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Archived questions from: January, 2017 (see latest in Social Media category)

Social Media: Help and advice

My husband can't see the problems with his ex wife ...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2842 days ago

31 January 2017 (F) - My husband and his ex have not spoken in years because of all the trouble she caused at the beginning of our relationship. She called begging him to come sleep with her, she kept asking to come over claiming she needed closure (she was the one who ...

I'm losing my best friend and don't know what to do.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2847 days ago

30 January 2017 (M) - I'm friends with a female who ive known for six months, I knew her from work as we worked together and seem to get on, she was one of those temporary people. anyway she told me she was off to nicaragua on a water project to promote clean water an...

8 years ago my birth brother wasn't interested, now I've found him on facebook and want to contact him.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2852 days ago

26 January 2017 (M) - I accidentally found my birth brother on facebook a few days ago and I don't know if I should contact him or what I would even say to not freak him out. My mother gave him up for adoption 30 years ago and though we did get in touch with him 8 years ...

My wife left me for her ex, who found her on Facebook and now wants to come back. Should I give her a second chance ?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2856 days ago

22 January 2017 (M) - My wife was contacted by an ex on Facebook who first said he only wanted to be friends, then indicated he wanted more. She showed me his messages and told me they dated in high school and college and she broke up with him twice. The first time...

Trust issues. Is it just my anxiety or should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2859 days ago

22 January 2017 (F) - This is a little bit of a long story. My boyfriend used to be in a band, and is still in contact with a girl who was really into them. She lives really really far away, and only knew about them because a band member was planning on moving away t...

Fed up with him. Don't think I can trust him any more. How should I handle this situation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2861 days ago

20 January 2017 (F) - hi everyone ive been with my fiancé for 3 years now just lately I don't feel happy anymore and now ill explain why. We met through facebook and after that he told me he doesn't use facebook anymore. I had him on my friends list he just never bother...

Do these fake profiles suggest he's living a double life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2859 days ago

19 January 2017 (F) - Hello,so let me start off by saying that my boyfriend(in his 30s) has never been the ''social media'' type of guy or at least that's what he told me, He does not like pictures to be taken of him or even with me!, so one day during thanksgiving 2014 ...

Is there any way I can change his perceptions about me? How should or could I attract him back to me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2861 days ago

18 January 2017 (F) - Its been 50 days. My boyfriend broke up with me.. It was all my fault. Its been 2 years. For 1 year we were together when i was working ..but from last 1 year we are in long distance. I live with my parents and i am jobless. My career is ...

Married recently. Are these marriage problems happening too soon?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2862 days ago

18 January 2017 (F) - My husband and I just got married about a month ago, unfortunately we can't live together because neither of us have a job at the moment. Although we are looking. We see each once or twice a month. We text everyday and FaceTime, but now all of s...

Where's a good place to meet people my age? Any groups or sites you think might suit, and why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2864 days ago

17 January 2017 (F) - I moved city recently and I'm struggling to know people outside work so I joined loads of groups on meeting people sites. But loads of them (no I didnt join dating ones) are full of thirsty older guys, and it's really uncomfortable being at thes...

Boyfriend doesn't post us on social media

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2863 days ago

16 January 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been official for about 90 days. I have very few complaints about him- I'm extremely happy. We go out regularly and spend lots of quality time together and go on fun dates. But he has nothing about us posted on social media. ...

If I am talking online to a guy, just talking as friends, with nothing sexual said, BUT is it cheating for me to do this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2864 days ago

16 January 2017 (F) - Sometimes I talk to someone on Skype (just text never camera or voice), I came across them on Tumblr and we became friends. He is a guy and we mostly talk about random things, never anything sexual. He knows I have a boyfriend and to be honest h...

I get pouty when we are apart and he doesn't text!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2864 days ago

15 January 2017 (F) - MOD NOTE: 2 Submissions combined. I'm embarrassed to even ask this question, but how often can I expect my BF to text me when we're not together? A little background- we've been together about 4 months. He's very kind, patient, considerate, an...

My LDR boyfriend hasn't wanted to video chat. Does it mean that he does not miss me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2866 days ago

14 January 2017 (F) - So far in my LDR, I have been the one to mostly initiate video calls, though we text throughout the day. I have asked for more vid chats, shorter times, but I usually have to ask for vid chat. It wears on me that I usually have to always hint/ask....

