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writes:I have a friend who claims he wants to be more than friends We once went on a date 2 years ago but for some reason ill never know he chickened out meeting up again . Fast forward to now he says hes sorted his head out and knows what he wants . Spinning the lines he wants to make us work . My friend is on a dating site and told me he is on there too i am Not on the dating site myself , he knows i know hes on there and he is officially still single . Am i being stupid at this - he was online at 6am this morning but doesn't text me happy new year until 10am . i do know for a fact he didnt go out last night , if he truly meant what he said about 'making a go of it ' surly he would have texted me earlier instead of going on the dating site and chatting up whoever. I know some of you will say get rid and i understand why . Hes not your typical david beckham looking nor brad pitt looking he very much the opposite but i like that. Im not push over either im a independent person. Do i say something about being online or just keep it to myself ? it did annoy me
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 January 2017):
 Make a go off what exactly? You two need to get to know each other face to face before even thinking about making a go off anything, a lot changes in two years. He is single therefore no harm in online dating. It seems he is all words and no actions when it comes to you therefore I would take what he says as a pinch off salt.
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reader, clueless8989  +, writes (2 January 2017):
Men are easy to read. It sounds like he's just not that into you. If he was, trust me, you wouldn't be left wondering.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (1 January 2017):
 Have you two been on dates in PERSON or is this all "talk" from his end?
Wanting a relationship takes more than texting and FB messages.
Him being on a dating site doesn't mean he isn't wanted to date you, BUT it also shows that he doesn't want to put all his eggs in one basket. He is keeping his options open.
And being logged into something doesn't mean you are "online" on that site. Unless he is posting a lot there is no saying if he REALLY was online or not.
But if you think you can actually build a relationship online, you will find that you are wasting your time if it doesn't MOVE out into REALITY and meeting up and doing things TOGETHER in person. IMHO.
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