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writes: I'm in a relationship now, and I'm very happy with the guy. But I still have feelings for my ex. Him & I were together off & on for 3 years before I got with the guy I'm with now. I still have feelings for my ex, and I will always love him..but should I just move on? He's always came back to me..in every other relationship I've been in, and we get back together!! I don't know what to do...i love my bf I have now, but I don't think I can get over my ex, I still love him a lot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2007): This is hard, it just happened to me too. I like that quote, let your heart rule your head. Seeing my ex was awesome, I love my fiance, but it raises the question - is this what I really want? And whatever your answer is, you have to go with that, with your heart.
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reader, cat_luver  +, writes (22 October 2007):
omg i know how u feel. I still have feelings for my ex tht i was with for 5 years. i wish i could get back with him but i'm not able to and im with someone else but im not even sure if i love this person... if i could pick one i would pick my ex, its so hard to move on with your life after being with someone for so long. how can they just end it like that... well i hope all is well...
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reader, AngelGurl +, writes (24 May 2005):
I Think You Should See What He Feels If He Still Loves You Too then I Think You should talk Things Through With Your Current bf & see What He Thinks. Take It From There! Hope I Helped
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (24 May 2005):
 This all depends really on what your relationship was like with your ex-boyfriend. You say you were on and off. Why was this? Was it a secure, stable relationship? It doesn't really sound like it was. Perhaps it was more based on excitement and fun.I think you have to consider what it is you want out of a relationship now. If you want stability and companionship based on love and trust and feel ready for that type of committment, then you need to let the past go and concentrate on your future with your boyfriend now.If you are still up for the thrills and spills of an exciting relationship, then gently let down the man you are with now as he deserves to be with someone who wants to be with him.If you choose to try to get over your ex, the way to do this is to invest everything in your current relationship. Have no contact with him. As time goes by, you will get over him but you have to break all ties.Make a decision and stick with it.Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2005): Go for it, your not married, no children, so let your heart rule your head!
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