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Archived questions from: December, 2015 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

I live in LA and she lives in Las Vegas. Can a LDR work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3278 days ago

31 December 2015 (M) - Do long distance relationships work? There's this girl that if I'm honest with myself I've been in love with since I met her two years ago. We've never been out of communication, even when we both had significant others. Those relationships ended ...

What do I say, if anything about our LDR? Why re-connect with these girls? Why have a racist friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - I've been dating my so for a while now and we have a fabulous relationship the majority of the time. However he lives 418 miles away in a big city and I'm stuck here in a small town. There are a few problems that have arisen and the majority of ...

What can I do to make my LDR boyfriend trust me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - I m in a relationship with this guy and it had been 2 years. We love each other More then our lives. This is a long distance relationship. He is really possessive. I don't use any social networking because of him and I m fine with it. I don't talk ...

Online dating and we clicked. But am I wasting my time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3280 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - I met this guy online. We clicked and I enjoyed his conversation. Unfortunately, this man is 2800 miles away. After a couple weeks of phone conversation he decided that the distance was too much for him and that we could just remain as friends....

Can't get him out of my head but is he really interested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3281 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - I met this guy 3 years ago at a program and we became good friends. We both had a 'thing' for each other but both were committed to different people so didn't act on it. We lost in touch after the program ended until last year when I got back on ...

How can I help my Girlfriend to have more confidence in herself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3274 days ago

24 December 2015 (M) - Forgive the long intro, My LDR question at the very end. Please start your response with LDR if you respond to just that so I know. I am your average guy. Called attractive by some, not by others, called smart by some and not by others. Overall ...

Am I being disrespected or did I misunderstand him completely?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3286 days ago

22 December 2015 (F) - Hi to the people of Dear Cupid, I have been seeing a guy for the past 4 years. We are really serious about each other. Around 6 months ago, he moved some 300 miles away for a new job. This was really important for him, as he was unemployed for a...

How can someone change so much so fast? I think it's his mother and his friends influencing him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3288 days ago

21 December 2015 (F) - He has changed so much in the past year, I do not even recognize him. When we met we were both in college but he was getting ready to graduate. He was a huge nerd always playing Magic the Gathering, and he was very sweet. He had like a 1930's cl...

How do I start a conversation without sounding too awkward?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3288 days ago

21 December 2015 (F) - My crush lives in Finland, and I live in America. We talk pretty often but I get the feeling that he doesn't like talking to me. He didn't answer my last text. How do I start a conversation without sounding too awkward? ...

Our wedding is due soon. But I am having trust issues with my LDR fiance. what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3290 days ago

19 December 2015 (M) - I am am Indian male and I am on a ldr with an Indian gal leading to marriage. But I am having trust issues. She started to lie to my family about where she goes, what she does. I think she might be lying to me as well. I found her with many white li...

Can I trust him? maybe I shouldn't even be with him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3292 days ago

17 December 2015 (F) - Often times we are advised not to judge our boyfriends based on his past... But I wonder, isn't it important to have a general idea of his past relationships and how he has handled them? Wouldn't having this insight give me an idea of his characte...

My boyfriend's ex has been in touch with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3291 days ago

17 December 2015 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles. I am in a LDR of a year. We have had some ups and downs, but love each other and see each other every other weekend for its entirety and speak/text loads. I found out his ex has been in contact with him. She broke up w...

The distance is making me paranoid

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3288 days ago

17 December 2015 (F) - So I have been dating this guy for a short time - October 2015. He is wonderful, and we are completely taken with each other, the only trouble is, I live in the UK and he in the US and the distance is really hard. Not only is the distance ...

Is it bad for me to get mad with him? Or am I justified in feeling this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3290 days ago

15 December 2015 (F) - I have been with my daughters dad for three years. We've had our ups and downs but have managed to stay together for the most part. Well, in July and August we separated due to him being really different so I packed up and left. We were still being ...

I still believe he is "the one". Any idea what's up in this LDR?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3295 days ago

14 December 2015 (F) - Hello I am trying to keep it short but I m very glad for your guys feedback. My boyfriend, i mean my ex and i were having an long distance relationship. we tried to see each other every 2 weeks. 2 weeks ago we had our first intense argue. we...

I don't want to lose myself in relationships anymore. Any advice on moving on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3300 days ago

9 December 2015 (F) - I just recently ended a long distance relationship. Over the summer, I had met what I thought was a great guy- truly a man and different from the rest. Although we were close in age, he was still several hours away at a military academy during t...

I think he's interested but just very shy, should I tell him I'm interested too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3301 days ago

8 December 2015 (F) - I really like this guy.. I met him a couple of years ago through a mutual friend. Then we ended up having a class together at university. We became really good friends in that class, despite him having a serious girlfriend at that time. Since that ...

Is this guy messing with my head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3289 days ago

7 December 2015 (F) - I've been talking to this guy since July and he lives kinda far from me so we haven't met, but this dude will confess his feelings for me every couple of months, include me in his life plans and then disappear. I've tried to not get my hopes up ...

What's the best way to help a tired girlfriend in a long distance relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3301 days ago

6 December 2015 (M) - Hiya, In a long distance relationship with my girlfriend, at first swe was always texting so many times a day even though she has two jobs and we always managed to see each other every couple weeks. But past couple weeks she has been distant, ...

Is this relationship in trouble or going no where? What is the answer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3304 days ago

5 December 2015 (F) - One week before school let out in May he told me he loved me, but then took it back the next week and told me that if I wanted to break things off with him then that would be my choice. I was leaving for a summer job the next week and would no...

I'm at a loss as to which LDR to choose! Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3298 days ago

4 December 2015 (F) - Hello...um..My name is Lauren, I am 18 And I am currently "Dating" two guys.. Oh but they are both long distance.. And I don't know what to do, because one is J (8 hours away,23) And the other one is R (13 hours away,18). I love them both..but is...

Due to work we only see one another on weekends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3306 days ago

3 December 2015 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years and I really love her. However for the last year I have only seen her at weekends due to work. We live an hour and a half from each other and driving to her's (and vice versa) daily is not an option due to ...

My boyfriend expects me to pay for him!

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 3302 days ago

3 December 2015 (F) - I'm confused. My current boyfriend with whom I'm in a LDR with for over a year seems to be the kind of guy who is used to his girlfriend buying him things and paying for things/meals. This is the first boyfriend (I've had 4 BFs) or guy I know that ...

I like him but why treat me like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3308 days ago

1 December 2015 (F) - Hi. I'm confused about this guy's behavior and need advice. So I finally started liking a guy after 2 years of getting out of a long term relationship. I still like him a lot. He lives in a diff city and whenever we are in each other's city, we meet ...