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Archived questions from: May, 2015 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

I'm living with Hydrocephalus and my parents aren't allowing me to make my own decisions!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3460 days ago

31 May 2015 (F) - Hello, I am a student who is looking to transfer from community college to WSU Vancouver next year but my parents won't let me move. The reason why is because I have a hydrocephalus VP shunt and they believe the school is too far from home when it ...

I want to meet my online guy but my parents likely won't allow it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3461 days ago

31 May 2015 (F) - Hey everyone! I really want to meet this guy that I have been having contact with for more than 2 years. We always Skype and usually text or talk on the phone. He's willing to pay for my flight but I have a dilemma. My parents are pretty stric...

Do men want kids as much as women? Can men have a strong desire for children?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3461 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - Is a man's desire to have kids as strong as a woman' s? Obviously this requires a bit of generalisation - there are plenty of women that don't want kids, and plenty of men that do - but are men generally a bit more ambivalent towards kids?...

Can you think of examples where a woman initiated a relationship? I need some examples to demolish my long held view that this never happens.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3460 days ago

30 May 2015 (M) - Because it seems, to me, that all boyfriend and girlfriend relationships are still initiated by the guy, where the man approaches the woman first, talks to her first and asked her out first, initiated everything or almost everything in the ...

My partner has become snappy and a little controlling. But what to do about my growing feelings for my boss?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3462 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - please bare with me with this question as it has been bugging me for a long time now and I'm at my wits end with it. Basically, four years ago I met my partner and I thought he was amazing to begin with. We became engaged in April of last...

Why does my boyfriend barely keep in touch while he is out of town? is it suspicious? It's upsetting.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3460 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - My boyfriend is away for four days visiting his mother in California. We were together for the whole week before he left. We really bonded and had an amazing time together. Fast forward to the day after he gets to California. He emails to l...

He says he's been vaccinated for hepatitis B as his father has hepatitis B. Are my fears justified that I could catch it too, in this situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3457 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - I've recently started seeing a man. We get along very well and I do hope to continue into something more serious with him. However when we were talking about our families he mentioned in passing his dad has hepatitis b and a weak liver. He said he ...

Will he really choose love over religion?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3462 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - I really need some advice. Its tearing me apart. I am a 20 year old non religious female student living in the UK, my current partner is a 19 year old male Muslim student living in the same city as myself. We are head over heals in love with each ...

My boyfriend is tiring me out by following a routine that does not suit a young mother. What can I do to get him to realise this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3462 days ago

29 May 2015 (F) - Hi everyone my problem is my boyfriend we have been together for nearly 3 year we have a 5 month old son together. He goes to work, finishes at 4 comes to mine at 6 for tea, goes home, and comes back when our son is asleep. By then I'm tired and go...

How do I win him back and feel better? My Mom and My Aunt don't like him

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3461 days ago

29 May 2015 (F) - I fell for this guy; I'm 23 and he's nearly 30. He seems to like me and he's also sexually attracted to me. However, I haven't been able to date him as I was trying to finish off my degree at the time. This is still an on-going problem as I'm s...

The Art of Arguing. What helps you to resolve issues in your relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3327 days ago

28 May 2015 (F) - There's a song by Ne-Yo that absolutely cracks me up now whenever I hear it. "When You're Mad" talks about how sexy it is when your partner gets angry and more than implies the joys and benefits of make-up sex! Deep within my nature, I do hav...

He lied about having a baby and a wife, I can't trust him anymore but I'm still with him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3464 days ago

28 May 2015 (F) - I lived with my bf for a year.. He's from Iraq and I am from South America but we both live in United States. I discovered some pics on Facebook about him and a baby which I asked and he said it is his nephew..after that like 3 months after a woman ...

Man 1 fathered my son aged 2. Man 2 fathered my unborn child. Just broke up with Man 2. Should I accept offer from Man 2 to still see my 2 year old son?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3465 days ago

27 May 2015 (F) - So trying to cut it short. Pregnant with second child different man to first and first childs dad is not around. Been friends with this man 2 years together for 10 months .. My son is 2 and they get on well however since getting pregnant (un...

His new girlfriend posted pictures of our daughter on Facebook and didn't reply or remove them when I asked!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3464 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - I need to get peoples view on whether I'm over reacting or not. My little girls dad's girlfriend recently posted a load of photos of the three of them together on facebook and has even referred to my daughter on facebook as "Our little princess". I...

Should I be allowed a lock on my door?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3464 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - Hello, opinions on my situation please. I currently live with my step mum dad and little sister. My little sister is my half sister my step mum is her mum. Ive only lived with them for a few months. I used to live with my mum other sister, I was ve...

My husband is pressuring me for a threesome.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3466 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - Hi..We r married not very happily but married for 6yrs..I feel n it's true my husband was never true with me.no doubt he loves me n kids but he's very confused b character less person.since 5 yrs he's pressuring me for three some.every time he wants ...

He likes to show me affection but shuts me off when I do the same.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3465 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - I have been friends with this man for 3 years. We met online and gradually become really close friends. When we become friends, he was living a 1000 miles away from my city, now, he moved to my city, living only a mile away from my home. We meet ...

