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Archived questions from: May, 2021 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Is there potential with this girl (24/F) or should it be obvious by now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1255 days ago

30 May 2021 (M) - Hello everyone. I don't really believe in asking these types of questions online but I don't have anyone I know that I could ask this about. I also don't think I could really get an "answer" as such but I'd like to hear people's thoughts. I've...

My boyfriend hurts me unintentionally during sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1275 days ago

29 May 2021 (F) - I have known this guy for a while, and I am happy. We have what i think is a normal sex life, but He sometimes hurts me unintentually when we make love. I know that he likes us to make love alot and I like it too but sometimes I have to ask him to ...

My sister broke up with her boyfriend for a new guy and now I don't want to talk to her

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1276 days ago

28 May 2021 (F) - My sister 33 left her bf of 6 years in December. She didn't tell me they were having problems until after the breakup. Then she suddenly met someone else and was saying how happy she is. Her ex did so much for her so I stopped talking to her after ...

We broke up but are back in touch but now I feel there is distance

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1277 days ago

26 May 2021 (M) - I broke up with my gf of 5 years over argument. Since that we both realised we are still in love. However we have both been busy in our routines. We still text daily with morning and good night however I feel like there’s now distance between us. ...

My boyfriend is 30 years old and his parents are too controlling

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1278 days ago

24 May 2021 (F) - So my boyfriend and I were going to use his family’s motor home for the weekend. His mom learned I was not getting the covid vaccine and told my boyfriends dad his dad then stated I couldn’t be in his motor home his house or his cabin. I was upset ...

My boyfriend is very clingy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1276 days ago

24 May 2021 (F) - My new bf is really clingy. I'm 33 and he's 29 and I adore him but he is always needing to be touching me somehow, or hugging or kissing and k find it really overwhelming. I tell him and he gets upset or offended as if I don't like him when I say ...

Boyfriend won't come over unless sex is a part of the night

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1281 days ago

23 May 2021 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend whos 42 for a few years now but he wont come over to take me out unless sex is involved. i just want to go out for a walk together but he wont come over unless i stay somewhere with him the night. i feel like this is ...

My sweet boyfriend has turned into a really unpleasant man

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1282 days ago

23 May 2021 (F) - Hello thanks for your comments and advice in advance! So me and my bf have been together 3 years. At the beginning he was so sweet, caring, loving and thoughtful. This last year has been like a nightmare. Thankfully I didn't accept his propo...

Is his behavior normal? Or suspicious?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1282 days ago

23 May 2021 (F) - Pretty much looking for opinions please. Would you think someone would go to the pub (till 1am), go home on their own and stay awake for a further 4 hours? This is after consuming a lot of vodka and have work at 9am. For a bit of backgrou...

He's the one who has cheated yet he doesn't trust me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1283 days ago

21 May 2021 (F) - Hello, dear cupid, I want to know something about my boyfriend's behaviour. I've been dating him since the past five years it's a long distance relationship,we met in a youth conference, he asked my number and after that we started chatting and ...

My Girlfriend cheated on me - Why does it turn me on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1176 days ago

19 May 2021 (M) - I found out my girlfriend cheated on me last week. I should be angry and upset with her. Heartbroken even. But I’m not. In fact the thought of it turns me on to the point where I wish I could’ve watched them do it. It happened about 6 weeks ag...

Boyfriend doesn't want me to get a dog. Is this petty? Or controlling?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1285 days ago

18 May 2021 (F) - Hi guys and gals So for the past 5 years I have been in a relationship with a man who has massive anxiety issues, ocd , depression and has control issues to which be has admitted. Before I start I should mention, we are not engaged , we do ...

Is the issue myself or does the world just think I'm not worth it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1286 days ago

17 May 2021 (F) - Hey, 23 soon to be 24 in about 3 weeks, lady wondering why on this moss and water covered rock why no males my age seem interested in me. From looking online, to putting myself on dating sites and just existing sometimes offline, no one seems to ...

Am I doing the right thing getting married when I still have such strong feelings for my ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1288 days ago

15 May 2021 (F) - I am female and i had been dating a guy for about 3 years before leaving him and meeting someone else after. We were engaged, supposedly, but after a few months of our engagement he told me he might not be able to go through with it any time soon, ...

What if a guy cups your face in his hand?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1290 days ago

15 May 2021 (F) - How relevant is it if a guy cups your face in his hand? Does that mean he has deep and loving feelings towards you? Or is that a side of physical attraction? Was he thinking about a kiss? I am talking about taking one hand and gently cupping a...

He's broken up with me 5 times in 2 years. Should I continue to see him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1292 days ago

13 May 2021 (F) - Hi I need some advice about a relationship I am a widow, my husband died 8 years ago and two years ago I met a lovely man and fell in love. But he has finished our relationship 5 times so far and caused me a lot of heartache. The last time it ...

My fiance expects me to help his mother financially. I don't want this to continue

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1287 days ago

13 May 2021 (F) - Hello and thanks! So my fiancee and I have been together for 4 years. He expects that I help his mom monthly. She is always needing something. bill's, food, clothes this that. I seen a recent picture of her with nice gold earrings and a t...

Is it okay to talk to an ex while dating other girls

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1292 days ago

13 May 2021 (M) - Hello, I have a question about whether it's okay to talk to an ex while dating other girls (but not boyfriend and girlfriend). Here is the story: I had just recently broken up with my ex whom I had been dating for a few years. We broke up due to ...

My girlfriend's ex is trying to get back into her life and I'm not sure how to handle it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1294 days ago

10 May 2021 (M) - I've been dating a woman, Megan, who's been divorced for a long time now, at the time she was already divorced for 4 years and was ready for a relationship. We met in March 2015. Our relationship has been pretty good, and is now in the serious s...

Anyone living with their partner in an anxious-avoidant type relationship, did living together help to improve the relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1294 days ago

10 May 2021 (M) - I am firmly in an anxious-avoidant type relationship (as the anxious one). It is often very difficult for me but I guess we have decided to stay together anyways. We are both aware of this dynamic between us, and it seems like we gradually get ...

My boyfriend is too busy for me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1299 days ago

6 May 2021 (F) - My LDR boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 7 months. He always forgets our anniversaries, but I'm used to it. For the past two months, we haven't been able to talk properly.. He says he's too busy with school even if i try to get in contact ...

The man I'm seeing doesn't seem to want to get vaccinated. I think its a deal breaker

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1298 days ago

3 May 2021 (F) - Hi, I have reconnected with a man, who a had a few dates with, a few years back. We really hit it off, but life sort of got in the way. I was an empty nester, but he was a widower with three kids home from 10-21. We started chatting in late ...

Why would my boyfriend mute me while talking to me on a whatsapp call?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1301 days ago

2 May 2021 (F) - Hello everybody. My boyfriend is coming back to Canada after being overseas working. He called me from the airport as he is on his way home today. We had a nice, long chat. And all was great. Except when he put me on MUTE during the call. I was ...

People who continue to date when they aren't attracted and possibly lonely.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1303 days ago

2 May 2021 (M) - I'm a 35-year-old gay man. I keep finding myself in situations where I meet guys off dating apps, and I receive all the signs they want to continue dating but something feels off, I realize they want to be friends. It's very confusing, one guy ...