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writes:Okay, this is very dramtic. but heres the story.I met a guy. He is 15 and i am 15. he became pretty close friends and by pretty close i mean really close. he kind of ended up falling in love with me. Well he was a virgin and i took his virginity away. he was the 2nd guy i had ever had sex with. Then i met his brother and i had known his brother a little because he sat with me at lunch a few times but i did not know that he was his brother. Well he is 16 and we became friends and he knew that me and his younger brother had sex and he knew that his younger brother had feelings for me. I invited the older brother to my house one day just so we could hang out and play the guitar. I put on some music and for a while we just sat in front of each other and smiled. then our faces moved closer. suddenly we kissed. just a peck though. then he said "you dont know how long i have been waiting to do that." We did not have sex then though. he went back home. we started texting dirty messages to each other and his younger brother stole his phone and started reading the messages. He got very angry with me but then got over it. The younger brother came over to my house a week later and we had sex for like the 4th time. Then a few days later the older brother came over again and i ended up having sex with him too! then the older brother went home and told the younger brother about him and me having sex. He should have known it would hurt his brothers feelings but he still told anyways. I know the older brother does not care for me in a strong way and the younger brother does. and now i regret the older brother. what should i do to say sorry to the younger one?
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reader, maddy_sex  +, writes (15 November 2009):
don't have sex with anyone for a month speak to yunger brother
if u love him and say sorry and if u don't love him and u want to have sex then ask him to be your sex friend
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reader, Accountable  +, writes (14 November 2009):
 You say the older brother shouldnt have told the younger brother so as not to hurt his feelings.. if you were concerned about the younger ones feelings why did you have sex with his brother in the first place? And none of this "ended up" having sex talk, please - you don't just "end up" having sex by accident, its a conscious decision, and you made a conscious decision to do something which you knew would hurt his brother.As far as making amends with the younger brother goes, all you can do is speak to him (in person, not online/through text please..) and sincerely apologise. Then give him space and let him decide what happens next.Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2009): I hope you have realized that the older brother was just using you. He instantly went and told his brother you guys had sex knowing it was going to hurt him. So either he's got something against you and wants to get you out of his brothers life or he's got something against his brother. Either way he used you for sex and then went and told his brother on purpose. I agree that if you had real true feelings for the younger brother you would never have messed around with the older brother. Learn from this mistake and NEVER do this again. Your best option is to just end things with the younger brother for his sake as well as yours and move on. None of you will ever be able to forget this and it will always cause problems.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (14 November 2009):
You are too young for all this. The fact that you've had sex with two brothers shows that you're not really in love with either and that you're not really ready for a relationship. I would suggest that you speak to the younger brother and say it was a mistake and you're sorry. But don't expect anything, because he has been hurt by you and his own brother. You might be better off moving on from both guys and waiting until you find someone you really do love and will make you want to commit.
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