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41-50,
*fogalilly
writes:Is it wrong to have sex when you're on your period? I recently did and I believe that I freaked my partner out, but I didn't think anything about it and forgot to tell him.
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (15 November 2009):
 fog lily,
While I agree with you and Satin, What is common place to you as women is Terra incognito to an inexperienced man. Some women are "closed for business" for that week, so it is possible he has never had that particular experience. Some men are very touchy about the strangest things. I know of a man who won't allow his wife/SO to rub his back because "Grooming is an ape behavior, not for humans". I on the other hand preach that the couple that showers together, stays together.
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reader, ffogalilly +, writes (15 November 2009):
ffogalilly is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI never have sex without using protection, and I take birth control and I never miss pills. I think he was a little squeamish and freaked out. It was messy but not painful. I read the other post, I just didn't see it as a big deal...
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (15 November 2009):
Two posts on this today and very different answers, I hope you are both reading both posts.
FA
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (15 November 2009):
 It's ok, although a bit messy sometimes. Probably a good idea to previously advise your partner, however, and use an old towel or other protection if frolicking on the bed.
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reader, old-spinstah  +, writes (14 November 2009):
No, there's nothing wrong with it. Some guys are just a bit more squeamish than others. Also some girls refuse to have sex while they're having their period so it might be something he'd not experienced before
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