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writes:So i was at a friends wedding today (some alcohol consumed!) i was chatting with my girl friend (friends for years) about something random in the bathroom stall. Out of nowhere she said she had never kissed a girl and asked would i be up for it, i have a pretty open relationship with my fiance so i said she could kiss me if she wanted to. And she did. To be honest i was taken aback by her passion (so to speak) and i pulled away and joked about how did she like it and then she jumped me again. Afterwards she was freaked out by having kissed a girl... i wasnt really. But i enjoyed it... waht happens from there? Do you pretend nothing happened? I would sort of like to explore it now...
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (29 April 2017):
 You might be treading on a landmine here. I presume from the tone of the post that by open relationship you mean that you're free and forthcoming with your fiance regarding most things and not that you're open to sleeping around when others.
What do you want to explore now? Do you want to possibly have sex with another woman? Are you considering a potential threesome? All very dangerous in real life, if you ask me, considering the fact that you have a boyfriend and are in a committed relationship. Some things sound great in fantasies but don't play out well in reality.
Look before you leap.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2016): Open relationship as in 'Able to sleep with other people'?Needless to say, if she is weirded out by it, then let her be. She asked, you obliged. If you want to explore with another woman, then there are plenty of others that would be only too happy.Just be aware that you will probably need to bring this up with the partner, as open or not, you can't just hide a desire of this magnitude if you wish to act upon it. He may also wish to explore this as a couple. In which case you may be asked to participate in a threesome, which may or may not be a good way for you to be introduced to a lesbian sexual endeavour.Either way, to not talk to your husband about this new aspect of your personality and possible new aspect of your relationship he needs to know if he is okay with.Even, actually especially, with an open relationship, communication is key.
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