My husband can't see the problems with his ex wife ...

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My husband and his ex have not spoken in years because of all the trouble she caused at the beginning of our relationship. She called begging him to come sleep with her, she kept asking to come over claiming she needed closure (she was the one who ended their relationship by cheating on him and deciding she wanted someone else) and she even had her dad call my husband the day before our wedding to tell him he was making a mistake, and her dad begged him to go back to her (she was dating her husband at the time--her parents were also the ones who told her she needed to date other people before they broke up). The week before Christmas, they reconnected and became friends on Facebook. I told him this really bothered me and told him I thought he had cut those ties permanently long ago. Even though he tells me I have nothing to worry about, he just won't block her. I told him that our life was none of her business and I made sure to block her so she couldn't see anything on my page nor the things I tagged him in. My constant fear is that they are talking. That alone has consumed my thoughts pretty much every minute of every day. I trust him completely. I do NOT trust her however because of her history of trying to break us up. His behavior has changed somewhat, because he tends to get ill with me very easily. He even bought me diamond earrings and roses, both of which he NEVER does. I'm not sure if he's feeling guilty or if he's just trying to reassure me nothing is going on. He really did love her and she did him dirty and it took him a long time to get over her. They broke up 11 years ago though, and thankfully she moved several hours away.

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