exes is in the same treatment facility. I have never told my fiance' of this man and I am afraid that my ex is go...

Is my girl ever going to get over the fact that I had sex with someone else before I knew her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6938 days ago

25 May 2005 (?) - I am 16 years old and me and my new girlfriend have really hit it off. It was like love at first sight. I care so much about her and she feels the same way for me but she found out that I had sex with like her best friend before I even met my ...

I still have strong feelings for my ex-bf but I'm with someone else!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6259 days ago

24 May 2005 (?) - I'm in a relationship now, and I'm very happy with the guy. But I still have feelings for my ex. Him & I were together off & on for 3 years before I got with the guy I'm with now. I still have feelings for my ex, and I will always love him..but ...

Should I have let my ex back into my life after he cheated with a mate's girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7159 days ago

20 May 2005 (?) - I was in a relationship for 6 years and we have two children together, and we split up 6 months ago because he was texting his best mate's girlfriend a lot. I found out that he had been going round there all the time and there was something going on ...

My husband can't seem to remember anything about me, but he remembers all the details of his ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7117 days ago

19 May 2005 (?) - Is the ex on his mind more than me? My husband and I have been married almost 7 years. He was married to his ex not quite 3 years. Still, whenever anyone asks when MY birthday is, he says her birth month. If he checks horoscopes in the paper, he ...

If he loves me like he says he does, why can't my boyfriend stop calling his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6383 days ago

18 May 2005 (?) - dear friend. I have been with my boyfriend nearly a year and a half. Not long I know, but my longest one yet. My boyfriend and his ex girlfriend text each other. He says he loves me and has no feelings for her, so why can't he just stop ringing ...

There's a lot of strain in my g/f's life and she doesn't want anything serious. Will I lose her if I back off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7165 days ago

16 May 2005 (?) - My "girlfriend" is getting out of a marriage that was extremely bad. Not physical, but a very self centered individual. Her divorce is in the critical stage b/c she and the to-be ex have a child. Anyway, her parents love me, and they keep saying t...

We'd set a date to get married, but he's left and now won't talk to me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7163 days ago

14 May 2005 (?) - My partner of 4 years left me and my 4 children a week ago and gone back to his family, who 2 years ago turned their backs on him. We argued over the stress of money and debt. I love him so much and want him back but don't know what to do. We were ...

My ex-boyfriend seems to want me back, but we've both been with other people for 2 years!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7158 days ago

14 May 2005 (?) - I have an ex boyfriend who everyone considered to be the "love of my life" we went out and broke up a lot in the past few years, but last year we both got new partners. We have both been with our partners for almost two years but recently I've fal...

His ex-wife and kids still seem to rate more highly in his life than I do..!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7165 days ago

14 May 2005 (?) - My boyfriend of one year is still real involved with his ghosts of his past. A wife and kids. They are divorced; she doesn't care about him. One of the kids isn't his, but still he will do whatever she asks him to do...help!!...

My current partner and I aren't getting on very well... then along comes and ex who wants me back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7167 days ago

13 May 2005 (?) - I need some advice. I am a 41 yr old mother of 2 boys. I have been in a relationship for 6 years. We are not married. We have been fighting a lot and he doesn't get along too well with my youngest child. I am debating on staying with him or not. H...

My ex and I ran into each other after 2 years, and it's reignited an old flame.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7166 days ago

13 May 2005 (?) - Split with my ex-girlfriend 2 years ago, bumped into her in a club last week. When we were together I was with someone else, I admitted this, we gave it another go but it did not work out, mainly down to trust issues. She never really forgave me for ...

Everything is so good with my girlfriend, so why do I have recurrent thoughts about my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7167 days ago

13 May 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid I've been with my current girlfriend for nearly 19 months years and I love her with all my heart. Everything is great between us. For some reason, every now and again, I think of my ex fiance who I was with for over 3 years. M...

Worried that my mate and my ex are going to meet up...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7170 days ago

11 May 2005 (?) - I've recently broke up with my girlfriend. I was very much in love with her but she ended it. The other day, my mate said that she has texted him about meeting up. He said he wouldn't do anything cos he knows how I feel, but I'm feeling very ...

Am I being silly about his ex, who's now his friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7171 days ago

11 May 2005 (?) - I am happy and settled with my life-partner. Only problem is his old flame is still around (as a friend) and I wonder if she is a threat or if I'm just being silly....

My bf wears his wedding ring on a chain around his neck. It makes me feel like I don't count!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7166 days ago

11 May 2005 (?) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly two years. He has been divorced for about a year or so but he still wears his wedding ring on his necklace. This makes me feel like I am nothing in comparsion to his ex. He never tells me he loves me. When I a...

I don't understand why my boyfriend wants to go to for a weekend without me... and when his ex will be there.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7165 days ago

10 May 2005 (?) - My boyfriend has been invited to a wedding in Scotland. All his friends are going and they are taking thier girlfriends and children, but my boyfriend, who I live with, is not taking me and my daughter and our 5 mnth old son. He says it's nothing ...

An ex has been texting my boyfriend... and it's affected my ability to trust him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7171 days ago

9 May 2005 (?) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over three years. We have been living together for about 6 months and have a five month old son. I also have a 6yr old daughter from a previous relationship and recently my boyfriend's ex, who is married to ...

I couldn't stand it if my gf's ex made a move on her, but she won't allow me to defend her, either!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7172 days ago

8 May 2005 (?) - I'll make this as short as I can, because I really need help on this. I'm 20 years old, two years out of high school, and so is my gf. Our school is already having a reunion for all alumni (I know, it's stupid). I have no interest in going, but ...

I've rediscovered my "other man" and now I don't know what to do...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7171 days ago

6 May 2005 (?) - HELP, A few years ago I met a gorgeous man, unfortunately he was in a relationship (and I am married and have been with the same man for 10 years). Anyway this man and I started a sexual relationship and it had the potential to be a lot more than ...

Am I being stalked by my ex? What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7018 days ago

5 May 2005 (?) - I think I am being stalked. My ex boyfriend from about 4 years ago turned up at my house and totally freaked me out, so I told him I didn't want to see him again. But I'm sure he keeps ringing my house and driving past my house staring in and I ...

No other lads seem to compare to my ex. Will I ever fall in love with anyone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7177 days ago

3 May 2005 (?) - When I was 18 I moved in with my boyfriend. We loved each other more than anything but he had a baby-making thing hard. We stayed together for a year and 8 months. It's been nearly a year now since we split and I still love him. I try to see other ...

My ex slept with me then got engaged to another girl... What's going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7177 days ago

3 May 2005 (?) - I started a new job and I had worked there for 5 months and one of the guys I really liked asked me out. We then went out with each other for 6 months and he finished it with me over a silly wee fight about who was sleeping on what side of the bed....

First, my ex seems better than my new man. Then I change my mind. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7178 days ago

3 May 2005 (?) - I left my husband of 20 years for another man who I thought I loved. I like my new man's company, but he is lazy and has no money compared to my ex. My ex was very well off, and has drive and ambition to do well, where was my new man has none. I...