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Archived questions from: November, 2019 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

I'm in a messy relationship with no romance.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1815 days ago

30 November 2019 (F) - I've been with my bf for 4 years. We have one child together and he is 5. Around the time I got pregnant, we were having issues and broke up. Shortly after, he got a new gf and they were together for about about a year and a half, all thru my pregn...

Married in haste, husband wont work or take care of family.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1817 days ago

30 November 2019 (F) - I have been married for a little over a year. I feel like my marriage was a mistake because I my husband and I dated for two months because we married. We now have a baby together and things have just gotten worse for me. I have children from a ...

I don't want my MIL in the delivery room!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1813 days ago

29 November 2019 (F) - I've been with my husband for over a decade, we've been married for 7 years and have one child so far and one on the way. Over the years, my mother in law has made several disrespectful comments about my mom and some of my other family members. She ...

I cant stand up to my wife when it comes to money.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1816 days ago

29 November 2019 (M) - I don't know how to stand up to my wife when it comes to money. She literally spends a fortune on things and activities we just don't need to do and no matter how much I try to put money away for a rainy day, we always end up with nothing at the end ...

What do I do to get people to stop trying to ruin the new life I'm trying to build?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1815 days ago

28 November 2019 (F) - I'm 40 years old and just got out of prison after 10 years almost two years ago. I went straight into a halfway house where I followed the rules, went to AA (my drug of choice is alcohol although I've done other things before prison), got a job a ...

I have a crush on my boyfriend's uncle

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1818 days ago

28 November 2019 (F) - I have a crush on my boyfriends uncle. Is that normal?. When he comes to our house I start to stare at him. When his uncle smiles at me I feel like kissing him. I can't control my feelings for him. ...

Does anybody have any advice for handling negativity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1817 days ago

26 November 2019 (M) - Does anybody have any advice for handling negativity? I have lost a lot of achieved last few years which has led me to become a little quiet. I am trying to build myself up however I cannot accept negativity anymore. If anybody criticises me I can...

Does a woman just have to suck it up when their husbands refuse to grow?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1639 days ago

26 November 2019 (F) - I have been married for twenty years and at the time of marrying my husband he was never one to express his feelings much. At the time I had a couple of young children and we also went on to have more . Life was extremely busy and this met both our ...

Rebound sex, should I go for it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1814 days ago

23 November 2019 (F) - Hi, I'm struggling to clearly explain this so for context here is a brief timeline 2008 - met my husband 2013 - married husband 2015 - started new training scheme - met load of people who became good friends and vague friends incl Alex 201...

My life isnt going the way I'd like it to!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1822 days ago

23 November 2019 (F) - Hello. I thought I would put my problems on here, hopefully to give me some perspective. This year has been the hardest year of my life. I am struggling so much at the moment but trying so hard to keep positive. Firstly, I was in hospital wit...

I've left my dishonourable husband but my parents don't trust the new man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1820 days ago

22 November 2019 (F) - Hello.. i have asked questions before this and this is my life update. Im currently still legally married with my husband but i went back to my parents home last month. I keep ranting about my husband before and everybody here told me just divorc...

Is it childish of me to tell my mother about our arguments?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1822 days ago

22 November 2019 (F) - Hello agony aunts. I'm in my first serious relationship with a man. I've only dated a few guys before but it wasn't that serious and more like short term relationships. Since I'm taking things serious with this man and planning to get engaged,...

I'm having weird sexual dreams about my inlaws.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1824 days ago

21 November 2019 (F) - I’m 30 married for 9 years to a great husband with a good family. My father died when I was 2 and went thru an extremely traumatizing, sexually and physically abusive child hood. Now that I really trust my in laws and am pretty happy, I find ...

My teenage son is hitting on my wife.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1823 days ago

17 November 2019 (M) - Afternoon all.. so I remarried 15 years ago and my older son is now 19 and I think he’s been hitting on my wife and I’m not sure what to say ...

I've realised my partner is a lazy lowlife scrounger who doesn't bath frequently enough.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1830 days ago

16 November 2019 (F) - Hey everyone what do you when you realise your partner is a lazy lowlife scrounger when I first met my partner he had a job his own flat and looked after himself that was 6 years ago fast forward to now he is a selfish scruffy low life who thinks of ...

What can we do when his ex is lying so much but gets away with it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1829 days ago

14 November 2019 (F) - Hello. We are in a tricky situation at the moment and could do with some advice. Me and my husband have been together 9 years. I have 2 Step children. He broke up with ex 2 years before me. His ex is a true narcissist. She doesn’t have ...

Should I give up on my alcoholic boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1834 days ago

12 November 2019 (F) - Hi. Iv been living with my boyfriend for 2 years.he is an alcoholic.he said he will never give uo drinking. Drinking is more important than me. He has met my family but doesnt want anything to actually do with them. saying they are lovely etc but ...

My overbearing grandparents have left me feeling isolated

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1835 days ago

9 November 2019 (F) - When I was in HS (and younger) I was raised by very strict, old-fashioned grandparents who sheltered me. I got made fun of a lot for not getting cultural references or not knowing who many celebrities were. I was not allowed overnights or friends in ...

I love my girlfriend but am lusting after her mom

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1830 days ago

7 November 2019 (M) - I love my girlfriend but I can't stop lusting after her Mum. Is there something wrong with me? We've been together for 2 years and are both 24. Her Mum is 41. I don't know what it is but over the past few months or so I've started finding her Mum ...

I'm so angry that he'll let his parents destroy our family

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1834 days ago

4 November 2019 (F) - Hi my husband and I are both 31 with a 4 year old daughter. Long story. I found out I was pregnant early on in the relationship and after I had lost my job. Lived with the in laws and my MIL and SIL are VERY INTERFERRING. I get post natal depression ...

Married and living with my parents. Should I have to tell them where I am? My husband knows

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1836 days ago

3 November 2019 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 6 years and we have a 3 year old. We used to live at my husband's home for the past couples of years and recently moved to an apartment that my dad built for me behind their home since my father did not like ...

Should I return the call of my estranged aunt?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1843 days ago

3 November 2019 (F) - Hi All, I've been estranged from my father's family for over twelve years. It's a very long story but in short, after he and my grandmother died, there was a lot of anger, resentment and accusations. Because he and my mom were separated at the...

No one seems to like my daughter

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1842 days ago

2 November 2019 (F) - My 12-year-old daughter is constantly being rejected and I'm sick of it! When she was 6 month old I sent her to an in home sitter so I could actually get work done. (I'm a medical transcriptionist). I sent her w expressed milk, cloth diapers, and ...