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Archived questions from: December, 2017 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Does my husband friend want a threesome?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2515 days ago

31 December 2017 (F) - I got the feeling that my husbands friend was hinting for a threesome but I’m not sure. We’ll call his friend Lucas. It all started about two months ago when the three of us along with five other friends hired a cabin in the woods for a long ...

My partner's sex drive is lower than mine and I've started developing feelings elsewhere

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2516 days ago

30 December 2017 (M) - Gay male in a long term relationship for 3.5 years with another gay male, similar age. For the first six months of our relationship, we had sex multiple times per week. After that it petered out and since then, we only have sex about once a month, ...

My friend wants me to be friends with his wife but I don't like her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2517 days ago

30 December 2017 (F) - I’ve just recently become friends with a male friends wife. My friend and I have known each other ages but I never really got to know his wife (she was always busy and they are quite independent of each other). Anyway, we’ve been meeting up for ...

Could he be ashamed of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2518 days ago

29 December 2017 (F) - Hi everyone. I’m in a new relationship (few months) with a man about 6 years older than me. I adore him and he’s a sweetheart but I am finding that we tend to argue a bit too much over silly things , we never fall out though and we make up with each ...

I don’t regret the decision I made to split ways but is there anything I can say to make things right between us as friends?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2517 days ago

29 December 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I officially parted ways about 6 months ago after 4 years together on and off. I made a judgement call during his visit to see me in Boston from New York this past summer. As much as I loved and cared for him, there were some ...

No Christmas gift from him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2520 days ago

26 December 2017 (F) - I have a December birthday and my boyfriend of 9months got me a gift for my birthday but today on Chritsmas no gift. He got one from me. After his family left I asked if he had a gift for me, he said no he ran out of money and hopes to take me...

I'm ready to get back into the dating scene, but there are a few bridges to cross first!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2512 days ago

25 December 2017 (F) - So, to start off, I haven't dated anyone or pursued anyone in any way for over a year now, but recently, I have been thinking about getting back into the dating world now that things have been going great in my life as far as my health and financial ...

How do I deal with my narcissistic friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2524 days ago

21 December 2017 (F) - I hope you can give me some insight into a friendship I had since college. Thank you! I feel as if I'm only just waking up and realizing that this friend of mine is actually a narcissist. Am I being subjective? When we were younger, I someho...

My boyfriend regrets telling me about the woman who gets naked!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2512 days ago

21 December 2017 (F) - I have a predicament. I've been dating a really nice man for the past year. However, there is this one friend of his family member who in the past 10 years has removed all her clothing and targeting him lets just say more than once. He swears he has ...

I know I don't have any claim on him so why do I feel bad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2513 days ago

21 December 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid, Me and my bestfriend, who I work in the same office with, started hanging out with this guy we also work with. The guy works in the field so we only get to hang out when he is in town, which happens about once a month. Anyway...

How do I stay out of friends argument?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2526 days ago

20 December 2017 (F) - Hello Aunts and Uncles, two if my dear friends had a fight, I stayed out of it. The one who's in the wrong keeps insisting I take her side, the one who's right is glad I'm out of it. I keep telling the one who's insistent that I like them both an...

21 year old currently lost in the world, any help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2526 days ago

18 December 2017 (F) - Hello all, Lately, I have grown incredibly depressed. It seems like last year, I had everything I could of wanted at the time. I had a boyfriend, I lived in a nice house, I had a great and fun job, I had a good relationship with my co-...

How do I form platonic friendships with women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2529 days ago

18 December 2017 (M) - A little background it turns out im emotionally numb/unavailable to people. i have a difficult time making meaningful connections with them even if i want to. tv makes emotional unavailability seem like a big joke for men. its been like this for me ...

Would a guy settle for one woman if he can't have another?

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 2515 days ago

18 December 2017 (F) - A guy complained that girl A does not like him. Girl A treats him indifferently. At the same time the guy was, and has becoming closer to girl B; who has always been in love with him. This guy and girl B having a relationship now. It seems like the...

Could it be my social anxiety or am I right to feel left out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2525 days ago

17 December 2017 (F) - Hey guys I need your help with something. About a month ago I went out with my boyfriend and a few of his friends, two of them being a girl and her boyfriend. My boyfriend still has a big friend group from when he was at school (girls and guys)...

Why do people question that we are just friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2527 days ago

16 December 2017 (F) - I have a male friend who is one of my closest friends and we’ve known each other about a year and a half. Earlier this year I met his girlfriend and we too have since become friends. I socialise with them as a couple and individually. There’s n...

My female friend said she had an "inappropriate" dream about me. What could it be?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2527 days ago

14 December 2017 (M) - A friend of the opposite gender brought something up. We were talking about dreams, all sorts of dreams, and then she said 'I had a dream about you recently'. I asked what the dream was about and then after a long pause she responded with 'it's ...

