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Archived questions from: January, 2017 (see latest in Flirting category)

Flirting: Help and advice

Is it possible to tell him everything and stay friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2848 days ago

31 January 2017 (F) - Hi. I'm hurting and would appreciate a third person's opinion. I've had feelings for a friend for last 2.5 years. They kept getting intense with time but he lives in a different city so I never acted upon my feelings. We used to flirt back and fort...

Is he flirting or is it just banter?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2847 days ago

31 January 2017 (M) - Okay so there was a point I really fancied this guy but then he gave the impression he was straight He recently snap shot two pics I took and drew a penis on them to make it look like I was sucking dick.... then text" bravo you don't like (the ...

Ladies what would you suggest? She's caught my eye. But I'm not sure what my next move should be.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2847 days ago

30 January 2017 (M) - This will seem funny for a 34 year old man to be seeking advice on. Basically, I go to the same shop a few times a week. There is a lady works there who has really caught my eye, whenever she is there when I go in, I get butterflies and feel...

How do I proceed with this situation? How do I process feeling unwanted if it doesn't work out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2850 days ago

29 January 2017 (F) - There is somebody that I like who I am kind of friends with . We get on really well, have lots in common and laugh and joke a lot, as well as chatting when we go to the pub in a group etc. I've been on two holidays with him in a group. I wouldn't...

Should I give up on men? Is there such a thing as a normal guy? I want a relationship with a man.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2668 days ago

29 January 2017 (F) - I have have asked for advice before here and wanted to come back a year later to ask maybe what I am doing wrong. I am a woman in my early 30s that has given up on love. I have only been with three men and two had a relationship with. Through t...

He is much older but I want to have sex with him

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2850 days ago

28 January 2017 (F) - I knew a guy at work. I'm 22 he is 41. A very sexy man. Do u think he will have something with me after sex. We decided to be friends with benefits. He is in a relationship with a 31 years old . We planned to have sex this weekend. Do you think is ...

We're already close. Do you think he is ready to move on and try something with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2619 days ago

27 January 2017 (F) - Hi! Maybe this will be pretty obvious to you but I'm terrible when it comes to relationships and understanding men. I like this friend of mine (we were friends first) and he knows I like him, and we've kissed before but we were always drunk and st...

Do cheating married men usually have more than one mistress?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2850 days ago

27 January 2017 (F) - Do married men who cheat, cheat with more than one mistress at a time? Or do some men stay with just one? I am interested in everybody weighing in with their opinions. ...

I like him and enjoy his flirting. But what should I do? Because I think he has a Gf already

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2850 days ago

26 January 2017 (F) - There's this guy I'm talking too. The problem is, I think he has a girlfriend.. We've been speaking a while and a few months ago, he told me that he can't take things forward with me because he has someone. I respected that and we remained to j...

Is this an emotional affair? ?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2855 days ago

25 January 2017 (F) - Is this an emotional affair? ? ? Last March- my husband of 27 years (M) was working at a customer's house (he's a contractor), and one day a woman (T) who lived across the street came over to bum a cigarette from one of M's workers. She a...

Are my friends wrong? Is this a sugar daddy relationship? Or do I tell him how I really feel?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

23 January 2017 (F) - I moved to a different province for school. I ended up meeting an older guy , he's 41. We decided to not focus on labels and to just have fun , we both agreed that because of our age difference changes are our relationship wouldn't probably last ...

Should I stop holding back? I'm scared to get hurt

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

23 January 2017 (F) - Hey all Till now, I've had very hurtful experiences with the guys I've been involved with/liked. I always feel like I've been abandoned or left to myself. And that the other person doesn't feel any remorse in doing so. I know I'm probably wrong ...

How can I get over my sexual frustration without making choices I may regret?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

22 January 2017 (F) - Hi I'm 18 this year and there's this guy who I'm really interested in at work. We're kinda friends and flirt and stuff. Not only have I got feelings for him but I'm so sexually attracted to him I sometimes can't think straight. He's a touchy kinda ...

How can I get him back? Or has the damage been done?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2856 days ago

22 January 2017 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me tonight and its my fault. I don't know how to fix this situation . I was with my boyfriend when 2 male friends who have a crush on me wrote me on Facebook. Ive known them since before my current relationship...

My husband's brother is behaving towards me in ways that make me feel uncomfortable. Is my brother in law trying to tell me something ? What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

22 January 2017 (F) - I need some advice regarding my husband's brother. We haven't always got on so well because I found him a bit intimidating. He's 12 years older than me and he used to behave a bit strange with me for example: He always accused me of flirting w...

How should I handle this situation? I think something is going on between my mom and my husband

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2860 days ago

21 January 2017 (F) - I think there’s something going on between my mom and my husband !! I know this sounds impossible but it seems true !! And I want to get to the bottom of it but don't know how !! My mom's visiting us and it has been here for the past 2 months !...

Fed up with him. Don't think I can trust him any more. How should I handle this situation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2861 days ago

20 January 2017 (F) - hi everyone ive been with my fiancé for 3 years now just lately I don't feel happy anymore and now ill explain why. We met through facebook and after that he told me he doesn't use facebook anymore. I had him on my friends list he just never bother...