I'm concerned that my wife is texting a younger male co-worker outside of work!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2865 days ago

13 January 2017 (M) - My wife is a manager in a small store of 20 employees. She texts and Facebook messages a male employee half her age. The texts/messages are both work related and non work related. Non work related include videos of songs and home decor along basic ...

Can a seven year relationship be over because of a lie said 6 years ago? Am I completely in the wrong here ?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 2869 days ago

10 January 2017 (M) - My Partner [30 F] of 7 years broke up with me [32 M]for lying. She found out I met my son (1year old at the time) when I was abroad 6 years ago. Myself and my partner had just broken up at the time so I was single when abroad. I never told her I...

How should I act towards him for the best outcome?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2871 days ago

9 January 2017 (F) - A while ago I kissed someone from work who I had liked for a while. He told me he had feelings for me and we began texting. -But then later said because his ex works at the same place nothing could happen. And then kissed a different co wor...

He's asked for another separation because it's hard for him that I don't trust him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2871 days ago

9 January 2017 (F) - I been with my husband for 15 years. About 6 years ago we briefly seperated because he started talking and texting with this girl from work. He said that it was nothing but deep inside me always screamed that it was something. We got back together ...

Why is he making this so hard?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2870 days ago

8 January 2017 (M) - I have so much in common with this guy why is he making it so hard to be more...... okay so I know this guy from social media. We have loads in common when we first started talking he had a BF he asked me to go to a concert with him but I declined...

What do I do? How can she still want to be with someone who she is not sexually attracted to, nor IN love with?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2855 days ago

8 January 2017 (M) - Apologies if I ramble but I have some much to get off my chest ?? My Fiancée of nearly 14 years and the mother of my 2 beautiful daughters (11 and 6) had told me she loved me but is not IN love with me several years ago. We have also not had...

Am I over reacting to husband's online interaction with another woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2873 days ago

8 January 2017 (F) - me and my husband are having some problems, maybe its all me i dont know but anyway.. few yeas back i caught him deleting messages from a co worker he said it was nothing but just didnt want me to get the wrong end of he stick so thought he would...

Why was my BF not receptive enough to my naughty Snapchat video?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2873 days ago

8 January 2017 (F) - I sent my BF a racy Snapchat video. I don't want to say exactly but it was definitely "naughty" and involved private parts. Well, it took him 2 hours to see it and respond. He said... "Mmmmmm. How am I supposed to sleep tonight after seeing t...

A brief text on Christmas but nothing since then! What does this mean?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

6 January 2017 (F) - Really need advice Haven't spoken to a guy who I got close to but it didn't work for various reasons We had a huge falling out but last year (January )he asked to meet me and we had a coffee After that we didn't talk again So this year...

He wants me to be his accountability partner!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

5 January 2017 (F) - I write articles online and some commenters are allowed to message me on an anonymous mail for private conversations. My type of articles are centred around happenings in everyday life and the struggles faced by youths but I'm in no way an expert...

He likes and comments on my social media but blanks when invited out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

5 January 2017 (M) - Okay so I met this guy on social media but I don't get him.... seems we have a lot in common and when we've spoken convo flowed well. He follows me on two types of social media as I do him. Sometimes now he don't reply to conversations......

Should I consider that this friend I like is now available? What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

4 January 2017 (F) - I asked a friend who I like and who knows I like him, advice about dating as my ex is now started dating again and my friend told me to get out there etc. I then took a month away from social media. I came back mid/late December and I found out ...

I'm anxious because he doesn't contact or text every day.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2876 days ago

3 January 2017 (F) - Hi all Wanted to know if this is normal behaviour from my bf of four months... Ok he's so caring and affectionate, telling me how happy i make him above all else, he loves me compliments etc. But he isn't a big texter/ caller... Ok he plays a ...

We've Texted, met, dated. What do you think is going on with him? 3

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2876 days ago

3 January 2017 (F) - Meet this guy 40 like me, tons of stuff in common brillent chemistry. We've been talking for about 5wks now, been on 2 dates. He calls me not only to set up dates but to talk. He texts every morning to wish me a good day etc. He texted me yesterda...

Will he freak when he finds I'm a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2879 days ago

1 January 2017 (F) - Guys... what do you think if you get with someone who's a virgin? Ive met this guy and things are going well but he keeps turning things sexual. And well I've never done anything and still a virgin. I'm afraid when I tell him. He will freak out? ...