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Archived questions from: November, 2013 (see latest in Gay relationships category)

Gay relationships: Help and advice

My girlfriend spends a lot of time with her gay male friend who's almost always semi-naked. Should I be concerned?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

30 November 2013 (M) - My girlfriend often tells me how her male fried walks around the house purely in his underwear. I know this sounds petty but I can't help but let it bother me. I even went as far as to ask what kind of underwear...they're the tight boxer brief ...

Is this gay guy seriously blowing hot and cold, or was I off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

22 November 2013 (M) - So I met this guy, we hooked up, he refused to kiss because he said he was in love with his best friend in another country, who was also in a relationship. He said he wouldn’t kiss because he felt like he was betraying his best friend (!!!!). Alarm ...

Things have changed so much because of her illness -- can we get back to where we were?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

21 November 2013 (F) - I need advice as am completely stuck. I'm in a long term lesbian relationship that for the past year has been incredibly difficult. When I first met my partner she was my ideal woman. Literally the moment I met her I fancied her. She was li...

I'm starting to believe all lesbians are of the lower class and are unmotivated without ambition. Where are all the stable single lesbians?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

20 November 2013 (F) - Why is my dating pool so tragic? It's like all the women I've tried to take serious were going nowhere in life. I don't judge never did but today I realized they all have the no drive in common to be and do something greater in life. My first chic ...

Has any female been in a relationship and later found out that your boyfriend or husband was gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

19 November 2013 (F) - Has any female been in a relationship and later found out that your boyfriend or husband was gay? How can you tell if he is? I have a suspicion that my almost ex husband may be gay and I'm just curious if anyone else has been in this situation. ...

Came home unexpectedly and found husband in strange situation. Is he gay?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

19 November 2013 (?) - Dear everyone, Hi I have been married to my husband since May 11th 2013. We havebeen together for almost 8 years. He has never shown any signs of being bi sexual or gay. Well the other morning he didn't expect me home for awhile but my daughter...

Went through boyfriends phone and found messages to other girls. Is this cheating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

19 November 2013 (F) - My bf and I have been going out for almost 7 months now. I've never gone through his stuff before but he left his phone behind today and I got curious. I honestly wasn't expecting anything, maybe just a couple messges from his girl-friends. Wha...

Is she trying to develop a sexual relationship or chemistry with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

18 November 2013 (F) - Insight needed into whether this chic is interested in dating me or just want to hook up for sex. So I'm lesbian, and I think but am not too sure the chic is bisexual. In any event we went out twice before and after that I kind lost touch with her. ...

Lesbian confusion with a girl I'm really into

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

18 November 2013 (F) - I met a girl in May this year, we got close, however she had a girlfriend whom shes been with for 3 years (I'm 20 and shes 21). We kissed, nothing more. I went to USA in July till Oct, we fell out whilst I was in USA. I felt sly as she cheated on ...

Girlfriend loves me but isnt physically attracted to me

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

17 November 2013 (F) - Girlfriend just told me she doesn't find me physically attractive? Said she loves me and is emotionally connected to me, therefore she is into me physically. Said she sees her life with me. But just that it's not a sexual thing. I'm really confused ...

Guy I messed around with won't leave me alone and friends won't respect my privacy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

16 November 2013 (F) - I have been friends with "Lisa" since preschool and "Angela" since seventh grade. I was the "good" one of the group, mostly because I had REALLY strict parents (as in, we were only allowed to watch Christian shows/listen to Christian music. We ...

New to oral and looking for some tips

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

13 November 2013 (F) - Hi guys, need some advice…I feel a bit of a soppy fish at the moment….I have recently started dating this woman, we have slept together a few times and shes more experienced than me but I find it difficult to 'go down on her'. I'm not really sure ...

I'm crazy about her -- do I tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4027 days ago

10 November 2013 (F) - I've known this girl for a while now, She's my bestfriend, but I think I'm starting to fancy her, a lot. I've never felt like this with another girl before, so it's a strange feeling for me. I've never thought about being with another girl before, ...

Straight Girl Secretly In Love With Bisexual Girl Bestfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

8 November 2013 (F) - I'm a girl. I've always classed myself as straight, it wasn't until recently that this was challenged. I met this girl 2 years ago at a party, we got on straight away and continued to meet up as friends, just hanging out. 2 years on, me and this...

Any kind words or bits of advice on surviving this breakup?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

6 November 2013 (F) - Hey guys. I'm an regular aunt on this page. I'm in need of some help and kind words myself at this moment. My gf broke up with me a couple of days ago and I'm hurting really badly. She has serious anxiety and has difficulty separating one is...

Need advice on a connection I made online that's got messy please.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

3 November 2013 (F) - This may be long but please bear with me I really need some insight from everyone. So I'll start with I'm a 28 y/o lesbian and about four months ago I did the whole online dating profile thing and found a young lady who seemed more or less interest...

He acts like he wants me to be jealous, but does he?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

2 November 2013 (M) - My co-worker was a friend before starting working for same company, we don't work in the same program most of the time but on the occasions we have met up he always hugs me hello and goodbye. we had one sexual encounter. he tells me that he likes ...

Now that I've really fallen I'm scared because so much is at stake

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

1 November 2013 (F) - Hey all. So I've been battling with my head a bit lately and need some opinions and advice. I've always received wonderful and helpful responses in the past, so thanks for that. Okay, so, to get to the point, I'm a 29 year old lesbian. I have ...

All I want is a cuddle but if I ask it'll start another fight

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

1 November 2013 (F) - I just feel confused at the moment, distant and not sure what it is i'm thinking. I haven't seen my girlfriend for about three weeks now and everyday it just feels like she hates me at times. She has a lot of Uni work on at the moment so i can ...