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writes:I'm a 25 year old woman and am totally stumped on this one so please give your opinion, my ex boyfriend who I really care about and still love has moved on with his life and got himself a new girlfriend, I'm okay with that to a degree but I won't pretend I like her, but anyway last week I was out with my friends in a group and one of my friends showed me a picture of a naked girl on his phone, thinking it was guy porn I told him I didn't wanna see but he said to look at her face, it turned out to be my exs girlfriend, I asked him were he'd got the picture from and he said that he was chatting to her on some text to date mobile sight but when he saw the picture he recognised her from my exs pictures he'd seen off face book and thought he should tell me so I could tell my ex, but now I'm stumped coz if I tell him he will think I'm making it up knowing I'm not all that keen on her, but if I don't and he finds out I knew we could fall out anyway, my friend who showed me doesn't know my ex well enough to tell him so it's up to me what to do, I just don't want him to be made a fool of, what should I do?
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reader, penguin64 +, writes (8 October 2008):
 you should tell him but tell him the full story so that its believable. make sure he knws that u dont mind him being ina realtionship and would be happy for him (even if its not true) but just think he should know the truth about this one! cos he will find out eventually and might find out you knew all along and hate you. he might be pissy when u tell him and not believe you but atleast u told him.
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reader, meforyou +, writes (8 October 2008):
You should get your friend's phone and show your ex, how can he deny it then? or ask your friend to send it to you through bluetooth? She sounds like a bit of a slut.
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