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Archived questions from: January, 2013 (see latest in Love stories category)

Love stories: Help and advice

Is 22 too young for a man to really settle down? Do we know each other well enough to make this decision?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - I am 21, I went to school with this guy, that we will call GUY. So..we have texted and talked via facebook/text for a while, off and on, but for these last few weeks we have talked heavily. All day everyday. We can't hang out at this moment ...

Everything things my guy and I have the perfect relationship. But I feel confused and I'm thinking of breaking up or cheating. I already talk online to a guy. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4314 days ago

29 January 2013 (M) - Hey, sorry for being dramatic about this but I didn't know where else to go for help, thanks for reading. I've been with my boyfriend since 2009, and he is 3 years older than me. I came out when we started dating, and it was hard, very difficult w...

If she would go behind his back, she would mine too, Correct? Or should I wait for her to choose me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4320 days ago

24 January 2013 (M) - This is a messed up one. I finally found my soulmate. She has a child. We were together for a year. She hated her child's daddy. We have been apart for 4 months now. She has started texting me, wanting me to come see her. Here is the exciting stu...

Fallen in love with my husband after our arranged marriage, but struggling to say "I love you". Any advise?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

22 January 2013 (F) - I recently got married...it was an arranged marriage..after marriage I fell head over heels in love with my husband....idealising him like anything..a month or so he went to the states while I have to wait for my visa process to finish..long story ...

After all these years, why do I still think about my past love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

15 January 2013 (F) - I volounteer at the local youth center, and with the help of my mentors have building up a good network systems. About 4 years ago I met this particular youth worker, at the time I really didn't see how amazing he was till after I got to know hi...

We've been a couple for three years. Yet he's told me the thought of sex terrifies him. What do I say to discuss this problem with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4329 days ago

14 January 2013 (F) - Ok, so I've been with this guy for about 3 years now. I'll be 18 in 4 days and he just turned 20 two months ago. He's is literally my best friend and we do everything together, we are inseperable. Its coming time to where hes getting his own plac...

I love my friend and want to stay friends with him despite him having a girlfriend. Why won't he open up to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - im friends with a guy and last summer we grew close as in a few kisses nothing else. hes been with his girlfriend 5 years. he says shes domineering and threatens suicide. i fell deeply in love with him but he said due to what was going on he couldnt ...

Almost 30. Is it ridiculous that I'm still waiting for 'Mr Right?'

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4332 days ago

12 January 2013 (F) - I'm 29, single for almost three years, I meet nice men through internet or when I go out, but I keep turning them down. It's not that I'm looking for someone "better" or think I deserve the richest or smartest. It's just that I want to meet someone...

Can or have men been able to stop using Porn once they meet the woman who is the 'ONE'?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

12 January 2013 (F) - Is there any men here who stopped using porn once they found a girlfriend who they thought was the one? Am I just dreaming here or can this happen? I have read about this happening as soon as they started the relationship. ...

I need help ASAP! This guy is acting so dumb!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4333 days ago

10 January 2013 (F) - I started talking to this guy a month ago, he is the type that acts like a player but he really doesn't get too many girls. We go to college together in California and after we began talking about 4 days later we had sex, I know that was a no no. ...

Friendly or Flirting? What are the signs a guy is genuinely flirting, and not just being friendly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4335 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - Are these signs of flirting? 1. Staring or gazing at you. 2. Complimenting a woman on how she looks such as "Wow, you are beautiful," "I've been watching you--I see you and you are such a feminine woman," "You are one of the few people who ma...

I'm a mess. What can I do? I've been in love with my Gf for a long time. But I've fallen for a second girl at college and now this second girl is pregnant.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

9 January 2013 (M) - Guys, I'm in a pickle. A very large pickle. I've been dating my very lovely and intelligent girlfriend for six years, since we were 14. Before I continue, I need you all to know that I really, absolutely and unabashedly love my girlfriend with all...

Should I leave my BF of 6 years for someone I've known for 2 months?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

8 January 2013 (F) - Hi all, My boyfriend of 6 years recently asked if it's ok if his sister could stay with us for a few weeks until she finds a place in the city.. His sister is a model, she's a gorgeous woman and is currently working with the top fashion companie...

She wants the relationship to progress slowly, but I'm not sure how much slower I can go.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

8 January 2013 (M) - I am very much in love with my girlfriend and being with her has been one of the best years in my life. Like all new relationships, when we first met it was all about being with each other - any minute we could steal together we would make sure we ...

Why is my boyfriend so convinced that my parents don't like him? How can I change this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - My boyfriend is 25 and he is convinced my parents don't like him. This is not true - I have obviously spoken to them about him many times and they think he is great and said they have never seen me so happy. Based on past boyfriends they would ...

