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Archived questions from: August, 2016 (see latest in Flirting category)

Flirting: Help and advice

Is this desperation? How can I break this obsessive cycle ? Any tips?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3000 days ago

31 August 2016 (F) - How can I overcome this desperation? I have been seeing a therapist after the last couple of years of dating (jerks) led me to this - long story short and since this is anonymous I can be honest. On the outside I'm a grown woman - I try to keep ...

Is Texting to guage interest a reliable strategy to determine how interested a guy is?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3002 days ago

31 August 2016 (F) - From my experience, I know that texting all the time in the beginning doesn't necessarily lead to long lasting, loving relationship. I have always been able to figure out a guys interest through their texting habits and has saved me time figuring...

I pass up most guy I meet, am I crazy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3001 days ago

31 August 2016 (F) - I date a lot and most men dont stand out to me. Am I crazy? They are all good people though, not bad at all and I feel bad about this but its like new faces but almost generic one after another. Even on personality, I can say that some even see...

Cute guy at the gym alternates between staring at me and ignoring me. Why would he act like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3001 days ago

31 August 2016 (F) - I noticed this cute guy at the gym that I became attracted to. My wing man helped me break the ice with him, so we had interacted a few times and say hi to each other occasionally. He would stare at me occasionally. He works out with his friends, ...

Why do I keep attracting married men instead of available single men?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3002 days ago

30 August 2016 (F) - Dear cupid I have been single for some years now but the only men that seem to be attracted to me is married men. Why is this happening to me? Do I have some type of vibe that they figure I date married men? I just don't understand this.I been a...

He's shy and in a class above me. I think he likes me, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3004 days ago

30 August 2016 (F) - Hi, I am a freshman in highschool and there is a guy in the class above me who I really like. When he was a freshman and I was in middle school, we were together for a month but broke up because of school and time with sports. This year is diff...

We met online. Am I being irrational about his actions? Should I be hurt ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3002 days ago

29 August 2016 (F) - I met a man a few weeks ago on a dating site app. He definitely came on strong and we texted quite a lot til I agreed to meet. I am very attracted to hm and likewise. He has some issues, recent divorce, job changes, relocation but seems very hea...

How do I tell my new friend I'm in the middle of a divorce without scaring him away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3005 days ago

28 August 2016 (F) - I left my abusive, adulterous husband 4 months ago.Emotionally, I divorced him years ago, but he stole every penny I made to keep me trapped. It took a long time to get away. I have been struggling to get back on my feet since I left, but the past ...

Boyfriend has a very flirty female friend but I want to be the only one that he shares inside jokes with and treats like a buddy... Like he does with her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3005 days ago

27 August 2016 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. He is 23 and I am 24 and we are just finishing up our undergraduate degrees, and we do not live together. I moved to a new city about 3 years ago, and he just moved here about a year ago. Of course w...

My boss says he's in love with me? Should I be with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3008 days ago

26 August 2016 (F) - Okay so here's the deal.. I have been working at my job for a few months now. When i went to the interview, i pretty much felt like I had it in the bag during all the interviews. Then the last person was a man and he was terribly gorgeous. I fe...

Is he moving things along too fast? Is it normal to try to turn a hook-up into a relationship in this way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3011 days ago

22 August 2016 (F) - I hooked up with this guy one night (no intercourse) and figured I'd never see him again. Through mutual friends, he got ahold of my number and asked me out. I said sure. In the past week, we have seen each other 3 times, although he's ask...

"You're the kind of weird guys think is interesting." What?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3011 days ago

22 August 2016 (F) - Okay so I'm just a lot to confused on what one of my friends meant by this. I was at one of my male friends house, and he prompted to call me weird. I responded telling I know this, its not anything new to me. He followed by saying "yes but, you're ...

Should I reach out to guy S? If yes what do I say? Or wait to see if N is still interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3013 days ago

21 August 2016 (M) - Okay. I’m going to start off by saying that there is probably a shorter way to explain my situation, but I can be sort of long winded. So I’m a gay man and I just finished college back in December. Five years ago, during my freshmen year of...

Is this marriage worth saving? 11 years together, married eight years

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3011 days ago

20 August 2016 (F) - When I met my husband I fell madly in love with him, I was still a Virgin he was my first love. Life was good.....two years later I realized my husband LOVES attention from females, we fought and fought about it so he called me names..... I'm j...

Kissed another woman for the first time and enjoyed it. What happens from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2762 days ago

20 August 2016 (F) - So i was at a friends wedding today (some alcohol consumed!) i was chatting with my girl friend (friends for years) about something random in the bathroom stall. Out of nowhere she said she had never kissed a girl and asked would i be up for it, i ...

How to handle husband who ignores me to chat up other females

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3015 days ago

18 August 2016 (F) - My husband got this bad habit even before we were married. He's playful around women especially the ones he knew. Whenever he saw any female he knew he talked with them making them laugh he completely forgot I'm standing next to him. One time I...

