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writes:Update.I actually believe I am in love. I am not going out with this guy, but he means the world to me. He has a gf so I haven't told anyone my feelings incase it caused trouble which isn't fair on his gf. But I just don't stop thinking about him. He is amazing. He is gorgeous. Has the nicest personality ever. When I think about him I get nervous. When he gives me compliments I blush. He has the most beautiful smile ever. And his eyes are too die for. He is the nicest guy I know. Very caring. Good pal. Always looks out for you. Cheers you up when your down. He is perfect in my eyes. The thing is he used to like me and I liked him. But we fell out and he ended up having a gf. Now we have fallen in, I am over the moon. But nothing would happen because he has a gf. I love talking to him. Always puts a smile on my face.Recently he was texting me and asking who I liked and I was explaining how I don't think boys see me as the gf type. He text back saying "All i can say is I would if I could". I know he might just be being friendly to cheer me up. But theres a chance he is flirting. If he is but has a gf, that is wrong. But a don't want to believe he honestly meant that. Because I will really regret not going out with him when I had the chance. Most people will say if hes flirting with other girls while having a gf he will do the same to me, but i don't care I love him. I cry sometimes because I know I could have had him when I had the chance. But is it possible that we will get together in the end - soulmates?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2008): If he goes to you leaving his gf, he can do the same to you.
You said you don't care because you love him. At first, you will enjoy the time with him but what if in future, he really leave you for other girl?
And if you are in relationship with him, can you not to think of the possibility he is flirting other girls?
Insecure and trust issue won't give you the peace of mind.
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