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writes:I had sex with a really gorgeous prostitute.There was a sexual connection of some sort that I never felt before with any other girl or prostitute. I had slept with a reasonable amount of them. It was almost a divine experience. She had 3 orgasm with me and the third we finished at the same time. After that I visited her for a second time.It was even better. It was like I was having sex with a friend not a prostitute she treated me so well.Better than regular girls even. I could tell she was a really great person.So I was interested in getting to know her.I asked her on a date.We went on a date We talked and talked I got to know her story she told me everything. and after that we went to a motel.There was so much sexual energy between us. and I did not get charged for the sex. She said she would usually charge for the date and sex.but didn't charge me cuz she really liked me. She also let me do her without protection.She gets checked regularly because that is the requierement of the brothel.So she is cleaner than most girls walking around.It was risky thing to do but I did not care at that moment in time. I was in heaven I felt God's love in some way through her I cannot explain that feeling. Should I just forget about her or should I follow what my heart is asking for cuz she is what I want.I don't care she had 1 or a million dicks inside her. Is it just impossible? Could a girl like her ever fall in love? I even cried when I had to return to my country cause I was on vacation. But we are still in contact.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2010): You are a fool to think she was doing anything but acting ie her job. Dpn't get sucked in. Find a real woman and stay faithful to her
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2010): While I understand you clearly felt something special with this woman, you have to ask yourself some serious questions if you believe it might be love. Do you really love her or because of the sex is it just lust? Unless you're willing to basically "buy her out" of her profession/ become her sugar daddy, she's going to remain a prostitute. Are you ok having a relationship with a woman who's a hooker?A great escort does her job well and her job is to make you feel great, make you feel special. If you did not go on that date, I'd say you were deluding yourself. But you did and that is something. But is it just a one time thing? Hard to tell since it sounds like the two of you are in completely different countries. If you have her phone or email, all you can really do now is keep in contact with her and see how things go, see if she stays interested in you or if it was just a one time thing for her.Last but not least, she may get tested for her job every few weeks or months, but having unprotected sex with her is VERY risky. In light of her profession, she's at greater risk for catching something than an ordinary girl. And as much as we don't want to believe it, as the old saying goes, if she was willing to give it up to you unprotected what's to say she isn't doing the same for other guys?good luck
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (23 July 2010):
 Yes of course "girls like her" can fall in love, they are people too, but it just isn't often with someone that that they meet as a client. I have a couple of friends, including one of my favourite people in the world who have been prostitutes in the past and and another who sadly is still a prostitute. They are wonderful, kind and in most respects very moral people. However, giving your heart to a hooker is a hard road to go down because in their brain is lodged the idea that somehow you "owe" them something in return for them having sex with you.
My friend who is a prostitute in Shanghai, is 26 years old, she's working by her own choice in order to get money to give to her mother. Her mother is saving it as a deposit in order help her younger brother buy an apartment. He needs the apartment so that he can find a nice girl to get married to. When I've remonstrated with her that she just doesn't have to do this, that it is well above and beyond the call of sisterly duty, she just says that she loves her little brother and wants him to have a good life. IS that not a heart warming story?
Same girl, when I was trying to encourage her to retire and marry one of her wealthy clients said to me "I couldn't marry a man who I know sees prostitutes!"... absolutely true.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2010): Do u really think you love her? You sound a very lonely soul who's desperate to be loved. Would you allow her to carry on her "job" or work at a checkout? Would her job not come back to haunt you? You notice a guy giving her the eye. Does he want her or does he remember her? One day you will meet someone and wonder what the hell made you think this. This is not love,it is wanting to find it. Sorry to be harsh but i think you need to face yourself.
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reader, TimmD  +, writes (23 July 2010):
 Men fall in love with prostitutes all of the time. It goes with the business. And prostitutes all have their own "good" customers. Sometimes they'll give freebees, or do "extra" things. Think of them as really good sales people. Not only that, but they are sales people who are dealing with customers who are not thinking with the "right" head.
While there is a chance she thinks of you as more, it is a very very very very VERY slight chance. My official advice is just run away and find a nice normal girl, however, if you think this prostitute is special.... go for it. I guess you never know what could happen in the future....
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2010): Dude seriously....you are going to get played by this woman. Out of all the women...DECENT women in the world, why would you want to pursue love or a relationship with a woman who makes a living by having sex with various men? Ok...she didn't charge you one time...she is being paid elsewhere don't you get it? You are going to end up in a situation you may live to regret for the rest of your life if you get involved with this woman. Go ahead....following your "heart" but the heart is deceitful too.
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