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Health: Help and advice

Is sex so important to my husband?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2736 days ago

30 June 2017 (F) - Hi aunts. I have been married to my husband for 3 years. Our sex life is not good at all. I was suffering from severe dyspareunia for which I didn't seek treatment for a long time as the thought of a doctor doing a over examination used to scare ...

Why is my girlfriend so stubborn about her size and weight?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2735 days ago

30 June 2017 (M) - Why is my girlfriend so stubborn about her size and weight? When we met she was in great shape, she used to wear nice dresses and clothes. However last few years because of her rubbish diet and lack of excersise its showing. I ignored it for 2 ...

How do I react to my boyfriends passive aggressive comments about fitness?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2732 days ago

29 June 2017 (F) - I weigh 42kg. I used to be a previous model however always been naturally petite. My boyfriend has naturally a slow metabolism and he can gain weight quickly. While he does talk quite a bit about him getting fit as he's definitely on the ...

Should I warn her it's showing?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2740 days ago

28 June 2017 (M) - My wife is currently 7 1/2 months pregnant with our 1st child. For the last few months as she has gotten bigger, she has relied on leggings and yoga pants as her go=to wardrobe. She hasn't noticed yet that these are becoming increasingly tighter and ...

My boyfriend says he's depressed and needs space

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2742 days ago

25 June 2017 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 plus months and everything was so wonderful and amazing but recently, he told me he wasnt happy/depressed because he has family issuses going on at home and I wasnt allowed to see him because of my mom. O...

I want to be strong for him at this time of terrible grief, but how?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2739 days ago

23 June 2017 (F) - My boyfriends brother died suddenly last week and it has hit the whole family hard. I am trying so hard to be strong for my boyfriend but every time I'm on my own I beak down in tears myself because I feel so sorry for him. He hasn't spoke much ...

Can anyone suggest how I to make this better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2741 days ago

20 June 2017 (F) - I have big control issues - I like to micro manage everything and I also have trust issues. I have been going to therapy - and my husband said recently that he thinks I've gotten better. I had also given up alcohol. Then on Saturday night -...

How do I improve my body shape?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2748 days ago

18 June 2017 (F) - I'm 15, and I am 10 stone, (145 pounds) and 5 foot 7 inches. I my noobs were a 34c, but lately they've gone smaller and now I'm like a B cup. I haven't lost any weight and my blobs have gone smaller. It's making my self esteem low and it's making ...

Unhappy newly wed, unemployed and losing my mind, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2751 days ago

17 June 2017 (F) - This is a bit long so bear with me. I am 30 years old, newly married to my bf of 2 years and unemployed. Yes, this information is necessary. When i'd met him in 2015 i'd quit my hectic job in consulting to something with less travel...but...

14 months into the relationship, things aren't looking good, he is criticizing and we are arguing. What would you do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2745 days ago

16 June 2017 (F) - Help!!! I am sorry if this is a long post but I need some advice. where to start? ok, so about 14 months ago I met the man of my dreams. He is loving, caring and we have so much in common (or so I thought) we started off slow and then got into a ...

Why can't I be alone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2750 days ago

16 June 2017 (F) - How can I feel comfortable with myself alone? I have a problem being alone and I have tried to do things alone and I just dread the weekend because I'm alone with my thoughts- I've had this feeling since I was ten and it always gotten me in trouble ...

Recently diagnosed with HSV-1 and HSV-2, he tested himself and results were negative??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2751 days ago

14 June 2017 (F) - So I have a few concerns about my current situation. To begin, I was having low back pain for about 5 months and I finally decided to go to the doctor to try to get it checked and maybe some relief medication. While I was there my PCP also did ...

Do I stand my ground or make up with my mother?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2753 days ago

13 June 2017 (F) - Hi folks. I'm in a bit of a predicament at the moment. I have my child's christening coming up this week and haven't invited my mother. Now I know that sounds awful but here's why (sorry for the essay) Basically all our lives my mum...

I think my bisexual girlfriend might be cheating on me. Are they trying to make me jealous, or is something wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2755 days ago

13 June 2017 (M) - I love my girlfriend very much but, the last few days she's spent the whole day and night with this girl that she knows that I can't stand. Today when I went to her house the girl I don't like was there. While I was over there my girlfrie...

I didn't cheat so why do I have crabs and my husband?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2755 days ago

12 June 2017 (F) - I'm married I found crab louse on me I'm not Committing adultery my husband doesn't have any of those things on his body how can that be?...

Why can't my wife understand my need to cross-dress? Why is she so upset that I wore her clothes?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2758 days ago

10 June 2017 (M) - My wife knows I am a crossdresser so why was she so angry at me when I came home the other night. I was completely dressed, with a full make over, my eyebrows plucked super thin with a high arch in them and my ears pierced. She said she knows t...

I advised the male friend that jacking off is normal, but telling me all about it is not. How should I deal with this issue when I raise it with my Bf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2757 days ago

9 June 2017 (F) - Hello, I've been here historically and your answers have really helped me so I am hoping you can help me with something else as I honestly don't know how to talk to anyone about this or if I should. Before I get into it I need to point out that I...

My husband and I are struggling to move on. Any suggestions on how we can resolve this?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2749 days ago

7 June 2017 (F) - Hi. I am a married mom mid thirties. My husband and I have been together for 20 years, married for 13 years. We have 5 children together. We have had a wonderful marriage up until recent. Back in Feb 2015 my husband started to receive texts fr...

