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anonymous
writes:Okay so I met this guy on social media but I don't get him.... seems we have a lot in common and when we've spoken convo flowed well. He follows me on two types of social media as I do him. Sometimes now he don't reply to conversations...... I've asked him to go for a drink but he ignored me yest he still occasionally likes my posts even commenting on one good luck handsome!! ?? Yet when I asked him to go for a drink he blanked me. Is he not into me? His really hot and seems like a fun guy..... he would be ideal person to date but all I'm after for now is friends. He also watches my story 9.5/10 times daily so I don't get itAny one wanna give me advice on what to do or their opinion of what is going on please? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (6 January 2017):
 He sees you as someone he can chat to online and have a bit of fun with but nothing more, he is not interested in meeting up with you in person. I would either delete him or accept that he just wants an online friendship.
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reader, N91 +, writes (5 January 2017):
 Sounds like he's flaky.
If he was fully interested he would accept your invitations out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2017): Perhaps he has a girlfriend or he simply wants to be a friend on Facebook and nothing more than that. If he doesn't accept your offer, that means no. I get a lot of likes from straight-guys and compliments on my Facebook page. Some are pretty hot. I know they are not interested in anything but the images or comments I post. They like my personality and my philosophy on life. They don't want to go out with me. I have a hot boyfriend, and wouldn't proposition anyone anyway.A "like" of a picture, post, video, or topic of discussion is not a flirtation; or any real indication a person is romantically interested.Just continue to be friendly and accept his likes as only friendly gestures. He's not flirting or coming on to you. That falls along the lines of wishful thinking. If he doesn't reply, he doesn't like what you suggested.Don't take it personally. He's just not interested in that way.
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