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*tephsav76
writes:Meet this guy 40 like me, tons of stuff in common brillent chemistry. We've been talking for about 5wks now, been on 2 dates. He calls me not only to set up dates but to talk. He texts every morning to wish me a good day etc. He texted me yesterday about 19.15pm to ask how iam doing and am I ready to go back to work. I texted back about 15mins later, saying I'm good and I'm not ready for work lol, and then asked him how his new years day family dinner went. He didn't reply, I thought maybe he feels asleep or got caught up with something. The next morning I thought I would have gotten my good morning text to say why he didn't reply, normally if this happened he would say why he didn't reply. It's 14.29pm and I haven't heard from him, a bit strange too me...I don't know what to think, what do you thinks going on. I know it's not me being needy if anyone says, because he will do all the calling and texting. And I replayed to his text so it's for him to message me back.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 January 2017):
 I think you need to stress less about the little things, these are what causes worrying. Just go with the flow and enjoy spending time with him, it looks like it is going in the right direction, don't worry about all the details.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (3 January 2017):
 There you go :)
Maybe not the "best" excuse, but he DID let you know that he was aware that he forgot and that he will try better.
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reader, Stephsav76 +, writes (3 January 2017):
Stephsav76 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionUpdate:My guy called me, he said he woke up late this morning, he said he was rushing around. Got to work and it was busy. He said tommrow morning I will get my text??
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reader, Stephsav76 +, writes (3 January 2017):
Stephsav76 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for replying, his back at work, but it's his quite period now, Nov/Dec is his busy times and he still made time to shout about quick text. I told him his morning texts put a smile on my face, so him not standing one, he knows I won't be smiling lol.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (3 January 2017):
Did HE go back to work today as well? If so maybe he is busy. Though taking 3 minutes to text "good morning" shouldn't be too overwhelming IMHO.
Since you left the ball in his court I'd give him a day or two and see if he reaches out if he hasn't by the 3rd day - I'd PICK up the phone and call.
I wouldn't overthink things just yet.
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