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writes:Hey well me and my boyfriend are starting to do sexual stuff now and im new at. (the most iv done is making out but he had sex before) The problem is we agread we would start out with oral sex, but he doesnt want to eat me out any more. I asked why and he said because every time he did it the girls told him he sucks at it. I told him it will be ok il like it no matter what and i probly wont know if your doing it right or wrong cause i never had it done, but you dont have to if you really dont want to. He said he wants to but he knows he sucks at it. What can i do to help him? Thanks :)
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (24 July 2010):
 I can NOT believe any male would ever refuse to "go down" on a woman unless she was very inept at hygene. assuming you're not, then you have the upper hand so to speak, no cunnilingus= no falacio. He's not mature enough to realize this act is possibly the most satisfactory act of foreplay. He sounds like he's messin' with you too telling tou he thinks he won't be any good at it. I mean what's to know? tounge kissing the pink lady is an honor not a talent contest.
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reader, cupid-enigma  +, writes (23 July 2010):
the best thing to do in a situation like this is try to get the guys confident up, i mean his male EGO has just been thrown out of the door by all those girls telling him his not good in the bedroom; and that where most guys brag they are best in. try to make him see that some of these girlfriend might not have been tellinghime the truth and that you should be the judge and if it turns out that these girls were telling the truth tell him practise makes perfect.
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