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Archived questions from: 5 December, 2011 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Why do men focus so much on female orgasm?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - Why do men focus so much on female orgasm? My bf is insecure because he's only been able to make me orgasm twice orally in the 4 months we've been together and if I don't orgasm, he sees it as failure and it prevents him from being hard again to ...

I told my b/f I only slept with someone once while we were broken up but that's not true. what if he finds out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - me and my bf of 2 years broke up earlier this year and were apart fir a few months. during that time i was sleeping with someone, it was a rebound he was gorgeous and he made me feel good but there was nothing more to it. as soon as we got talking ...

Ladies: If your husband doesn't fulfill you sexually will you get tired of it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

5 December 2011 (M) - I wanted to ask this question mostly to married women and particularly to the ones that may relate to what I'm saying. I'm dating this girl for 3 years and I got the feeling she was ready to settle down. So, a couple of weeks ago I got the courage ...

How do I give him a night to remember?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - Hey aunts.. Sum advice pls. My man of 6 months works away, I am going near to where he is on sum business so I'm staying the night in a hotel and he's coming to stay the night. We've only slept together a handful of times.. And it's been quite ...

Is it normal to have quirks about your body regarding sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - Well, I'm a bit embarrassed to be writing this but I would be extremely grateful for some advice. I'm really confused about my body and what could be wrong with me, because of weird ability or inability to orgasm (please read on). well, believe ...

FWB troubles..he doesn't want me seeing other guys but he doesn't want a girlfriend. How do I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - Hi, well the thing is typical friends with benefits story... i was seeing a guy for sex and we have both fallen for each other. Well at least I think. I've known this guy for 6 months we slept together for the first time 3 months ago and sinc...

I'm inexperienced--should I wear a condom during anal sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

5 December 2011 (M) - hello everyone. I have a question to ask. me and my GF are a very sexual couple and she has asked me to do something a few times. I come here to ask all of you. I'm not sure how to do it because well before he I was a virgin so i need some help.She ...

Do men get aroused because of dirty thoughts or romance during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - alright this question goes out to the men out there! do men get aroused or to he more specific get an erection during sex with their girlfriend/wives because of dirty thoughts like "oh i'm doing something so dirty"or because of the romance,...

Are musicians better in bed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - Does anyone else think musicians are better in bed than the average guy/girl? My bf plays the piano and OH. MY. GOODNESS..... !! seriously. what he does is insane. Never had a guy so brilliant when he ventures down there... *sighs* my 21st birthday...

Why do guys think it is ok to kiss women they have only just met?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - Am i strange, or do other people think the same as me ?. I hate it when i go out to bars and a guy who i have only just met expects me to kiss him, especially if he tries to force me to kiss him, by grabbing me or holding my face or something. And i ...

I'm falling for this guy! Is he just being dirty or does he like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

5 December 2011 (?) - I have been in college since September. When I started I use to notice a guy in my class always looking at me and we never really spoke to each other until about 3 weeks into the course. He's very flirtatious to me. He is with some of the other gi...

How many weeks/months should you wait before having sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - I have been browsing the site for an answer to: when is it best to have sex for the first time in a new relationship? Most replies were about the date number ...(1st to 5th etc.) but what I would really like to know is a time frame: how many ...

Ladies: What sexual positions do you like that don't impact your self image?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

5 December 2011 (M) - hello all. really need some advise on sex positions for women with body confidance issues. Over the time of our relation ship my fiance has put on abit of wait. Witch i dont mind. In fact she was abit to thin for my taste when we started dating. ...

Am I justified or being selfish by telling my bf that his sexual persistance annoyed me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I am 27 and my boyfriend is 33. He's my first sexual partner and we've been together for 2.5 years. I've always felt bad that we have sex as I wanted to save it for marriage. We're going through a difficult patch at the moment. I ...

My wife's ex-boyfriend contacted her after 20 years of no contact. I am not sure what to think about this.

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

5 December 2011 (M) - My wife's ex-boyfriend (the one prior to me) contacted her after 20 years of no contact. I have been with my wife for 19 years. My wife did not tell me about this. I discovered it when I saw a strange number on her cell phone bill. I confront...

Painful sex. Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - Ok so I'm 18 and my boyfriend and I have been dating over a year. We have sex often, but lately it feels rough going in. I thought I was lubricated enough without any lubricant or anything but it feels like something is scratching me and when he p...

Why would a man appear jealous if you are with someone else, even though he himself does not want to be with you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - Hello, I just need opinions on this subject. Let me give a little info on my situation. I am seeing a man, and we have decided to just be friends with benefits. We have dated in the beginning and when a relationship was brought up he stated that he ...

He says he likes me but respects me too much to have sex with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - I have a friend with whom we began to send nude photos to each other ending out masturbating one another. We did it several times and he started saying he wanted sex, then it was me who wanted sex and now he has backed off saying he can not treat me ...

Past sexual abuse has made me dependent on men. Please help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - When I was younger,I went through sexual abuse and was raped by my cousin. We are both girls, but today as a young adult that I am, I been noticing that the only way I feel loved is when I have a guy/s. Yes I purposely put / cause I am talking ...

Could I be pregnant for 5 seconds of sex, on my period??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - Is it possible to get pregnant whilst on your period? seriously!!? i had sex on the 4th day of my period so i was not heavy and my partner didnt even notice, however i had sex without a condom for literally 5 seconds and then i stopped it and said ...