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Archived questions from: 23 July, 2010 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I don't want sex yet, how do I tell him to back off without being harsh?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

23 July 2010 (F) - I was wondering your adivce on the best way to talk about having space with someone and slowing things down a bit, without going overbooard and scaring the other person away. I have been seeing this guy for just over 3 weeks now, and we get along ...

Husband Swinging Without Me

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

23 July 2010 (F) - About 5 years ago after 20 years of marriage, my husband started to talk about swinging. I thought he was kidding at first and he got angry when I siad absolutly not. We had a good sex life and had been faithful to each other. To please him I agreed ...

He stopped molesting me, but is he about to do it again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

23 July 2010 (F) - ok, im going to try be to the point here. im 17yrs old now and from the age of 12 to about 4months ago, i have been sexually molested by my moms boyfriend (lets call him joe). so joe has stopped abusing me now, but a few nights ago i was working on ...

Is it normal to stay with someone who does not have sex with you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

23 July 2010 (F) - I am 35 and consider myself attractive. I am witty, charming and smart. So I don't understand why my husband will not have sex with me. I am not a boring lay if you will. After a few separations I had lovers which i enjoyed and vice versa. For ...

At my age I can keep going and going...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

23 July 2010 (M) - Hi there, I dont know how to put this. Its a bit embarrassing. I just wanted to know if this is normal during our love making sessions. We are both fit and healthly.We are both in our 40's. We love each other very deeply and we have a fantastic...

Girlfriend's dad walked in on us during oral sex, kicked me out and now she wants me to apologize to her dad!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

23 July 2010 (M) - I am 18 and my girlfriend will be 18 next month, we have been dating for 6 months. Her dad is a total hard ass, he is beyond over protective and he hates me jsut because I am dating his daughter. Afew nights ago we were in her basement fooling ...

He doesn't want to perform oral sex on my anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

23 July 2010 (F) - Hey well me and my boyfriend are starting to do sexual stuff now and im new at. (the most iv done is making out but he had sex before) The problem is we agread we would start out with oral sex, but he doesnt want to eat me out any more. I asked why ...

Addicted to lesbian porn, Please help me stop

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

23 July 2010 (M) - i masturbate to lesbian porn because i dont like the penis', and it feels sooooo good, but i wanna stop because it makes me feel reallly bad... can sumone please help me? ps. i started at 13... HELP...

Got drunk, had a threesome and now scared I'm pregnant and only 15!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

23 July 2010 (F) - Im 15 and well i got a bit drunk at a friends house party and well one thing led 2 another with these 2 guys and we ended up having a 3sum and we didnt use any protection and i know i shoud of but i wasent thinkin straight The thing is im 2 days l...

Can infatuation lead to love? Beautiful experience with a prostitute.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

23 July 2010 (M) - I had sex with a really gorgeous prostitute.There was a sexual connection of some sort that I never felt before with any other girl or prostitute. I had slept with a reasonable amount of them. It was almost a divine experience. She had 3 orgasm with ...

I can go on and on after sex, is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5241 days ago

Bi-curious and not sure what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

23 July 2010 (M) - I am a completely straight guy, but lately I have become curious about being with a man. Specifically, a well hung man. Nothing romantic, just sexual. I feel totally wierd by this, and I'm not sure where this sudden emotion came from. When I was ...

How do I get my husband to want sex again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5068 days ago

23 July 2010 (F) - Ok, the last time I posted something I was on the verge of leaving my husband. That was about 6 months ago, and then right before I was about to meet with a lawyer he did a complete 180 and has changed so many of the things that I was upset about. ...

Sex has become nothing but a chore for me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

23 July 2010 (F) - My libido has disappeared and this has been getting worse for the last 3 years - since last child born. I now feel guilty for not doing it, and guilty when I do it as I am clearly not enjoying it as much as I or my husband would like me to - it ...

What does he really want?What is he in real?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

23 July 2010 (F) - Hi! I have never met this guy in real but have known him only virtually.He befriended me two years ago and we had great platonic friendship initially.He has real in-depth spiritual knowledge and has taught me a lot.Then one fine day after a year he ...

Will sex hurt as much as using a tampon?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

23 July 2010 (F) - i'm a 14 year old girl. i have a boyfriend, we've been dating for a long time. we're starting to talk about sex. i'm a virgin, he isn't tho. my ex and i dated for 2 years, but i never wanted to have sex, but we attempted oral, but he wasn't into it. ...

How do I find out if she's only after sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

23 July 2010 (M) - I have been seeing someone for a brief period of time. I am really into this woman but,unfortunately it would appear that she only wants sex. Or at least that is the only conclusion that I can come up with. While I am not against this, I am also not ...

Has anyone ever felt excited, depressed, exhilarated lustful and guilty all at the same time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

23 July 2010 (F) - Ok I'm in a bit of a twisted wicked little game here, and I'm completely to blame so I will accept any abuse. I just need to get this off my chest because it's driving me insane! i'm 20 by the way, you do the maths! Ok here it goes... I have a ...

Am I doing my new husband wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

23 July 2010 (F) - I recently got married a week ago and we never had sex. I married my college sweet heart u could say and i do love him dearly. whenever were together were always having fun, but when it comes to sex we just pull apart. note that im a virgin a...

Is it normal to get this wet?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

23 July 2010 (F) - i get really wet and i wont even be in a sexual situation!!! (i mean wet to the point it drips down my leg) is this normal?...

Extremely painful sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

23 July 2010 (F) - I am a 44 year old female. I have never been married. I met a guy about 6 months ago and have really "opened" up to him. When I say this I mean that I told him it's very painful for me to have sex and he thinks that this is the reason I've never ...

How come I can no longer orgasm?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5241 days ago

23 July 2010 (F) - I am having a problem where suddenly my clitoris being worked up is no longer making me reach orgasm. What could be causing this because it has only occurred my last three attempts at this?...