My husband doesn't like blow jobs! Am I doing it wrong?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2749 days ago

7 June 2017 (F) - I know this may sound odd, but my husband hates blowjobs. We've been together 8 years now, married for 2 and it's always been the same since I've known him, he's never enjoyed me going down on him. I have only ever gave 1 guy a blowjob before h...

I was so attached to him. Now I want to cut him out of my life. But how?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2761 days ago

6 June 2017 (F) - Hey. I need some help. Although I have moved on from a long term relationship before this and I know it gets Okay with time but I can't seem to get over this situation. I invested all my feelings in a guy for 4 years just to get cheated. It too...

How can I forget him? How can I train myself to stop thinking of him in the way I do think now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2749 days ago

6 June 2017 (F) - Hello everyone I wanted to ask if anyone has any techniques on how to stop associating certain memories with an ex. My ex and I went to school together and reunited for a short lived relationship. Long story short he was just brutal in endin...

How can I make my Bf quit weed?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2749 days ago

6 June 2017 (F) - My boyfriend smokes weed and he lies to me that he doesnt. I know he loves me a lot and will never ditch me, but my parents wont accept him, if he doesnt quit weed. He knows that too but he just doesn't quit it. He wants to marry me but i can't g...

Should I continue my relationship? Or end this relationship? Should I heed my mother's advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2749 days ago

6 June 2017 (F) - Hi there! I was wondering if you could help me...Basically, there's a situation I'm in where I just need some advice and guidance. So, I'd be grateful to receive some answers. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly half a year now and I've known h...

Is my perfectionist boyfriend overly critical of my looks? Or am I oversensitive?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2762 days ago

5 June 2017 (F) - My bf used to think my looks were perfect. But he seems to put me down lately. Like he doesn't like a birth mark on my nose. I can't control that. He tells me that my body is perfect for a woman my age but that I am not 20 anymore. He sa...

Advice please? I'm 17, doing my A levels, and I really want to have a baby.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2752 days ago

5 June 2017 (F) - I'm only 17 but I am really wanting to have a baby. I've been with my amazing, supportive boyfriend for coming up to 2 years and he's everything to me. I'm currently having a really hard time at sixth form with my A levels, and have had to chan...

Why do I miss him so much now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2762 days ago

5 June 2017 (F) - I dated a guy for around 6 months altogether. The first three months were perfect, absolutely perfect and we were so well suited, it was literally as if he was my clone too, we were so matchy matchy. I became depressed at the end of the three mo...

What should I do? A shower get with sparkly elements for men? What could be the explanation?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2752 days ago

5 June 2017 (F) - Hi there guys/gals My boyfriend who I have a long distance relationship came around although asked me to run him a bath whilst on the way. When he arrived I made him a cup of tea so he sat on the bed to drink it before he had his bath. I coul...

How can I find a guy? I have this huge fear of being alone and not married

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2763 days ago

5 June 2017 (F) - I wanted to come here and ask if anyone has any advice on how to get over this fear - for the last 12 years - I'm 31 - I have a huge fear on being alone- not being married It's driven me into the arms of men that are verbally abusive and men that...

I think this 55 year old man may be harassing me. Can someone help me with this problem?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2752 days ago

5 June 2017 (F) - Hey can someone help me out? Gonna explain the story here sorry if its long. Im 20 years old. I live in a small town where they're aren't many bars and there are like 2 or three bars people go to. My boyfriend is a regular at one he's been going ...

How can I stop being so negative ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2764 days ago

4 June 2017 (F) - Hello - I feel like I have reached a breaking point in my twenties and I am really down. Here is the background - ever since I can remember I have been negative - on the outside I have a family- a career- somewhat good looks and most important ...

I feel deeply conflicted over my 8 year relationship. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2754 days ago

2 June 2017 (F) - I am deeply conflicted. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over 8 years now. That's right, 8 years. And yes, lately the 8 years have been wearing down on me. I am 32, and I want to be married. He says he wants to be married...

Recently, my girlfriend starts to bleed everytime she orgasms. What could be wrong with her?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2754 days ago

2 June 2017 (M) - Hello all, I've been with my girlfriend for around seven years. We are our firsts in pretty much everything. Love her to bits still. No fights, good sex life, nothing wrong really. However, something has occurred in our sex-life which I...

How can I control my moods and my tongue? At times I'm vicious with my tongue

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2766 days ago

2 June 2017 (F) - How do I control my moods and temper?.. My life has been anything but easy I had a compulsive liar for a mum and my dad never seemed to care .. I went on to have two children that were born with a life limiting conditions. ..my eldest son died ...

Being threatened by loved ones if I stop taking medication and forced holidays

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2755 days ago

1 June 2017 (M) - last year I was diagnosed with depression and have been taking sertraline which was recommend by the doctor, ive had a difficult life and things haven't gotten any easier. my grandfather passed away from cancer five years ago which really affected...

I feel low and down when around one of my family members

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2755 days ago

1 June 2017 (F) - I just automatically feel so low. It’s not even something I can control or choose –and I read a lot of self-help/improvement books… It just happens. And usually as soon as they go out, I feel like a great physical and mental weight has been ...