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writes: My fiance' is going to treatment for a drug problem. This is great because he is taking it seriously. The problem is that one of my exes is in the same treatment facility. I have never told my fiance' of this man and I am afraid that my ex is going to bring something up or say something to my fiance' in order to try and tear us apart. I don't know if I should call him and say something to him before my fiance' actually gets to the place or if I should just let the situation play out. I need help fast!
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reader, Wildberries +, writes (28 May 2005):
Relax! If it happens, deal with it. There is no shame in having an ex-boyfriend and one that didnt get mentioned is usually one that didn't matter enough to GET mentioned. If you really do not want this to happen ,do not go out of your way to be the catalyst that makes it happen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2005): Be honest with your fiance and tell him everything truthfully. If he finds out later its likely to cause more problems. At least if he you tell him, he will know that he can trust you and that you truly care about him
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