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Archived questions from: December, 2015 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

Online dating and we clicked. But am I wasting my time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3249 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - I met this guy online. We clicked and I enjoyed his conversation. Unfortunately, this man is 2800 miles away. After a couple weeks of phone conversation he decided that the distance was too much for him and that we could just remain as friends....

Just online friends? But then he restarted being flirty. How should I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3243 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - This is really very confusing but please bear with me. There is this guy who I have been chatting to for over 6 months, he is like my best friend but we have never met (we have discussed it, just not really gotten to it as I live 2 hours away by ...

Worth pursuing? Or should I let this online flirtation go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3250 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - I have been taking to a decent guy online for the last 2 weeks. We seem to hit it off really well and within days were talking on the phone every day for hours on end. However I was the first person he started talking to as he had only subscrib...

I haven't met the guy I've been talking to online yet but I'm worried that we might be together for the wrong reasons

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3252 days ago

26 December 2015 (F) - I've been talking to this guy online for over three months now. We've video chatted as well, have a lot in common it seems. We have a mutual acquaintance, which is good considering how many people fake their identities online. We haven't met yet ...

Online guy is making me confused. I had an accident and I believe he thinks I was lying about it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3252 days ago

25 December 2015 (F) - hi everyone, first thanks for reading my post and marry Christmas and new year. I am trying my luck online dating. it's almost year ago I met a guy through online. we really like each other.But when I told him I don't want sex before marriage h...

Online dating: how do I make this work? When I suggest meeting up they back-off

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3253 days ago

24 December 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid After failed relationship, someone suggested me to try online dating, so I registered. So that was the easy part. Got a lot of hits and requests, and I tried connecting to few people. Almost everyone I talked to, never suggested to ...

My online friend always manages to bring sex toy talk into the conversation. Its beginning to make me feel uncomfortable!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3251 days ago

23 December 2015 (F) - Hi, I recently joined an online dating forum and have been chatting to a few people including new female friends which is great. The options on the forum in terms of what members are looking for are as follows: Serious relationship, fr...

We "click" but he's married! Did I do the right thing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3255 days ago

22 December 2015 (F) - Hello. Thank you in advance for reading this. My dilemma is that I met a man with whom I have a strong connection, understanding and physical attraction....but unfortunately he is married with 2 children. We met via a study forum and met ...

How do I start a conversation without sounding too awkward?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3257 days ago

21 December 2015 (F) - My crush lives in Finland, and I live in America. We talk pretty often but I get the feeling that he doesn't like talking to me. He didn't answer my last text. How do I start a conversation without sounding too awkward? ...

Men only want me for sex and my friends only call when they need something

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3260 days ago

18 December 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid Sorry for ranting I'm in my late 30's, had 2 long term relationship. Ex bf wanted to marry a hot girl after being with me for 5 years. Ex husband is so clingy and jealous and emotions and physical abuser, had to end it. Little...

I'm concerned the impression I'll make on our first date!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3259 days ago

18 December 2015 (F) - I have started talking to a guy on-line and we are planning to meet for the first time tomorrow. I am not too confident about my physical appearance as I have lost about 30kg over the years, but now at an average size. I am big busted and the weight ...

Was it just a joke to him? He e called me PG and text me a pig cartoon

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3260 days ago

18 December 2015 (F) - Hi, Thanks for reading my post. English is not my native language I need advice. I am trying to the find right person. I started online dating . I met few guys but things did not work out. Its almost a month a guy tried to reached me. He ...

We've been on 5 or 6 dates but he still won't add me to Facebook

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3258 days ago

17 December 2015 (F) - I've been on about 5-6 dates with this guy who I met on online dating. At the moment it seems to be going really well. He makes the most to see me in his spare time, even if he has other plans, he'll try and fit in seeing me.. He's taken me on lo...

The distance is making me paranoid

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3257 days ago

17 December 2015 (F) - So I have been dating this guy for a short time - October 2015. He is wonderful, and we are completely taken with each other, the only trouble is, I live in the UK and he in the US and the distance is really hard. Not only is the distance ...

Do I give him a heads up? Go shopping with him despite what I know? Or just drop him and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3262 days ago

16 December 2015 (F) - Should I give this guy a chance? For the past year I have been online dating, I have deleted my profiles now as I've not had much luck with it and have been messed about by one guy I really liked. Since July I have been chatting to this other g...

How can I meet more suitable men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3261 days ago

16 December 2015 (F) - I think I am struggling to meet a suitable guy because maybe I have too much. I have worked hard all my life and have my own house and car and have two grown up children. I was a young single parent but I studied and worked really hard. The guys I ...

Is it bad for me to get mad with him? Or am I justified in feeling this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3259 days ago

15 December 2015 (F) - I have been with my daughters dad for three years. We've had our ups and downs but have managed to stay together for the most part. Well, in July and August we separated due to him being really different so I packed up and left. We were still being ...

He is secretive about his phone and he becomes defensive when I ask. But could he be flirting online?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3264 days ago

14 December 2015 (F) - Pls help! I've been with my fiancé for 3 and a half years. We have a 2 year old daughter together I found his profile on a dating site and it said last active 5 months ago and one of his pictures I took of him myself ! I confronted hi...

Why am I so desperate in dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3267 days ago

11 December 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid I am out of a long relationship, love was dead long back between us, he abused me emotionally for so long, I lost what I felt for him and it was a mutual breakup. I found a guy in dating site, he likes 2 hrs drive from me, he lo...

Do I talk to my boyfriend about his following these girls on Instagram?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3267 days ago

10 December 2015 (F) - Hi all I'm a 16 year old girl. I've been in a relationship for 2 weeks now and I really adore my boyfriend. He compliments me constantly and is so sweet he makes me feel so special. This morning I noticed that he had started following a page on ...

What can I do? Should I meet a man who can only tolerate my much loved resucue dog?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3269 days ago

9 December 2015 (F) - I was really looking forward to meeting a man I have have been talking online to. This morning he dropped the bombshell he would only ever"tolerate" a dog and his argument is he thinks its cruel to keep them as pets anyway. I am quite hurt as my do...

Two children and a home together breaking down over a kiss. Something doesn't add up. Should I still meet him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3270 days ago

8 December 2015 (F) - A guy of 40 I'm chatting to online lost everything in his divorce. He said he kissed his wife's best friend and that her friend was jealous of their relationship. His wife of 10 years never trusted him again. To me this sounds a bit far fetched. Two ...

Is this guy messing with my head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3258 days ago

7 December 2015 (F) - I've been talking to this guy since July and he lives kinda far from me so we haven't met, but this dude will confess his feelings for me every couple of months, include me in his life plans and then disappear. I've tried to not get my hopes up ...

Is it a crush? attraction Do I take it further?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3274 days ago

4 December 2015 (F) - I'm 23 years old. Its been 2 years since my first love break up. After that I was like not interested in any love stuffs. Now I met a guy online and he is near to my place. I'm getting attracted to him each and everyday definitely not by his looks. ...

I'm at a loss as to which LDR to choose! Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3267 days ago

4 December 2015 (F) - Hello...um..My name is Lauren, I am 18 And I am currently "Dating" two guys.. Oh but they are both long distance.. And I don't know what to do, because one is J (8 hours away,23) And the other one is R (13 hours away,18). I love them both..but is...