Feeling guilty I missed hen do

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2528 days ago

11 December 2017 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm having a friendship dilemma. A close friend is no longer speaking to me because I didn't attend her hen do. I declined months prior due to the dates not being good for me - it's a month of birthdays and prior planned trips. ...

I am lonely and get depressed and can't seem to make friends. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2528 days ago

10 December 2017 (F) - Hello everyone in dearcupid. I have a situation I would like some advice. I am due to be married soon me and my fiance have been together 5 years and we have been living together only for 2 years I love my husband so much I call him my husband ...

She's left me twice does she deserve my respect? Or do I just be her friend like nothing ever happened?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2529 days ago

10 December 2017 (M) - Hello ladies, got a question for you, I was seeing this woman, she left me for another guy, OK, five years later we started to see each other again, she did it again, with a friend in a band, now he dumped her and she is trying to talk to me, am I ...

A practical joke gone horribly wrong

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2533 days ago

9 December 2017 (F) - My friend Bailey and I played a joke on our friend Eve just to embarrass her and teach her a lesson but Bailey took it too far and now Eve got suspended and her parents punished her real bad. She's not aloud to talk to us or anyone or go anywhere ...

My friend is behaving differently since we had sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2534 days ago

7 December 2017 (F) - So I'm 25 best friend is 29. So I have been really good friends with an American man for about 12 years now, we met online and were penpals , we have emailed nearly every day for 12 years and always ring each other and there for each other if we ...

Is going to New York alone for 6 months a good or bad idea?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2534 days ago

7 December 2017 (M) - im want to make a big move to new york. not permanently just for few months maybe 6. i feel a pull to be there now. i went when I was a kid so i don't remember anything. i have no special reason i just want to visit. ny sounds fun and full of cool ...

Why the strange reaction to my bridesmaid offer?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2493 days ago

5 December 2017 (F) - Hi Everyone :) I have a best friend who is acting strange. She recently started acting odd ever since I got engaged in August of 2017. I asked her if she would be my maid of honor? She said yes, then I met up with her at a restaurant and got...

My long time friend is distancing herself from me and I am not sure why

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2535 days ago

5 December 2017 (F) - I have a friend that ive been close with for years, we told each other everything and did everything together. Shes been a big part of my life but this following year i sense a change... I’ve been so busy with work and school 6 days a week I am ...

What is this feeling I have for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2540 days ago

5 December 2017 (M) - i have a childhood friend who is four years older than I am and for the most part I've seen him as a big brother because my friend has always been by my side. But there is another part of me that gets jealous when I see my friend flirt with peo...

I'm into him and I would like to make a move! But we live together at uni, whatbif it went wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2542 days ago

5 December 2017 (F) - Simply put, me and one of my uni flatmates are into each other. He's very shy, I know he has never even kissed anybody before, and I would like to make a move so badly. We flirt, we make excuses to spend time with each other, and he does things for ...

I lost a good friend and now feel guilty

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2542 days ago

4 December 2017 (M) - Dear All I just need some advice. About 4 months ago I met a girl online as a language exchange partner. Purely platonic. We talked a lot and became really good friends. As we grew closer she said many things that made it clear she was not l...

I refused to trade nudes for friendship. Now what?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2542 days ago

4 December 2017 (F) - A few months ago, a group of boys at my school saw me sitting alone, and asked if I wanted to join them. I never dared to approach them before, because I like one of them. They became my friend circle. I felt happy, hanging out with them, and b...

I have feelings for my drug addicted friend's girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2539 days ago

4 December 2017 (M) - Hey guys! I'll try be brief. So I have a friend who is going psychotic due to his drug use that he denies to a psychotic extent. He twists reality and makes everyone his enemy if they try to confront him (I have tried a few times and he angrily l...

He doesn't turn me on but I don't want to hurt him by dumping him harshly!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2539 days ago

4 December 2017 (F) - One of my closest male friend asked me out 3 years back. He swept me off my feet with his romantic gestures and when he asked me to be his girlfriend i said yes to him.Some 6 months into the relationship I realised that I am do not have any passion ...

My pretty friend gets constant attention. How do I cope?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2543 days ago

2 December 2017 (F) - This is long but I feel that details and some background info are important to get an understanding for some answers. This is not your typical, my friend is evidently prettier than me story. I have a friend who is very pretty. She's not a supe...

The boyfriend and the friend who doesn't know we're together: I want to be put first for once

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2540 days ago

1 December 2017 (M) - One of my boyfriends friends and I don't get along because of things that happened in the past between us, so we mutually agreed not to speak to one another. My boyfriend tells me that he likes the guy, but they aren't that close. I don't mind them ...