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writes:Im 15 and well i got a bit drunk at a friends house party and well one thing led 2 another with these 2 guys and we ended up having a 3sum and we didnt use any protection and i know i shoud of but i wasent thinkin straight The thing is im 2 days late im not always on time with my periods but im just a bit worried im scared to talk 2 my mum about it because i know she will be angry but i dont know what to do, when do i need to take a pregnancy test because i know it wont wrk for a while but i dont know how long to wait, and how can i tell the guys if iam one is 17 and the other is 18 and well i only just met them please can someone help im really scared.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2010): I have to ask, did they finish inside? If not, and if they did not re-insert after orgasm, there is a much reduced chance of pregnancy. Still a possibility, but reduced. If they came inside, and you were ovulating, very likely.
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reader, honeychild23  +, writes (24 July 2010):
wait a few more days until u take a test, that way its more accurate. if u r pregnant, i would suggest u to take care of ur responsibilities, if u arent i think its pretty safe to say, u wont b having anymore threesomes anytime soon. im not gonna judge u cuz i was doin far worst at ur age, i jus wish the best for u hun n i hope everything works out:-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2010): You can come out and tell her the turth and that is good that you tell right so all I got to say is tell her
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reader, loraemoon +, writes (23 July 2010):
 you can do a test the day of a missed period so do one also reguardless of the result being possitive or negative go to the gp and get tested for stds what you did unprotected was very silly but i know mistakes happen just dont make that mistake again, i would tell your mum she can help you
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reader, Over..worried.  +, writes (23 July 2010):
 I suggest that, if and when you take a pregnancy test and you are pregnant you go to a women's health clinic they can give you the advise and help you need.
Another one I know you are scared but tell your mom. And yes she will probably be disappointed but she also loves you and will help you.
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reader, TimmD +, writes (23 July 2010):
 Well said DrPsych.
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (23 July 2010):
 You can take a pregnancy test right now if you have just missed your period. They are very sensitive to a certain hormone that shows in your urine shortly after conception. Even if the test is negative, take another in a few weeks just to be sure. You can buy a test from a chemist for a few pounds, or if you cannot afford it then see your GP who should do a simple test for you since you are underage. If you are pregnant then you need to see your GP and tell someone you trust in your family. If you are keeping the baby then take folic acid tablets and get booked in with a midwife through your GP surgery. Your school would also need to know by the time you go back in September since they need to do health&safety assessments, as well as planning your education around the birth. The father can be identified by way of a DNA test after the birth. If you want an abortion, it is very important you see your GP very soon because it is less complicated in the early stages of pregnancy.
If you are not pregnant then you still need to see a GP. I am guessing that the boys you were involved with were sexually experienced so there is a possibility of sexually transmitted diseases. It is important that you are checked over as it could have a long term impact on your health and fertility. The fact that you got drunk and then had that sexual experience at such a young age suggests that you are vulnerable. It is not ok to say it was a mistake because you were drunk because you are really saying it was ok. This is not a moral judgement from someone older but my work with teenage girls in the past tells me that you find it difficult to say no to certain situations that don't necessarily make you happy. You are obviously stressed about the prospect of pregnancy right now. You should also look at why you feel unable to defend yourself against being exploited by others. Having underage sex with two males you know casually in an unprotected way points to your lack of self confidence to not demand better treatment. You really need to address this now because you risk getting into more corrosive relationships and risky situations in the future. Talk to your GP about getting some counselling to help you understand your behaviour better and learn some ways to say no. It is not just about people with mental health problems, other patients see a counsellor to talk through what is troubling them.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (23 July 2010):
 I believe most pregnancy tests won't show anything until 2 weeks after conception. I know you're scared so I won't go into the details about just how risky what you did was. I don't normally advocate abortion, but if you are pregnant, it is an option I'd seriously consider.
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