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anonymous
writes:hiii......i have frnd named sunny.we are family frnds.i know him from my childhood.he is a very good frnd of mine.he undrstands me in every situation.at first i used to be a good frnd of him,then without my notice i became very affectionate of him.i can't be without talking to him for one day also.ha too likes me in the same way.the problem is he already has a girlfrnd and i too know that.when i asked him who is more importent for u he replied than he loves both of us but as she proposed first he don't wont to loose her.i can understand him but i can't be without him.i tried a lot to forget but it was immposible for me as i know him from my childhood since 20 years(my age).i don't want to disturb them at same time i can't loose him. i love him sooo much but i should forget him which is good for both of us. not seriously but he asked me for sex.then i said yes for him as i thought that is the only way i can show my love for him and our relationship since we can't live togeather in future.i want my love to be the most important thing in my life than anyother relationship,so i agreed for it. i belive in "give ur life for the one who gives u his love but give urself only to the one who is willing to be destroyed for ur love". tell me am i right or wrong in aggreing for sex with him? and how to forget him...................plzzzzz suggest me Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank 'U' soo much for ur adivise
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2009): Good answer from honkey tonk...
Also would like to suggest that the lady he is in a relationship with already probably feels the same way about him as you do.. think of the pain you will cause if you and him sleep together, you stand a very good chance of causing some real pain for people here.. Do not be selfish in ur choices as they effect others too. How to forget him..? Simple, realise that you are young and that true love takes time..
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reader, honky tonk  +, writes (14 November 2009):
you are quite wrong.
remember he already has got a girlfriend. still he wants sex with you. that shows his infidelity. and also.... in future if something happens between him and his girlfriend, you will be blamed for it.
refuse to sex. if he really loves you, he would not persuade you further.
if he doesnt love you, then either he will be indifferent or keep pestering you for sex.
be careful. and best of luck.
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