What is he trying to say? Says he has to ''stay away'' from me. He called me ''the devil''. Asked me if I still love him.

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 3004 days ago

17 August 2016 (F) - my ex stopped by to see me before i left for a 6 month business trip, he's been very distant from me for the past month and a half. he gives me a hug and holds me tight, he asked me if i missed him and i said no, then we started kissing and he told ...

Sexual tension with my friend. But I also have LDR boyfriend. Am I emotionally cheating? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3016 days ago

16 August 2016 (F) - Hey guys I really need some advice, I am in a relationship since two years. a year and half into the relationship we broke up, in that time i got together with a friend of mine. and my friend and i have extreme sexual tension between us even when ...

Sure ''anything'' could happen. But is he being genuine ? Are his words genuine? Or is he giving me false hope?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3017 days ago

15 August 2016 (F) - My ex and I broke up a few months ago when he told me he didnt know if he loved me anymore. Things are amicable so we're remaining friends. However, whenever i bring up my feelings for him and the relationship, he tells me "anything can ha...

I really do want to stop hurting my husband and my lover's wife. But how can I stop?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3015 days ago

14 August 2016 (F) - If you want to judge, please stop reading this right now. I need advice, not lectures. I have been married for nearly 20 years now, no kids. I have never felt the need to seek fulfillment elsewhere since me and my husband have been truly happy...

What do you think of the things that my ex said to me? I still find my ex attractive

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3017 days ago

14 August 2016 (F) - This is about my ex and his brother. I dated my ex for about four months last year. It didn't go well because we were both unwell at the time. I had only just come out of hospital when I met him. I was in there about my mental health problems...

Married but cheating on my husband with two other men. Exciting for me but it's becoming too much. What are my options?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3020 days ago

14 August 2016 (F) - I'm a married female,no kids, who has been cheating on my husband with a single man for almost two years now... A couple months ago when I arrived at my guys apartment,another man was there with him, who he said was one of his friends from way back...

Help with confidence in a relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3023 days ago

10 August 2016 (F) - Hi, the last boyfriend i had took drugs and smoked. Also i had suspicions he cheated on me with his girl best friend. He was nice to me until i dumped him because my parents thought he was bad news. When i dumped him he started saying he wad going ...

He's telling them our relationship has ended before he even told me. How do I let go and move on from him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3018 days ago

10 August 2016 (F) - My partner and I have been together 6 and a half years, since I was 16. We both live with my parents and over the course of our relationship we have done for 3-4 years. Roughly 2 years ago, my partner dumped me, for me it was completely out o...

My boyfriend said he doesn't want me to work with him 'in case I get upset because of what he says to other women?'

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3024 days ago

10 August 2016 (F) - Earlier this year my boyfriend of 6 years wanted to go for a very promising job opportunity and encouraged me to go for it as well. He said it wouldn't matter that we worked together, though I was sceptical as I don't want us to see 'too much' of ...

Was I rude to not text him? How should I handle things when I next see him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3025 days ago

9 August 2016 (F) - So 2 weeks ago , I was telling 2 of my co-workers that I have to go for my road test soon but I haven't mastered Paralell Parking. One of the guys said he can teach me and knows a very easy way to do it. Him and I joke around allot and he seems li...

He's unhappily married. Does he like me or is it all in my head??!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3024 days ago

9 August 2016 (F) - He's 37, I'm 24. He's married, unhappily I might add. So I would NEVER do anything. But, I have the feeling he has a thing for me. Based off of a few observations: - finds reasons to visit my department and talk to me for a long period of...

Are these Red Flags ? Am I being too sensitive and too hard on him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3024 days ago

8 August 2016 (F) - I don't know where to begin. I hope someone can give me good insight. So I've been dating a guy for about four months now. We became officially exclusive 2 months ago, though he said he wasn't dating anyone or even looking the entire four mont...

Do I tell my friend what her father said? What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3026 days ago

8 August 2016 (F) - I went to a dinner party for one of my best friends, and her dad who is married complimented me twice. Both times I felt very uncomfortable. He called my name across the table, and begin to say how attractive I am. And as I was leaving the party he...

My best friend doesn't want to see me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3018 days ago

5 August 2016 (F) - Hello, I'm in a really weird situation. I'm a student and I live in a house with 6 other people. One of them is Joe, and I ever since I've met him I've had a crush on him. The past year we've become really close friends, he's a sweet guy but he's ...

How to ask your teacher nicely to stop flirting with you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3018 days ago

2 August 2016 (F) - I go to tuition to a male teacher ... suppose his name is MR X . Mr X is 50 yrs old he is really really good teacher as long as he teaches .. My school teacher aint that good in teaching but he flirts with me i think .. he has touched my hands ...