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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I met this girl six months ago when I got a new job. In this job all the staff lived together in a house, so for the past six months I've been living with her. About two months ago I realised that I am in love with her. Before this I thought I was straight. We became really close.She is gay too, and she clearly loved this other girl who was there, so for a while I was kind of third wheeling. Then the other girl left to the other side of the world, although those two do keep in touch. So that left me and the girl I love, although she doesn't know it. She seemed to just see me as a really good friend, but it was confusing because we would sleep in the same bed every night, I would stroke her hair for hours etc. But there were times when she could have made a move to be more than friends, and she didn't. So I really have no clue how she feels about me. My contract ran out three days ago, so I am now back in my country. She is coming back in 6 weeks to the same country. We have been texting since I left, but I miss her more than I've ever missed anyone in my life. I'm so lonely without her and although it sounds stupid, I don't want to imagine a future without her there. What should I do? I'm thinking of trying to arrange to meet up when she returns and telling her then, but I'm really not sure if she sees me as more than a friend or not. I really need some advice.Thank you so much
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reader, babalou  +, writes (11 November 2014):
 I think it's safe to pursue her but be sure that she doesn't have a long distance relationship going on with the other girl or anyone else first. Allow her to make the first move, but I think it would be okay to arrange to see her if she lives close enough and if you both want to maintain some type of connection.
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