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*iboha
writes:Im 29 and have been married for two years now but stil in love with a married man. Ive known this man before my husband and we love each other so much. I thought i was going to leave him after my marriage but i couldnt because i love him so much and he satisfies me sexually unlike my husband who has a very small manhood and comes in less than 5 minutes. I really want to be faithful but its difficult for me because my husband dosent satisfy me at all and i still love the other guy. What do i do?
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reader, Wiboha +, writes (17 November 2009):
Wiboha is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks 4 all ur contributions so far. D truth is dat u wil nt undastant wat it means and how it feels as d two anonymous contributors wrote. I know im being unfair to my husband but i myself i hate wat im doin. Im tryin 2 let go of d oda guy,jst to keep my marriage. As at now i ve changed my phone number so dat the oda guy cant reach me. I sincerely hop and pray dat it works. Thank u all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2009): i agree with the other anonomous reader, it is so easy to judge.Sure, a marriage doesn't depend on sex alone. But it's hard to be married to someone that doesnt satisfy you sexually. I understand that you must feel frustrated. You must leave you husband its whats best for both of you. But don't be fooled into thinking you would have a great life with the other man, because as i said before, marriage doesn't depend on sex alone and even though he is great in bed, you may not be compatible as partners.good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2009): People are so quick to judge, but until you have been in a marriage and arent satisfied sexually, you couldnt possibly understand. I myself am in that situation and have lived with this for 12 years. I love my husband but at the same time I feel so cheated. Sex is important in a relationship regardless to what others might say. No it is not all about the sex, if that was the case my marriage would have ended long ago. But it is stressful always having to "fake it" so as not to hurt my husbands feelings. After we have sex I turn over and cry because Im not getting anything from it. I have feelings too, what about me? I can go months without having sex but I have to do my duty as a wife. This is a miserable situation. Please dont judge unless you're going through it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2009): You're being used by the other man, who, I might add, probably does not love you, and certainly does not show you any respect.
You're also mistreating your husband, and exposing him to the risk of disease.
You should leave them both.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (14 November 2009):
If you felt like this, why did you get married? And if you still love the other guy and not your husband, I think you'd better leaving your husband to find someone who will love him.
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reader, Wiboha +, writes (14 November 2009):
Wiboha is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe did not do it before marriage.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2009): First of all, is the penis size all you care about? This is all about sex and sexual satisfaction.I'm even doubting your definition of "love" with this one. Do you actually love the other man or do you just love the sex?Well, who satisfies more than just your sexual needs? Figure out the answer to that, then decide whether or not to stay with your husband if he's not good enough for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2009): Did you marry the man or did you just marry his penis? You tried the penis before he put the ring on your finger and probably liked it then. What has changed now? I doubt there was any drastic change in the two years you have been together that'd prompt a divorce...
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