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Archived questions from: 25 July, 2010 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I need him but he doesn't give me what I want!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5239 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - hello everyone, I ask you to help me please because this problem is making me very miserable... I've been with this guy for nearly 4 months now but he was my ex from a long and troubled relationship, he keeps coming back to me, and this last tim...

I have an attraction with the other woman...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

25 July 2010 (M) - I recently met a woman who I started dating. I was rather unimpressed with her so over weight and that she was not really a good looking person. We have no plans to extend this into a relationship as we agreed that we were just dating. I do like her ...

I'm worried about being clumsy in sex, having had only one partner before her.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

25 July 2010 (M) - I'm starting to date a girl who I have been friends with for a while. I seem to click with her well and we have no problem talking to each and have good fun together. However I'm nearly 26, I have only slept with one girl when I was 20 and sex tbh ...

Can men stay without having sex with their wives for 3 to 4 weeks?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - can you please tell me can men stay for a long time i mean like 3 or 4 weeks without having sex with his wife? is this true can man stay without touching his wife for more than 3 weeks as my husband never keep attention on me why is that? is that ...

My partner can't satisfy my sexual needs, but everything else is good. Is it a deal breaker

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - Ok , if u were n a relationship and everything Is good except for the sex, and u even expressed to ur partner Tht ur not happy sexual and even tried to explore new ways wit Ur partner 2 try 2 make it work but they jus can't satisfy u Sex...

We used to have 2-3 X a day and now hardly ever!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - Hey i really need some help, me and my boyfriend have been going for about a year and a half, its was fantastic for about 7-8 months thn we started argueing alot. we had the most amazing sex life we did it about 2 3 times a day and it was amazing...

What is the difference between sex and real love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

25 July 2010 (?) - -what is diffrance between sex and real love...i think ihe love u make is sex and the love that come from heart is real love...plz tellme the diffrance....my husband says he loves me but i am not his love...our marriage is arranged....hw can u ...

My girlfriend won't do anything new in bed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

25 July 2010 (M) - Can you help me my girlfriend doesn't do anything in bed that we plan to try for fun yet will bite my head off if I ask why I could understand if she was nervous because she hadn't done it before but guess what her exs got to do it all with her ...

I only seem able to have an orgasm in one position. Why is this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - Hi, Can you please tell me why, when i have sex with my husband i feel excited when i face him and my clitoris touchs his penis? If we do different styles eg: a dog style he will be behind me but i cant orgasm, i cant end my excitement in any othe...

Is it possible not to like sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - Is it possible not to like sex? I lost my virginity to my boyfriend a few months ago and we've done it somewhere between 10-20 times but I still don't like it. Sometimes it hurts a little but at other times it's just uncomfortable or I can't feel ...

Did I mess up here???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

25 July 2010 (M) - hi last night i was in town and i was very drunk, i recently moved back into my mums, and ive been seeing a girl i really like, i went town with her and like i say i was very drunk and invited her back to mine, we ended up having sex but to my horro...

I am not sexually satisfied. Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5239 days ago

25 July 2010 (M) - My GF and I have been living together for 2 and a half years. We get along fine, but the sex is not often enough (once or twice a week), and it is not good enough to make up for the days of no sex. I used to get alot of BJs, but those have stopped. ...

Why will my wife not have sex with me more often?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

25 July 2010 (M) - Why my wife won't have sex with me more often? We've been married for five years and together for six, apart from the first heat when we've met, she never asks or offers to make love! and when I ask or make a move she says why? it's like a chor...

Is it because she's younger than me she has such a high libido?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

25 July 2010 (M) - ok I started dating a much younger girl 6 months ago, the sex is unbelieveable. Its wild, fun, kinky and man its daily. Is it her age (she is 22 I am 40), my age, just because our relationship or is the chemistry just that good between us. I cant ...

He doesn't make me orgasm and I don't know how to tell him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has never given me an orgasm. Don't get me wrong, I really enjoy the sex, but I need clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm. He sometimes touches me down there, but never for long enough for me to orgasm, but I know if I asked him to ...

G/f very open about sex and I want to surprise her tonight!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

25 July 2010 (M) - I have a very beautiful girlfrind . She loves sex with always new styles . She need a new things every time . She made many things . She like neighbors to hear us when making sex . She likes to make sex in open areas . Now I need to surprise her ...

Do I go for the old ex-girlfriend or the girl from the strip club?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5239 days ago

25 July 2010 (M) - Hi thanks for the answers. this is a followup to this question..http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-friend-doesnt-want-me-to-go-to. Alot has happened since. for the record i dont go to strip clubs looking for love i dont even believe in love....

Friend knew I was a virgin but she wouldn't help me having sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

25 July 2010 (M) - Has any one had this problem. I was spending time with a friend just a friend we went to a casino then instead of going home we went to a hotel because its a two hour drive back to where we live, and we where both tired well i was. so at the ho...

Does sweating during sex (working harder) make it easier to orgasm?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5239 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - Whenever I have sex I never sweat. My boyfriend always sweats when we do though. He's always on top so he's working more. The thing is i've never had an orgasm and because I dont sweat it might be because I'm not working hard enough at it. (besides ...

He has trouble having sex! Should I give up on the relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - We been dating 5 months, he is only 25. He feels like having sex every day or every other day is too much for him. He has been losing his erection lately and has admitted to me his body can only do it 1/2 times a week. His last relationships were ...

Am I still a virgin after our messing around session?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - Ok ive been trying to find an answer to this but just don't seem to find the right one. Well like 2 days ago my boyfriend and i were just messing around, and well he fingered me and then well it led to another thing. He told me he wanted to just f...

I'm big but can't get anything!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

25 July 2010 (M) - Im a 20 year old guy, who has just never been lucky in the dating department. I dont know why, Im not overly attractive but Im not ugly either. And its not like Im not gifted down stairs either. Most girls would love an 8 inch long penis thats 6 ...

Should I tell my parents that I'm having sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - Is it really that "bad" not telling my parents I am having sex. I am 16 years old grade 11 in september. It was the first time a few weeks ago. I just don't find any reason to tell my mom. Also my mom drives school bus and after school for 5 mins ...

How can I get birth control without my parents knowing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - how can i get on birth control if i dont wnat my parents to find out i have had sex? they are strong lutherans and if they find out im not a virgin, ill be screwed. but on the other hand, if they find out im pregnant, ill be kicked out. how can i ...

Can you have a healthy, committed relationship without sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - Is it possible to have a healthy, loving, committed relationship without sex? I am 25, and I have had two serious boyfriends -- the longest relationship lasting for a year and a half -- and several shorter relationships. I do not date anyone ...

How can I achieve orgasm through intercourse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - I'm a 20 year old female and have had a few sexual partners. My problem however is that I cannot have an orgasm through penetrative sex. No partner has ever made me have an orgasm. I can reach it myself through clitoral stimulation but no one else ...