Any opinions as to whether she is into me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2863 days ago

18 January 2017 (F) - There is a young girl who I come across frequently as she works near me and I am of the understanding she is straight. I think she has a boyfriend but I am gay with a girlfriend. I am just curious as to whether she is into me or not. She remembe...

Can two cheaters make a relationship work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

16 January 2017 (F) - I was in a serious relationship with a guy (it was long distance where we had to fly an hour to see each other). Then one day, I find out he had been texting this other girl 10 hours a day, and they were seeing each other for 3 hours a day for ...

I'm panicking my boyfriend will cheat on a guy's trip to Cuba. How should I respond or act in this situation?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 2855 days ago

16 January 2017 (F) - My boyfriend is in Cuba for one week on a guy's trip. I am beside myself with worry that he is going to cheat. I have read that prostitutes are around every corner there and they are dirt cheap. The anxiety is hard to take. I contact him a...

I feel ill for cheating on my boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2865 days ago

14 January 2017 (F) - I am currently feeling physically ill for cheating on my boyfriend and I would love some advice on what to do. Me and this other guy did not sleep together just hung out for the day and made out a bit.I am feeling incredibly bad for him as I didn't ...

My girlfriend's cousin seemed so flirtatious... am I imagining it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2869 days ago

11 January 2017 (M) - My girlfriend's cousin lives abroad. When we went to meet her, I got on with her and found her very friendly and enthusiastic. After a while I got that instinctive... is she flirting with me? feeling, but figured I was imagining it because my girlf...

How should I act towards him for the best outcome?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2871 days ago

9 January 2017 (F) - A while ago I kissed someone from work who I had liked for a while. He told me he had feelings for me and we began texting. -But then later said because his ex works at the same place nothing could happen. And then kissed a different co wor...

I like going out with her but it's destroying my self-conference!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2870 days ago

9 January 2017 (F) - Whenever I go out partying with my Best friend, all the boys flock to her or spend all evening telling me how hot she is. It is destroying my self confidence but I love hanging out with my friend. What to do? ...

How do I make my boyfriend more comfortable with talking intimately on the phone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2872 days ago

9 January 2017 (F) - My boyfriend can't talk intimately over the phone, and when I do it makes him uncomfortable. Everything's great when we're face to face together but we're in a long distance relationship and spend a couple of days each month together. We've been ...

We enjoy each other's company but nothing seems to be starting! Any advice, aunties?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2870 days ago

8 January 2017 (F) - In April last year I met a guy at a local sports club I go to and over the course of the last few months we've built up a friendship and now regularly see each other outside our sports club. We're both single and in our 30s and at the start of las...

What do I do? How can she still want to be with someone who she is not sexually attracted to, nor IN love with?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2855 days ago

8 January 2017 (M) - Apologies if I ramble but I have some much to get off my chest ?? My Fiancée of nearly 14 years and the mother of my 2 beautiful daughters (11 and 6) had told me she loved me but is not IN love with me several years ago. We have also not had...

Am I over reacting to husband's online interaction with another woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2873 days ago

8 January 2017 (F) - me and my husband are having some problems, maybe its all me i dont know but anyway.. few yeas back i caught him deleting messages from a co worker he said it was nothing but just didnt want me to get the wrong end of he stick so thought he would...

The phone messages he's been receiving from her do bother me. But how do I raise the issue with my husband?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2872 days ago

5 January 2017 (F) - Hello I am a woman in my late 20's who has been married for 2 years. I have a problem and don't know how to handle it. My husband back when we were first dating over 4 years ago had cheated on me with a woman he was friends with at a drunken par...

Should I consider that this friend I like is now available? What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

4 January 2017 (F) - I asked a friend who I like and who knows I like him, advice about dating as my ex is now started dating again and my friend told me to get out there etc. I then took a month away from social media. I came back mid/late December and I found out ...

Guy says he doesn't like me, but others say the opposite. What do you think? ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

4 January 2017 (F) - Question: Every guy I know says this guy obviously likes me, but the guy himself said to me it's not that way? He's close to me since my break up 5 months ago. He's brought me out, treated me to food and movies, would come all the way to my neighb...

How do I even begin to respond to him, when he ignores my good news?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

4 January 2017 (F) - Hey guys. So I (27yrs) just started dating this older gentleman (45yrs) whom I've grown quite fond of. We've been dating for a few months now. He doesn't outwardly flirt with me, but he use to ask how I was feeling and if I was having a good day. W...

We've Texted, met, dated. What do you think is going on with him? 3

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2876 days ago

3 January 2017 (F) - Meet this guy 40 like me, tons of stuff in common brillent chemistry. We've been talking for about 5wks now, been on 2 dates. He calls me not only to set up dates but to talk. He texts every morning to wish me a good day etc. He texted me yesterda...

He is also my colleague at work and we just broke up. How can I face him when I go back to work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2879 days ago

2 January 2017 (F) - Im from India working in a bank. I had a relationship with a colleague since last January.. he has one friend or girlfriend i don't know with whom he spent a lot of time..now even after our relationship they talk over phone. Once i caught him ...

Am I wasting my time with him? Should I say something to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2877 days ago

1 January 2017 (F) - I have a friend who claims he wants to be more than friends We once went on a date 2 years ago but for some reason ill never know he chickened out meeting up again . Fast forward to now he says hes sorted his head out and knows what he wants . ...