I feel like there are 4 in this relationship..me, him and his parents!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3466 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - Hi I''d like some impartial advice on whether I'm over-reacting and getting ahead of myself and secondly how I deal with the situation. My partner and I have been together a year and a half, he's nearly 10 years older than I am so we've moved fa...

Boyfriend of 10 years wants kids and I don't

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3462 days ago

25 May 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over ten years and everything is great - I love him and I know he loves me. But the problem is that he wants kids and I don't. We started dating when we were teenagers so it really wasn't an issue ...

How do I deal with my inlaws who show up unannounced every day and won't call first?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3466 days ago

25 May 2015 (F) - I'd love some advice/opinions from anyone that has a tension-filled relationship with their inlaws. I really don't know whether I'm overreacting and over sensitive as I've been made to feel I am. My inlaws are eccentric types. They're the typ...

Dad hasn't changed at all and won't let me live my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3467 days ago

25 May 2015 (F) - Hello. I am highly stressed out because my dad doesn't want me to have a boyfriend or move out of the house. EVER. Although, he HAS MET my boyfriend last year and I have been with this guy for three years. I am 18. My dad thinks my grades would go ...

My sister slept with the guy I liked and she knew I liked him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3466 days ago

25 May 2015 (F) - Hi hope you can help me out , I've liked this lad for a few years he used to come into where I worked and I used to see him on the weekends at the pub he's slept over mine a few times and we've kissed but I'd just split up with my boyfrien...

Should I take time off to be with my mother, before she passes, or take time off after to help my family adjust?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3457 days ago

25 May 2015 (M) - I'm in a state of confliction currently. My mom is currently on her final days. It sucks, and my head is all over the place. I'm struggling to come to terms with myself and how I am reacting to all of this. I know it sucks. I hate this. It's not ...

I feel like I don't deserve my family, my friends or my man. Do I need to see someone about these feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3467 days ago

24 May 2015 (F) - I am struggling for about a month now with extreme guiltiness. I am a nervy wreck most of the time. I feel like such a terrible partner/daughter\sister/friend. I have so many great people in my life and i feel like i dont deserve them. Ive hurt them ...

How do I be there for my girlfriend when she doesn't like to lean on others?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3466 days ago

24 May 2015 (M) - Thanks for those who are reading this. I just need some advice in a difficult situation. My girlfriend of 6 months had her cousin die in heart surgery a week ago and now her grandmother is paralyzed from the waist down which just happened two days...

Why do I never get to meet or spend time with my boyfriends family/friends? He always has excuses!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3466 days ago

24 May 2015 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for over 2 years. We have two issues in our relationship. One being hes not affectionate, romantic, and plays videos games non stop when hes off work. The second being ive only met his mom once and that was two years ago, ...

Despite all these set backs, and my feeling that I just can't win: how do I recover from all this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3467 days ago

24 May 2015 (M) - This has been the most frustrating time of my life. To start the year off I decided I would get back with my ex girlfriend. Who had gotten married for money so this guy could get a green card. Yeah there was no money lol. But I had been in a rela...

How do I keep my friend safe? why was I agressive?...and why didn't he stop me,or get upset?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

24 May 2015 (F) - Hi I’m a bit worried, I had just gotten yelled at rather bad by my family I went to be all snuggly with a good friend and yea was crying and quite a bit upset...and I did this terrible thing. Like I hardly knew but I asked if I could be not nice ...

What are my options, because I feel trapped? He shouts and becomes abusive. I want to pack my bags and go with our child.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3466 days ago

24 May 2015 (F) - I've been with my husband for almost 11 years, married for 5. We have a little boy who is 2 and a half. I'm really stuck as to whether I should leave my husband. I haven't been in love with him for a while. However we are good friends and bein...

Feeling hurt and confused. We are not official. Yet why tell me had a date? was it said to get a reaction?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3461 days ago

24 May 2015 (F) - Dear Aunts, There is a guy that I have been seeing. Its not official or anything. We kiss, go out, go to each other homes etc. He has always described me as his part time woman which i feel like for the time but I want to take it to the next leve...

Feel betrayed, hurt, and extremely upset about her lies on her friendship/relationship with T. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3466 days ago

24 May 2015 (M) - My wife and I have been married for a little over two years, and have been together for nearly 6 years. About 7 months after we started dating I met her friend, (a guy called T), who she said was her best friend. At first I was a little put off,...

Help! My 14 yr old daughter is viewing porn

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3461 days ago

23 May 2015 (F) - My 14 yr old daughter has been viewing porn on the internet. We have discussed this and she said she was curious, my husband doesn't feel it's a big deal because he had playboys. I am more concerned because I was having sex at her age and don't want ...

His words say one thing and his actions another.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3469 days ago

23 May 2015 (F) - My boyfriend of almost 7 months and I are having problems. We've never fought before and we have had an amazing relationship. We were constantly together all last semester then he graduated but we constantly hung out even then. But now since school ...

