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writes:I love my girlfriend very much but, the last few days she's spent the whole day and night with this girl that she knows that I can't stand. Today when I went to her house the girl I don't like was there. While I was over there my girlfriend and this girl asked me if I was jealous, that my girlfriend and her friend showered together for the first before me and her did? Then later on in the day she asked me how I felt about her being bisexual, because her friend said her boyfriend thought it was a blessing. I told her I didn't care because I don't, but I'm starting to feel like she's cheating on me with her friend. This is because especially since she told her she has a nice ass, lets her touch her bare stomach while I'm kissing her, and I am also getting a gut feeling that something here is seriously wrong, but I really hope it's not... Idk what to think can some one help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2017): So many straight-guys say they like to watch a little lesbian-action, and be in the middle. She's enticing you into a a threesome with her friend. Assuming you like that sort of thing?
You can't base your feelings or the direction your relationship is going on assumptions. Ask!
I have a group of straight-buddies, and they tell me they don't mind watching (or taking part); but don't want their girlfriends (or wife) as one of the party. This has come-up in conversations among us. (They know I'm gay.)
The general consensus is they'd have a threesome; but it wouldn't include their girlfriends. Better some random female and one of her friends. It is definitely a common fantasy.
If you're jealous, I think you're a monogamous-type of guy; and apparently this hasn't crossed your mind. Or at least it's a fantasy. How do you feel about live-action involving your girlfriend?
She openly shared that she is bisexual; but neglected to tell you she likes to keep girls on the side.
If this isn't what you've been looking for and you prefer an exclusive-relationship; let her know now.
I think you're right that they may fool-around. The other girl is apparently her friend-with-benefits. Your girlfriend is trying to find a flexible boyfriend who doesn't mind her enjoying both worlds, and/or sharing.
I think you're the third-wheel in this situation. Sit-down and get a full-understanding what their relationship is and how you fit into it.
If you don't like it, let her know; and go find yourself a straight-girlfriend into monogamy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2017): Sounds to me like your girlfriend thinks you'd like a 3 some and is warming you up to the idea.She doesnt think you would feel threatened by the other female being around.Ask her if this is what she is trying to do!Many guys adore the idea in theory but are less keen on the practical side of it..If this is how you feel then let her know as the whole idea might be to try to turn you on with her friend around so that they can get you horny and put you into action!Be clear to her about what you think about this plan!Dont say one thing and mean another or she will think you odd!Knowing what you do or dont want is half of the battle won!I dont think this is about making you jealous but if she denies the threesome set up scene then ask her if she is trying to make you jealous as the second question.Learn to ask in a teasing or factual way rather than accusatory for more honest replies!And move forwards in a practical way understanding that asking is the best way forward!
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