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Archived questions from: October, 2013 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

My online boyfriend just used me for money!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

30 October 2013 (F) - I meet my bf online 4 months back. Initially he was very sweet. And always told me he loves me very much. We never meet face to face. He is financially a broke. I helped him pay half of his house rent once. He also didn't have money to eat food I a...

LD Girlfriend with male bestfriend...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

28 October 2013 (M) - I'm in a long distance relationship (on the game SecondLife), and my girlfriend has a male best friend on SecondLife. They have known eachother for 3 years now or so. She is the type that only has guys friends and admits it. I've only known her ...

Is my LDR worth it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

28 October 2013 (F) - I've been dating my current boyfriend for a little over two years now, and we have been long distance since 2 weeks after we began dating. We saw each other regularly, but recently he moved further for school and were closer to 5 hours away from ...

What can I do about this controlling guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

27 October 2013 (F) - i been with my significant other for 6 years and hes always been the jealous type, always in my business, wanting to know my facebook password, my email password my phone code to unlock my phone etc, doesnt want me to have friends and i have lost ...

Having trouble adjusting after moving back home

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

26 October 2013 (F) - When I spent a year working in Australia, I met the man of my dreams. He trained at a gym which had a coffee shop nearby, so as I worked there I saw him daily. After a few weeks of flirting, he asked me out and started dating. When my year was up we ...

I don't want to make a scene but I think he's being rude

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

22 October 2013 (F) - I've been in somewhat of a long distance relationship for the past 2 years since I only see my boyfriend every weekend (we live an hour away). We talk to each other almost every night via facetime so we can see each other. He used to always be on ...

Did fate bring us together at the speed dating event? And is this considered a relationship based on infatuation or real love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4079 days ago

21 October 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, I might be cynical in saying this, but I didn't believe that fate could bring two people together as it was always something I saw depicted in movies. Never have I ever experienced love like this when I met my current boyfriend who li...

He messaging a girl on Facebook, just like we did when we first got together! Do I have a right to be upset by this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

19 October 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a relationship that is distance for about two thirds of the year. We've been together for about a year and a half and the distance is ending in a couple of weeks. We talk on the phone most nights and Skype each other once a ...

He ended it, he text again.. Can anyone tell me what is happening here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4082 days ago

18 October 2013 (F) - I met this guy 6 weeks ago while I was on a hen. Im from Ireland hes from London. We totally clicked!! Anyway, long story short we spoke everyday for 4 weeks and then he came to stay with me for a weekend. It was amazing, until the Saturday night I ...

I feel like she's trying to come between us

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4082 days ago

18 October 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship (2hrs drive away) not that far but I can't see him as much as I wanted. I am pretty certain that one of his female colleague whom I also know, likes him. We use to work together, even when I was ...

LDR isn't working for me. Is it wrong that I want my b/f to come back to where I am?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4083 days ago

17 October 2013 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend and I studied In the same university for 5 years but we dint know each other until the last month and when we got to know each other there was no stopping to us,but it was the end of semester and my boyfriend had to go back to his c...

Love this girl to bits but the moaning just gets me down.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

14 October 2013 (M) - Hi there, My fiance and I have been together for over 3 years now, we've been engaged for about a year. My question here is: Is it me causing all these problems or something else? Our relationship had a rocky start but after that we were pre...

Why does he suddenly seem distant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

14 October 2013 (F) - Why does he suddenly seem distant? I've been chatting with an old high school friend for about 4 months. We've been talking everyday (facebook, skype, phone, etc) and it was pretty intense-talking about the future, him telling me he misses me, al...

I care for him but take his words with a pinch of salt..am worried I'm a rebound!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

14 October 2013 (F) - Hello Agony Aunts/Uncles! Thanks for taking the time to read, I'll try not to be too repetitive in the telling :) In summary, I met this guy J online. He's got a lot (and I do mean A LOT) of baggage to work through, not the least being that he br...

I cant stop missing him. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

13 October 2013 (F) - Hey :) I was in an ldr with a wonderful guy for nearly a year, and things were pretty great. But we were definitely switching off. Well, he more so than me. He went MIA for about a week and i was really worried to find out he was in hospital...

LDR going sour..how do I keep her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4088 days ago

13 October 2013 (M) - I am hopelessly,helplessly,head over heels in love with a beautiful gorgeous doctor! We have been dating for 6 months now the last couple of months have been LDR but I make sure I see her every 2 weeks(I have been trying)..she's a nice and kind hea...

LDR talking only 1 hour a week on the phone isn't enough for me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

13 October 2013 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year. Things were great and I've fallen deeply in love with him. We met on holiday and decided to have a long distance relationship where we would see each other every 1-2 weeks for about a week. ...

He thinks it's not healthy for us to be together because we are arguing, what should I do?3

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

12 October 2013 (F) - I met a guy on the 22nd of September 2013. We been talking every single day and been texting each other and said he wanted to be with me but nobody else. he is 24 and I am 26 . he told me he smokes weed and told him to stop smoking and had an ...

My LDR is never there for me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

11 October 2013 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship with a guy. We have been together for 1 year. He loves me, I know that. But whenever I need him, he is never there for me. If am disturbed at night, he prefers to sleep because he doesn't feel like spoiling his ...

Is is okay to be a little envious of my sister and sister-in-law's friendship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

11 October 2013 (F) - Is it ok to be a little envious of my sister and sis in laws f/ship.? My younger sister and my bro and sister in law are close in age and have lots in common kids etc. They live in diff states but communicate via FB a lot, and phone, I imagin...

How do I choose where to live now that I'm on the job market? Boyfriend's or grandparents' town?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

10 October 2013 (F) - I've just come to the end of my two College degrees, and I'm finally looking for my first graduate job… but I really can't decide where I want to live - back in my hometown at my Grandparents house or stay at my boyfriends parents house where I've ...

Am I naive for dating someone who is far away for work, what can I do to make long distance relationships work, and when is it the right time to have sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4090 days ago

9 October 2013 (F) - So I have been best friends with this guy for over two years. We've had a very strong friendship and have a blast together. Throughout our time as friends I was in a two year relationship with this other guy and we have now recently broke up. So my ...

I love him but I'm losing attachment to him. He breaks promises. So what next?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4094 days ago

7 October 2013 (F) - I really do love and care for my boyfriend. However, I'm beginning to question his... Dedication. He is quite lazy when it comes to building our relationship. I'm always wanting to hang out and talk (he lives about 2 hrs away)... He'd rather s...

Should I stay with him or come to reality and move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4095 days ago

5 October 2013 (F) - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 8 months. We are going through a bad patch at the moment but I don't want to break up with him because I really love him - if I didn't I would have broken up with him ages ago. I just need some g...

Advice for a friend in a LDR

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

5 October 2013 (M) - Hi, this isn't advice for myself im seeking but for a very good friend, he (26) met a girl (25) on holiday in the summer, they fell for each other instantly and when back in the uk carried on seeing each other, 3months have passed and they are in a ...

Long distance but in love what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4096 days ago

4 October 2013 (F) - Hey everybody! I feel really insecure about a boy i recently met. Just 2 weeks ago we met in a pub and hit it right of. I havent felt this way in a long long time! We only know eachother for 2 weeks but we text everyday and see eachother a lot. ...

My boyfriend of 2 years lied to me about having children, and who the mother is!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4098 days ago

1 October 2013 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years lied to me about having children, and who the mother is I'm so confused I love him so very much and he has been through everything with me and is the kindest person I know, but at the same time I don't really know how much...