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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:This guy and I hooked up one night. I asked him later if it was just a one night thing or if we were going to be casual, or if it was something else. I told him I liked him a lot, and either option answer would be fine with me, but that I would really like a relationship with him.He told me that he's not looking for anything "too relationshippy" at the moment. We continued to casually hook up afterwards.The last time we hooked up, it was pretty awesome. It was very... romantic and sensual. The signs and instincts tell me he was coming around to a relationship. But now he's stopped talking to me completely!! Its been a little over a week and still nothing!!Since my cards are all out on the table already and he knows how I feel about him, if he was interested in a relationship, he would have told me, right? Or do I have to pursue him a little more? I don't want to bug the guy, but I don't know what to do! Should I ask him again what's going on even though we've already talked about it? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2008): Well if you did not want a relationship...you should have stopped hooking up with him once he said that...you made a mistake the first time when you thought that he was going to be in a relationship with you once you slept with him...but since he didn't want a commitment then that should have triggered you to stop hooking up...since you did allow yourself to sleep with him again..he only saw you as a sex buddy...whom he could sleep with when he needed someone...so I don't suggest that you call him...if he wants to call you...then trust me he will get in touch.
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