Almost 9 years together. How should I tell my now nine year old son, that his stepfather will not be in his life after I breakup with his stepfather?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3469 days ago

23 May 2015 (F) - I am in a relationship with a man, and I am confused. I want to break it off with him because he is not a good father to his kids. He has not seen them in two years and is not paying his child support. As a matter of fact, he stopped working ...

Wife of 5 years says her heart was always with someone else

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3469 days ago

22 May 2015 (M) - I’m just devastated by the news that I just received, and just wondering if I can get perspective from other men and women. My wife and I have been married for 5 years, together for 7. I accepted her 2 children from her previous marriage with op...

I have gained weight and my health obsessive MIL is coming for a visit!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3466 days ago

22 May 2015 (F) - My mother-in-law, let’s call her Mildred, is coming for a visit. My husband and she simply do not get along, sad fact. But, right now I need your advice on how to survive her obsession with physical beauty/looks/exercise/food, having in mind that I ...

If they arent legally his, should they be his heirs?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3469 days ago

22 May 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 10 years, living together for 7, with no plans for marriage. That part is fine with me actually. I have 2 sons who are currently 15 and 18, so BF has pretty much raised them and is their Father figure. ...

I want to shut my brother out of my life but my family will not give up on him? How do I still shut him out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3470 days ago

22 May 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am not after romantic relationship advice, but family relationships. I have a brother. I will start from the beginning so you can advise knowing absolutely everything there is to know. He went to the army when he was 17 and was ...

I'm being pushed into a marriage that I don't want! I want out but don't want to hurt anyone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3467 days ago

22 May 2015 (F) - My parents have seen a guy for me to get married.That guy is my relative. he is 10 years older to me.i felt it as so odd.Im 23 and he is 32.We never really talked or met much.All my relatives and my parents forced and brainwashed me to accept that ...

How to tell my mom I have a boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2146 days ago

21 May 2015 (F) - I'm 13 and I have a boyfriend we have been going out for 9 mouths now he's my first real relationship. and he told his parents about me but I haven't told my mom. he came to my Birthday party my mom has meet him a couple of times to. But she still ...

My husband has been very ill and now has depression. But his anger is affecting me. How am I supposed to put up with all his changed behaviour?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

21 May 2015 (F) - 6 months ago my husband has emergency surgery. He had been suffering with ulcerative colitis and it had gotten so bad it was life threatening. He had a horrendous recovery and now has a ileostomy at 26 and a surgical hernia. He suffers badly wi...

Is my Bf too good to be true? I like him, my family don't like him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3466 days ago

21 May 2015 (F) - I just recently got into a relationship with this guy. I've had a thing for him a long time and he has too. so we decided to make it official. The problem is he is a bad boy. Half of my family doesn't even like him already, without even kno...

In a very new relationship. How can I make it up to him? Could I have handled the situation differently?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3286 days ago

21 May 2015 (F) - I'm in a very new relationship (7 weeks) and recently my boyfriend told me that his family had invited us both to a family BBQ they are having for the bank holiday. Now I'm carer and my job is very important to me. Last year I worked my birthday, a ...

My ex-boyfriend cheated on me and he and my former best friend, (who is also my cousin), are now a couple. How do I get over this betrayal by the two of them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

21 May 2015 (F) - I was relationship with a guy like for 4 years suddenly one day he told me he is seeing someone else and that girl is my cousin. She knows everything about our relationship and also she knows how much I loved him. But I don't know why the hell a b...

My 17 year old daughter has told me she is bi-sexual. I've accepted it, but I am very upset by this news. What's the best way for me to go forward?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3445 days ago

20 May 2015 (F) - Yesterday, my 17 year old daughter told me she is bi-sexual. I have noticed for a couple of months that she has been very distant from everyone except me. I asked her to tell me what was wrong and she eventually told me. I am very proud of th...

Am I unreasonable to be upset that she won't come out for my birthday meal with family?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

19 May 2015 (M) - IT is my Birthday next week and my family are going for a meal in the evening. Naturally they have invited my girlfriend of three years. She says she doesn't know if she can come because she has plans with her family during the day, and it may put ...

I don't think I can do a long distance relationship with a man who has a kid

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

19 May 2015 (F) - I have been dating a guy for two years with a kid. Recently, he's graduated from college. We've been discussing moving in together for a while over the Summer. He wants to take a year off from school but lately he's been talking about going to grad ...

I still love him, I like the sex but I can't move on if this carries on can I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

19 May 2015 (F) - My boyfriend messed me around so much that I ended our relationship. But now I'm in a friends with benefits relationship with him, and even though our sex is great, and we get on better then we ever did together, I feel like I'll never get over our...

Is our relationship really over? Is it selfish of me to want more from our relationshhip?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3473 days ago

19 May 2015 (F) - I have been with my partner for four years since I was 16; we met in college and now he is university and I work full time. The past year we have both had our problems with families, mine has been awful and he is the light in all of it and what mak...

Wife refuses intimacy, except for procreation. Threatens to deny access to children. I can't put up with her behaviour. What can I do?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3311 days ago

19 May 2015 (M) - It started almost the first month we were married, there was no intimacy. After years of no intimacy and no physical contact in our relationship, I was very resentful. The only time we had intimacy or physical contact was when she wanted children...