My relationship doesn't seem to be moving forwards. I don't want to push him but should I keep on waiting for him to decide what he wants?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly three and a half years. We lived together for about six months early last year but I left because he asked for space, so fair enough. But we have stayed in the relationship since. But I am looking to ...

How long did it take you to know you were in love (the first time)? And how long after that did you tell your significant other?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

7 January 2013 (F) - Here's just a general question for all of you out there: How long did it take you to know you were in love (the first time)? And for good measure, how long after that did you tell your significant other? I'm only curious because my boyfriend of ...

I was in a relationship when I met my (now) husband and cheated. Does this make the marriage doomed?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

6 January 2013 (F) - Hi! When I was with my ex I cheated on him with my current husband (who was my "lover" for a short while before I left my bf to be with him). So, do you think my marriage is doomed because it started this way? I am so in love with my husband,...

Nollaig na mBan: A day for the ladies

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4337 days ago

6 January 2013 (M) - Nollaig na mBan: A day for the ladies You may or may not know that in Ireland, the date of 6 January is known as Women’s Christmas (Nollaig na mBan). On this day, the tradition (still strong in parts of the country) is that men take responsibil...

My BF of 7.5 years, father of our son, won't propose! I want us to be married, but he says he's not ready now.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

6 January 2013 (F) - I am 29 years old and live with my boyfriend, who is 31 years old and we have been together for over 7 years. Together we have a son of 3 1/2 years old. We have lived together most of our relationship. We fell in love fast and knew immediately we ...

My relationship feels awesome, but I'm always expecting something bad to happen! How do I let go of these irrational fears?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

6 January 2013 (F) - So, I have this little problem. About 6 months ago, I met a guy who I initially detested, in a science research station. He was gross to me, I hated everything about him, the way he looked, the things he was talking about, we had absolutely ...

Been seeing him for 3 months but he won't say whether or not it's a relationship. How do I get him to open up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

6 January 2013 (F) - Hi cupids, advice needed. After a horrid start to last year (splitting with ex due to him cheating while I was having our baby) I met someone a few months after who's a really good guy. We've been together now 3 months, see each other 5/6 times a ...

BF won't move back to my state, and I won't move to his. Should I give him an ultimatum?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

6 January 2013 (?) - So...here it goes...a little over 7 months ago, my boyfriend moved back down to Florida because he "hated New Jersey". He claimed it was because he couldn't find a job here and that he missed his mom. Since he's been back to Florida, he hasn't g...

He is special to me. What can I do to make my husband feel like he is really special to me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

5 January 2013 (F) - im a stay at home mom with three children aged 2 to 7 years. Last night my husband said i don't do half of what he does. i feel bad. i take care of house hold and kids no break. i keep a clean house. He takes care of us to the max. always buyi...

I love my BF and we see each other everyday but he never calls me at night. Am I being selfish?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

4 January 2013 (F) - Okay, so I've been with my boyfriend for about 4months, I'm 18 and so is he. He was my first everything. I'm completely in Love with him, and he tells me he's in love with me. He's the best ever and he comes everyday to spend time with me. We text ...

To everyone on this site, and especially the person responsible for this website: Thank you

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4328 days ago

4 January 2013 (F) - This is for every single person on this website: I am glad to see that there are still caring people out in this cruel world. All of you are so caring of people you don't even know. People that may be miles and miles away from you. People that...

Have I lost her? Or could I ever rekindle the love between us? I think she's lost trust in me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4340 days ago

4 January 2013 (M) - There is a girl I work with we have known each other for 9 months. For three of those months we were casually dating but we only went on a few dates but we would talk regularly every day. Just when things we starting to get serious her father was d...

I lied to my GF about how old I was when I lost my virginity. Should I tell her the truth?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

2 January 2013 (M) - Basically me and this girl have been having sex and now are getting more serious. She asked me when i lost my virginity and because I was embarrassed i lied and said when I was 19 when really i had lost my virginity at the age of 23 with my ex girlf...

He is nearly perfect, except... I don't desire him sexually!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4342 days ago

1 January 2013 (F) - i met the perfect man while working as a barlady about 4 years ago. i already had a son and he accepted him as his own even before meeting him! after a few month i fell pregnant with his daughter and then everything started going wrong... not with ...

My mother doesn't like my choice. How do I deal with this situation? I am extremely stressed!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4316 days ago

1 January 2013 (F) - I find myself in a very stressful situation. I habve found the guy of my dreams. He is caring, respectful, and loves me to death. We've talked about a future together and what not. But the thing is that my mom doesnt exactly aprove. She thinks he's ...

Can I still get her back? Am I stupid to want her back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

1 January 2013 (M) - Three months ago I heard my ex flirting on the phone with a man (saying stuff like "I'm thinking about you too", they had obviously been meeting), which really hurt me and made me write a touching goodbye message to her. She told me she loves me...