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Archived questions from: September, 2014 (see latest in Gay relationships category)

Gay relationships: Help and advice

How do I cope with these feelings I have for one of my best friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3735 days ago

30 September 2014 (F) - I've been really good friends with one of my best friends for over 5 years now. She is a wonderful person inside and out. I've always thought very much of her and I have to admit I think I love her. She makes me laugh so much when I'm with her and ...

I told her I had a crush and now I don't know if she hates me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

27 September 2014 (F) - so, I have had this crush on one of my female friends,who i will refer 2 as SN, for months now, and i had only told 1 person im a bi female, my best friend. SN is one of my best friends 2 other best friends.So anyway, i got sick of keeping it from ...

My straight friends sleeps in the same bed with me and masturbates. Why does he do this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3722 days ago

25 September 2014 (M) - Hi, I'm confused. I'm gay, my best friend is aware of this. It's not really an issue. He's straight. When we were younger, before I came out, we used to watch straight porn together. Which I don't think is uncommon for teenage boys. And, ...

I'm gay so should I purse a straight friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3741 days ago

24 September 2014 (M) - hi. This might take a while basically I have a boyfriend and I am gay. recently I have been having a few weird feelings towards one of our mutual straight friends. I have known him for a couple of years and always thought he was cute but straigh...

I don't like my boyfriend's belly!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3740 days ago

23 September 2014 (M) - So my boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months and I have a problem with him physically. He is 6 feet tall and has nice big arms, which I like, but he has a huge belly from years of living a sedentary life style. He's 22. He used to be ...

My boyfriend doesn't like me having a sex toy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3742 days ago

23 September 2014 (M) - Hi, so I recently brought some sex toys for myself because my boyfriend and I were too busy to have sex. It was one of the artificial butt toys and I like it a lot. I made the mistake of telling him and now he's very upset about. There are some thi...

She spends a lot of time with her ex boyfriend but tells me I'm still her 'one and only'

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3741 days ago

23 September 2014 (F) - Hello, I've been dating this girl for 6 months now. It all started when I needed help with getting the size for my suit from the girl I like, because I was ordering for Valentine's Day because I promised my friend, Adele, (who is straight but I w...

I really care for this girl but unsure if she sees me as just as friend or more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3693 days ago

22 September 2014 (F) - I met this girl six months ago when I got a new job. In this job all the staff lived together in a house, so for the past six months I've been living with her. About two months ago I realised that I am in love with her. Before this I thought I was ...

I want to be with my best friend but she doesn't know that I am bi

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3743 days ago

22 September 2014 (F) - I am a 16 year old girl. I like my best friend in the I want to be with her way. She is openly bi but doesn't know I am. What should I do?? I really need some advice!...

Should end our relationship now, or try one more time to save it? She doesn't want children.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3745 days ago

20 September 2014 (F) - My partner and I have been together almost 4 years. However our sex life has been non existent for about a year now. I've tried talking to her about it but nothing ever really comes of this. I know sex isn't everything in a relationship, but it is a...

I don't like my ex having contact with her godchild because it means involvement with her ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3745 days ago

19 September 2014 (F) - hi i need some advice. my new girlfriend of 3 months has a godchild with her ex girlfriend whos the mother of her god child. she doesnt go out any where or want much to do with her ex its just the kid she wants to spend time with as she loves her ...

I wanted her to be there for me too, but she seemed too focused on her own life and other people

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3748 days ago

17 September 2014 (F) - hi i'm a 19 year old girl, i had never dated until i got to varsity. i met this girl, we became really good friends and then we started dating. it was perfect at first because we were both very much into it. her life started to go a whole lot bett...

Is is possible for a married woman to turn into a lesbian?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3748 days ago

17 September 2014 (M) - I am married for 7 years. Lately I shared some lesbian porn with my wife and my wife found out that it really turns me on. My wife after a day or two asks me if I would want her to become a lesbian, but with a condition that once she gets into girls ...

My married female teacher is about 28 and she finds many opportunities to touch me. I like it. Is this OK? Does it make me a lesbian?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3751 days ago

14 September 2014 (F) - I am a student, 19 years old, good in studies. I am in a relationship with my boyfriend. I have a teacher in my college,she is married and has a year old son. she may be of 28 or 29 years of age. she is a good teacher. she is very friendly...

Straight man is sending me mixed signals

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3745 days ago

13 September 2014 (M) - I am a gay man that has become good friends with a straight man. He knows I am gay but I think he is curious about his sexuality. He always says he is straight but he is sending me mixed signals. What do I do?...

My boyfriend is acting not right!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3753 days ago

12 September 2014 (M) - I'm a gay male dating my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. I have introduced him as my BF, Other half, Husband. When it comes to his coworkers he introduces me as his roommate. This has been going on since we meet. He doesn't want me to touch him at work ...

Run or fight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3758 days ago

7 September 2014 (F) - Well I have sure landed myself in a situation. It all started about 7 months ago. A male friend of mine had a girl friend that I was instantly attracted to. It was clear she had feelings for me as well, even though she is straight. When w...

How can I invite her without it seeming wierd?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3761 days ago

4 September 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid.. Basically I am having a small gathering on Sunday for my bday.. I am having some friends and family over and I basically really wana invite this girl.. Firstly I'm a girl, I'm 20 and have really fancied this girl for ages! However,...

He didn't reply to my messages -- should I leave it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3760 days ago

4 September 2014 (M) - Hi. On Sunday I was talking to a guy on Grindr, we were really getting on well, albeit for the short time we were talking, and he definitely my type, and its nice to speak to a guy my own age on there. After a while he went offline, and stayed that ...

Tips for a fourth date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3762 days ago

3 September 2014 (M) - Background/Context: I'm a man (18yo) dating a man (23yo). We live in London and for the purpose of this, the person I'm dating is called John. We met like many online, through a well-known dating app for smartphones with a reputation. H...

Could my crush be gay too?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

1 September 2014 (M) - So I've been crushing on this guy for 3 years now. We met at University and became great friends instantly, we were even called a Bromance by our other friends. I always wondered if he might be gay, the "interested in" section on his facebook ...

We both kept up the pretence that we were asleep. Our bodies touched. Could he be gay too? Should I say something or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

1 September 2014 (M) - Ok, I'm sure that this message sounds way to obvious however its been consuming my thoughts for the last week. I'm a 21 closeted gay dude btw. I work in a supermarket, most of the staff go for a few drinks after work on a Saturday night so it was ...